tiggleman27
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i dont think so... i mean dont be like DO YOU GOT HERPES?!!?!? just ask her niclely not to inslut her.
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Kay~Kay
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it dependz
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Ambra
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if she doesn't have it then she should have no problem answering the question. But don't be surprised if she is insulted though. It all boils down to health and I applaud you for putting your health first and not sacrificing it for NO ONE!!.
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girl522
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She probably would be but you there is really no reason to discuss whether anyone has oral herpes or not since almost 85% of people have it anyway. The only thing you need to worry about is HSV2 genital herpes.
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Tigress
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Some girls would. Lots of girls wouldn't know the answer!
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☺Bojanglesvegan☺
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maybe, but i dont think that should stop you. your just being cautious, you don't know wether or not she carries that disease. she could have it and not be having a break out at the time.
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insertstrawhere
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well like 70 % of people (including children) have oral herpes . Its very common .
So you most likely you already have it .
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♥мαи∂ιѕ♥
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yes...well in a way...I would say it would hurt me...so more like yes.
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cheeky
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YES she would!! thats a bit of an odd thing to come out with and not very romantic..............i dont think you'd get any kisses if you started off like that
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Jo
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kissed her where? a cold sore on the lip is pretty evident. herpes is contagious when there is a lesion present.
if a woman has herpes and is infectious she should tell you when you try to kiss her if she cares about you.
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baby girl 89
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i think it all depends on who u ask and how u ask it. if u dont wanna ask her knida hint it to her and see what she says.
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graymond13
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It is a good idea to know these things BEFORE you kiss.
If this were a person I wanted to kiss and STD's were an issue to me, then I would like to get to know them better before I ventured into something that might be disturbing to me. Kissing is very intimate. I say know the person before sharing this with them.
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dr_hiren80
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sure
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2000
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It's interesting that you are concerned about insulting the girl. Its not a popular opinion, but I believe that intimacy (including kissing) should be reserved for the people with whom you have built a foundation. If you knew her well enough to kiss her, you would not need to worry about her reaction to this and other uneasy (but necessary) questions.
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kaz
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yeah she would be
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hotbull3838
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Yes ofcourse
And you dont get herps while kissing, dude
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Lottie W
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I think people rush into kissing. I know I do.
I have never asked or been asked that question, an it is really dumb to expose yourself to diseases because you don't want to be embarrassed or embarrass your date.
Try taking more time. Your health and your future are at risk, everytime you get physical with anyone.Get to know the person, and how she thinks about her health and her concern for others. You might find out she is reckless or has a history you don't want to share.
THEN get physical, if she is a good risk and you have managed to find out what illnesses she has.
Your life could depend on her answers and your response.
Good luck!
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ghost orchid
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If you pop the question when the conversation beforehand had nothing to do with it, yes. Even though anyone can get herpes, many people still feel that herpes is something that only promiscuous, dirty, or diseased people get. (Totally untrue of course. Can you imagine people saying the same things about someone who came down with a cold?) It is your right to know if the person you are with has an STD, if you are going to be doing something that may transmit the STD. However, this should not be a right-before-a-kiss type of question, and it shouldn't go unexplained. Well before kissing (like, hours) talk to the girl about how you are scared of getting an STD and give your reasons. Then ask her, but emphasize it isn't because you think she is dirty - tell her that you're only asking because you know it can be easily transmitted, that anyone can get it due to slight chances even if they do everything properly, and finally that she doesn't have to tell you if she doesn't want to. (Although most likely, she'll tell you.) Also, make sure she gets the impression that you ask this to everyone, not just her.
In the case that she does have herpes, don't judge, don't jump away. If she's taking her antivirals, there shouldn't be much of a problem. She's still the same person you were attracted to in the first place, but with a treatable illness.
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panicatthediscofan4life
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Yes definetly but if shes smart she will understand why you asked herand realize that its for a good reason
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shawnza
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probably so but at least you asked not if she tells you the truth that's another story
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