MissMellee
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I had a similar problem (I am now much older and wiser) I beat the crap out of her, she never messed with me again. Now that I am a parent I would definitly let your parents know. Tell them that you have done everything you can do including telling your principal and he refuses to do anything. I am sure they will take action. I know I would I would beat the crap outta her myself (sorry). Very sad people have such low self esteem they have to bully.
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mamabear1957
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Have your parents approach the school board with this issue and let them deal with it. If not, then you might have to petition to change schools.
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kateberry97
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talk to her about it and if that doesn't work tell your parents or a trusted adult
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-doozer-
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You need to involve the media and police, they will listen then. If you don't want to go that route then there's always the good ol' knuckle sandwich!
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WilkinsGirls W
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i know how you feel if you go to a school with a police officer tell him and they WILL do something i had the same thing happen to me
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ASKALOT
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allow me to declare how furious this makes me because i know these type of women. they aren't nothing but trouble makers. sometimes you have to stand your ground and announce to her in the meanest, cruelest voice you can muster exactly what she is doing and why she needs to stop. you may need a lot of time to prepare the right words to make her understand exactly why you can't tolerate her behavior and why she is WRONG. don't get physical with her. you have tried to avoid her in the past and it didnt work out but you need to try even harder. walk a different way to and from school. be more aware and learn to spot her even when she is a mile away from you. learn to avoid her friends and your former ones that left you. being ostracized is not a bad thing. also keep your eye for someone sensitive and intelligent that you can learn from and keep you company. having ONE GOOD friend is sometimes better than having the fake company that abandoned you for her. good luck
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Steve
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Learn how to stand up for yourself because thats how the real world is. If the head of your school doesn't care then fight back. They're only doing this because you are showing weakness. Atleast appear to be the stronger one, so that way they'll leave you alone.
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JoyHickey
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You need to talk to your parents. You have reported abuse and you are not being helped. That is why teachers and principals get sued now days.....If you were my child I would pull you out of that school and put you in another school far away from these people. I would also go have a chat with your principal if I was your mom. If your parents won't help you you need to find an adult that will listen to you, like a grandparent, aun't, friend's mother, someone from church or if NO ONE will help you call 211 which is a social service help line and tell them your problem.
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Barrett G
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Just ignore them. You "ex best friend" isn't really your friend at all if she treats you like that.
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Kelly S
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Here are some other strategies that can help improve the situation and make you feel better:
1. Avoid the bully and use the buddy system. Use a different bathroom if a bully is nearby and don't go to your locker when there is nobody around. Make sure you have someone with you so that you're not alone with the bully. Buddy up with a friend on the bus, in the hallways, or at recess — wherever the bully is. Offer to do the same for a friend.
2. Hold the anger. It's natural to get upset by the bully, but that's what bullies thrive on. It makes them feel more powerful. Practice not reacting by crying or looking red or upset. It takes a lot of practice, but it's a useful skill for keeping off of a bully's radar. Sometimes kids find it useful to practice "cool down" strategies such as counting to 10, writing down their angry words, taking deep breaths or walking away. Sometimes the best thing to do is to teach kids to wear a "poker face" until they are clear of any danger (smiling or laughing may provoke the bully).
3. Act brave, walk away, and ignore the bully. Firmly and clearly tell the bully to stop, then walk away. Practice ways to ignore the hurtful remarks, like acting uninterested or texting someone on your cell phone. By ignoring the bully, you're showing that you don't care. Eventually, the bully will probably get bored with trying to bother you.
4. Tell an adult. Teachers, principals, parents, and lunchroom personnel at school can all help stop bullying. Keep on telling them and don't let up until something is done.
5. Talk about it. Talk to someone you trust, such as a guidance counselor, teacher, sibling, or friend. They may offer some helpful suggestions, and even if they can't fix the situation, it may help you feel a little less alone.
6. Remove the incentives. If the bully is demanding your lunch money, start bringing your lunch. If he's trying to get your music player, don't bring it to school.
Visit:
http://kidshealth.org/parent/emotions/behavior/bullies.html
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Melissa♥
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did you tell your parents? sometimes principals do ignore the students and only do something if parents are involved. with cyberbullying and bullying in general getting more and more press these days, you can contact a newspaper and tell them your story. i guarantee you the principal will take action if it goes to that extent.
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sweets
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tell her parents
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backintheday23
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if its getting sure bad get your parents involved with ur principal and call her out on stuff raise your voice if you have too to get ur point across and if she does nething illeagal... cops
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Island Girl
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Try to tell someone else! Keep telling somebody until somebody finally listens to you. You could go to guidance counselor for all I know! Nobody should have the right to abuse you like that.
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mike
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ill take care of it where does she live?
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somedude429
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tell your mother? and your principal sucks
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Audi S
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I'd talk to a counselor or another teacher or assistant principal..any adult that will listen, basically..and try to avoid talking crap back to them because that'll just rile them up even more..just go about your business and if you can, hang out with people that believe you and avoid drama..
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varu-chan
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Your principle must be an idiot if she believes what this girl said. Try telling someone else like a teacher, guidance counselor, or even your parents.
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ME who else
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tell someone that you trust or tell them to leave you alone if they hurt u in any way you can sue them for assult
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Krezip
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Sorry to hear that you're in this type of situation. :(
You need to speak to your parents about this situation to see if they can intervene. If the principal of the school refuses to listen to them, you might want to consider the possibility of transferring to another school.
And if there is any attempts at physical violence towards you, your parents have the right to go to the police and file charges against that girl and her cronies.
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Junglist
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The only thing you can really do other than involve more faculty and parents is ignore her and the drama she causes. You can try to defend yourself to your friends but if they don't stay by your side anyway then they aren't truly your friends. If you ignore everything she will grow bored with trying to bully you eventually.
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Leila J
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try to catch her in the act. record her secretly somehow, then show a teacher you trust and your parents, and the principle.
-- btw, your principle sounds like an ***
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Gal in red
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Ignore her and make a new group of friends, try to get them to witness what she s doing to you and back you up when you complain
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Nunnybunny
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Tell the police and get a lawyer to do something about the principle for not doing anything about it.
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Amy L.
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contact the scool board of education and tell them the principal isnt doing his job to insure your safty and education.
you cant learn if your worring about somebody else...
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wildbill05733
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If the principal won't do anything get a guidance counselor or another teacher involved to back up your story to the principal.
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soldoutone
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Tell your parents what is going on at school.
If the PRINCIPAL won't make it stop, it's time to get your parents involved.
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blahblahblahblahblah
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Go to the school board or to the police
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Dan in Real Life
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get your parents involved
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Dean
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Try to confront her yourself and if your friends leave you because of her you know they arnt 'real' friends..
If confronting her about the matter doesnt help try telling your parents and asking them to go into school to speak to your teachers/princepal
If you feel this gets worse ask you parents to move you to a different school in the area where you can make new and better friends that wont leave you because of immature children :)
Hope this helps and good luck with it
p.s I was in a simalar situation once and confronting them seemed to help the matter
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