Should you forgive and take back a person who cheated on you?

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Aimee P	NO. If you did take that person back, you might still have that person, but you will NEVER have trust. This will constantly be in your mind and your heart will be reminded of the deception everyday. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

crip boy for-life	i dont thank you should foregive a person who cheats on you see you will take them back and then they will do the same all again Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tyesha D	no because if they cheated on you once thir are going to do it agin Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Opposite of people	It really just depends on how you feel. If you believe you can forgive and move on and you're sure that it was a one-time thing then you should. If you can't forgive and forget then you shouldn't, remember trust is the foundation of a relationship! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LESLIE G	No don't take back a person who cheated on you. He would do it again and if you go back you will always have that in your head and that's when the problems will came. You could forgive but not forget. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marcus W	It depends on what that person did Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lab_rat06	agree with litlebit_bul...'s answer. DO NOT take him back, he just gonna break your heart again. You can forgive, but you can't forget what he's done. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥♪ C0oK!E♥♪	i know that probably you love him and all that but if you got hurt the first time you will get hurt again what i would recommend you to keep on moving with your life... There are alot of beautiful people out there.. Don't go back with him...Forgive but don't go back!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*Seven7**	Never Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JerseyBleu	no, because you can say you forgive them, but you'll always feel like you're being compaired to another person. it's better to just cut your losses and accept your relationship for what it is. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wernerslave	True love forgives all things. Making a commitment in a relationship to honor one another in celibacy is a key ingredient of trust. If you cant be sure of trusting your lover, but want to maintain the relationship, you should seek counseling. Being cheated on can be very painful, and can take along time to heal a relationship. If your truly committed to this other person, make it known in action as well as words. Periodic maintenance is essential in Love. Good relationships require work, they just don't happen. If your married, I highly suggest counseling by a professional. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blessedmaconmiracle	hmmm, depends, switch the rolls , would u want them to take u back if u had cheated? My hubby and I both cheated on each other before, and we have both been able to forgive and move on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gone	I would forgive them so anger wouldn't fester in me. I would not take them back because I wouldn't trust them not to fiddle around and give me a disease or two that would fester in me. Don't you think people who are that low life should be grouped together so they can have company but leave the rest of us alone? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fiji2litre	I have never taken any one back that I have left or that has left me. It is a lot easier on you in the long run. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

FRIKKA	no you shouldn't. they'll just do it again. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

norup	no way friend! Once that trust has been broken, it is way to hard to get back to normal. Dump that person and move on!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kja63	Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kalsmom	It really depends on the circumstances and how you truly feel about that person. If you feel that there is real remorse and the person is desperately trying to make up for a fatal mistake, and if you feel that you love them so much that you need to make it work, then I suggest counselling for both of you. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

trixwagen	I'm not a fan of the "one-mistake" relationship. I also am on the fence if it is better to never mention an affair to the other person, or tell everything that happened as soon as possible and apologize right then and there. All that on the table, I say 95% of the time, cheating is a relationship breaker, pure and simple. In that other 5% of time, if there are extraordinary circumstances, and if it totatally out of the person's character and will never happen again, then it should be forgiven. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shae	No, never..they will do it again. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BeautifulFairy	I took back my boyfriend (now husband) after he cheated on me. I shouldn't have but i did. As far as i know he has not done it again. I did though however pay his a$$ back with a taste of his own medicine. Trust me this happened 7 years ago and i have yet to forget or forgive him for cheating on me and i never will. I do love him and want to be with him but i cannot get over it at all. It will always be in the back of your head about how he/she done you. Give it a try or Don't do it. I really can't preach to you and tell you no that would be stupid cause i took mine back. Follow your heart and good luck to you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweet_lil_cannibal	No, if they really loved and cared about you and your feelings they wouldn't have even thought about it in the first place. Do you really want to put yourself in the same position to be heartbroken again? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mand	No Its hard to take back someone who cheated on you, what they did and who they did it with will always be in the back of your mind. The trust that was once in the relationship is gone. Youre better off if you move on without them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

scooby.doo	no l think its gone . you would always have that dought. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

abfabmom1	Dr. Phil would tell you that the best predictor of someone's future behavior is their past behavior. I don't think I'm a strong enough person to get past the lack of trust. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ra3000gt	I would just to do the same to her...see how she likes it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

paul_m_moriarty	yes, once and once only Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Your_Star	No, because they're bound to do it again and again. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

realest chic	no because if they cheated on u 1nce they will cheat again, but u can forgive them Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zoya	It is completely up to you. You are the one that can forgive but realize that you will never forget. It is possible to forgive someone that has cheated and it is possible to continue the relationship,but there may always be doubt. If you are truly forgiving you will NEVER bring the subject up again once you have resolved it,because if you do,you really aren't ready to forgive. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

litlebit_bulldog	I personally believe once a cheater always a cheater... That's just my opinion...Good Luck....You can forgive them but I would never trust them again... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No