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babygirl	have it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Samantha B	tell your parents and then give the baby up for adoption Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rmullinax_59	I would first tell my parents or care givers. I would then contact the doctor to take care of me during the pregnancy. If I could not take care of the child; I would give the child up for adoption since many married couples would like to have children and for one reason or another can not. Sometime the couples will allow the birth mother to still be in the childs life. I would finish school; get an education; get a job. Oh but first after the baby is born; please get on birth control. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

surelynotme	I would definitely have an abortion and then move on with my life from there. Just bearing the baby till term will be a disruptive experience for you that is not something a 13 year old needs to go through. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

runs_with_scissors	Tell an adult who is supportive. It should be your parent(s). Then discuss your options. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

becks	I would stay at home beacause I would be grounded for life, or even dead. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ms Berry Picker	tell you parents, so they can take care of the matter. keep in mind that the baby will be ungrounded before you will be. if you are 13 and pregnant, the boy who got you that way will be doing jail time for statutory rape. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Proud Tree Hugger!	Well, i am 13. However i wouldnt have had sex in the first place. But if for some strange reason i was pregnant. I would for sure die of giving birth to the baby because im so tiny for my age. So my days would be numbered! I would probly tell my mom and she would help me threw it. It would be realy scarey! I feel so sorry for all the other teen girls out there who realy are pregnant! But i know for sure i wouldnt have an abortion. Even if that was the only way I could stay alive! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

timhda	If it were me - well I'd be shocked because I'm a guy, but I know my wife and I have talked about this because we have a daughter who's going to be sought after and we're scared to death. At age 13 what kind of parent could you possibly be? It is SO much harder than you can even imagine, you're going to create such a burden on your parents and you won't be able to get a proper education, you're whole future gets totally screwed up. Honestly, although I'm not a big fan. I'd abort. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rhino	If you are, then you're going to have to tell your parents or legal guardians. They will find out soon, one way or the other. My religious beleifs are strickly against abortion, so I would recommend you see if you can do home school, and, then after having the baby, give the child up for adoption. Get counseling! I do not know if you conceded to having sex, or were raped, but, either way, you need to see a professional counselor. It the latter was the case, then report the guy who did it, especially if he is at the legal age of being an adult. Also try to find support from other girls your age who may be in the same situation . Other then that, all I can do if offer you my prayers! I really feel for ya kid, but with the right kind of support, you'll be able to make it though this. Take care of yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

colorist	I got pregnant at 14, I had to tell my mom and it was hard. I had the baby and everything was more difficult than it needed to be till I was 20. If I had it to do over again I would have given him up for open adoption or just aborted... but that's hard to say. Please just tell your parents and move on from how they feel. I was kicked out and homeless for 6 months, so be prepared to do hard stuff. Best wishes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Karen◦the◦Rockstar	I'd get an abortion and then keep my f*cking legs shut. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

[Simply.. me]	I would have the baby and give it up for adoption. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Phillip R	Tell your parents, and ask to get an abortion. You do not want to have a baby @ 13. You will lose the rest of your adolescent years to that baby. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

joe_smo_red	probably tell my folks and pray. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bremcf	I would definitely have an abortion or if it was against my religion I would give it up for adoption. 13 years old is just too young to have a child - you are just a child. There are so many options for you. If you can, it would be best for you to speak with your parents about it or a trusted adult. Planned Parenthood is also a good resource. Best of luck to you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ice4444	Boy that is rough. We all make mistakes but this one is life changing. First of all rely on your pastor/church and all of the adults (mom or dad or both; aunts uncles) that love you or whoever will help you with any decision that you have. You might want to think of adoption as well. There are so many loving people that would love a child and they can't have one. Remember, ANY unprotected sex is just irresponsible and possiby fatal. You are literally exposing yourself to every person that has been with the person your sleeping with. There are so many STD's out their (AIDS especially) that it's a time bomb. Pregnancy is obviously a life changer as well. My thoughts and prayers are with you but realize your not alone and rely on those that love you. Remember in the future though, NO UNPROTECTED SEX! Watching women with 5 kids from 4 different guys on daytime talk shows is heart breaking and so sad. I hope everything goes well and take care. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Domino's Mom	adoption Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tweetz	Tell your parents and the baby's fathers parents...have the baby because we all have to deal with the consequences of our behavior...than at your age I would definitely consider adoption...don't worry its not the end of the world for you...you will survive and your not the first to make this mistake...just learn from this and move on...I notice a lot of people saying abortion...there is more to that than they think...I don't think that is a mentally healthy decision...it may not bother you now but it will later in life...and you can never take back that decision Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mastermindmickie	Honey, you should have the baby, its a miracle, and doesnt deserve to die because of your age, give it up for open adoption and you should maintain contact with him or her. and eat extra healthy food, girls pregnant at your age are not completely mature physically, and need more nutrients. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

someone	tell your parents unfortunately you are very young to be having a baby before you consider an abortion like so many will tell you remember you have other options but this is a decision that you need to make with your parents and a doctor Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sarah	YOU DON'T HAVE TO ABORT A BABY. . . NOR DO YOU HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF THE BABY YOUR WHOLE LIFE. THERE IS THIS THING CALLED ADOPTION, WHERE YOU GIVE UP YOUR BABY TO SOMEONE ELSE WHO IS MORE RESPONSIBLE. Don't listen to the first guy, or anyone else who tells you to have an abortion. You would be killing what God has given to this earth. That baby that people are talking about killing could very well have turned out to be someone important. What if your mother was told to have an abortion when she found out she was pregnant with you?! Just because you think you are old enough to have sex, which you are NOT, does not mean that if you make a baby, that you can just throw him/her away. Everyone needs to face up to their mistakes. Just be sure to tell your parents ASAP. Please, you are too young to worry about being pregnant, so don't have sex until you are able to support a child all by yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jackie♥babii	YOUR 13 AND PREGNANT?!?!?!?! WOW! or your just curious and your not pregnant. well then you'd get adoption to happen i am strongly against abortion. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Supernan	Abort, and think twice about being so irresponsible in the future. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

WhateverWhenever	tell your parents. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dr. Kat	Depends on what you believe in. Give the baby up for adoption and get on some strong birth control. Definatly talk to your parents and any counselors that you trust. Don't do this alone. Make sure that boy knows he's fertile. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BeC	Talk to your parents, have the baby, and give it up for adoption. I don't think a 13 year old is responsible enough for a baby.... or sex for that matter.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♫Pavic♫	talk to your parents and try to get an abortion. you're too young to be a mother! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Quasar1	be responsible tell your parent and have the baby we all learn how a baby is created in elementary school, if you want to keep the baby great if not give it up for adoption, but dont go the abortion way. In addition if you were to abor the baby and something happens it may prevent you from giving birth later in life, and that actually crush your heart, i know the feeling of being unable to have children you dont want to know the feeling if something goes wrong Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rita_alabama	I would confide in a trusted adult, whether that was my parents, older sibling, teacher, etc. There is usually a low cost or free crisis pregnancy center in every community, and they are usually required by law to keep everything said confidential - unless it involves statuatory rape or other crimes. There's no reason to go through this alone. Hope this helps! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No