
Tamborine
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Once you do it, you never get your first time back. Don't do it unless you are absolutely sure it's what you want. If you have any doubts at all, wait. No harm can come from waiting but doing it too soon can break your heart.
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TONY B
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from your spelling i'd say you are way to young, wait until your older, then make sure you our in a secure ralationship before you do the nasty.
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Ember
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Yeah, wait until marriage, it'll be so much better that way.
I screwed up and didn't, and I would give anything to take it back and have only my hubby touch me. But life's not that way....
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roxy_756
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I believe its your own personal choice but also that if you do it now it should be with a person that you love and care about
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NutstersChick
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If it's a question of the "End is Nigh".
& I Doubt it.
U can wait a while longer.
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gggg
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DONT U DARE DO IT BEFORE MARRAIGE!!!!!
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GossipGirl
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wait
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kcsilverlining77
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Do what feels right for you. If you feel that you are ready, go for it. Just be sure that you are ready and not caving into pressure from some guy (been there, done that). You'll know when it's time. No one else can tell you, only your opinion matters. Take care. :)
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Brewmaster
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Life is short, start slinging it.
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crazylarry88
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guess the real question is do you want to get pregnant before you get married
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jj77318
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coming from a man i say you should waite.
please vote best answer
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johnnewmaniii1
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Wait. It will be so much more special on your wedding night. I made the mistake of giving it up before marriage, and I regret it every day. I'm not saying it will, but crap happens. You don;t want to give this man your purity because you think you'll be together, and break up two weeks later. It will break your heart. And thats not something you can ever get back. Save yourself for him, and for your marriage. You wont regret it. I promise.
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Guelph
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Do it now. If only to make sure that the man you one day marry will be able to satisfy you and will be satisfied by you in return. You wouldn't buy a car without driving it first, and you only keep those for about 10-15 years. Marriage, ideally, is for life, and a good sex life is an essential part of it. Practice makes perfect, after all.
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Superstar
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You should wait. And find a husband who is also a virgin or one with very little sexual experience. Those who have extensive premarital sexual experience rarely remain faithful. They're used to variety and they like it and chase it. No man wants a woman who is a slut. Not to mention the chance of disease and pregnancy.
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onelove
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wait till marraige
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simplysassy
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depends on if you believe in what you believe then you wouldn't have to ask a dumbass question like that on here.
my god r u 4 real?
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Lizzy
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This is a personal decision. Alot of pressure is put on having sex before marriage. If you are young then a centainly suggest that you wait. Sex is not all its cracked up to be! Not only do you have the physical emotions but the emotional goes along with it too. This is a decision that you have to make for yourself. Do you love and respect yourself enough to wait? Do what you think is right for you.
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chase177
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if you save it, your husband will appreciate it so much trust me
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Frank D
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do it now... what can it hurt?.... make sure you wear a condom...:)
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yakayakayaka1234
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save it for the person u L.O.V.E
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hellsvictom
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what if u were to die tomorrow?
just be safe.
but really, does anyone wanna die a virgin?
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Bamos
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Save yourself. Sex is like duct tape. We're designed to stick to the first one we attach ourselves to.
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shorty18_30
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Sex should only happen between to totally commited people. Most like to wait till they are married cause then your smarter and have jobs to support a family. And if your BF is pressuring to to have sex with him then you should let him know your not ready and if he cant respext your wishes Dump him fast
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here_prettygirl_is
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I think people should wait till they get married because it should be special and it is the right thing to do. Of course i live for the Lord and that is why i feel like that
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cilstubbs2
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do whatever makes u comfortable. The bible says no sex till marriage.
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Miss Confused
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well i think if u want or have the feeling to have sex with someone it should be that special person just wait a while wait lik a year an if you still feel the same way i say its your decision we dont have to wait till marriage but parents want us to to make sure we r happy who were with an will hopefully be with forever
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wouldn't you want to know...
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you should spend time learning how to spell properly before you bang yourself up.
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i luv teh fishes
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Do it whenever you feel you are ready. Don't rush into it.
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raschfive@sbcglobal.net
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WAIT!
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Mz Chiquita
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Save it. Trust me, you'll feel better about yourself and not get into some sex related problems.
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kikibug
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mm... depends on how prejudiced you and your man and your and his familiy are, but I would advise trying out sex before. if nothing else, it may turn out your husband-to-be is violent or insufficient, and it's easier to find out before the wedding, rather than wait and be disappointed... not a few of the divorces (I had heard a statistic of 70%, but I don't recall precise sources) are brought about beause one or both partners are not sexually satisfied. Makes you stop and think, at least it made me stop and think.
And I always preferred knowing. If I find there is a problem, I'd rather know before I am commited, not after. But that's a personal preference.
But if your husband-to-be is likely to be upset about sex before the marriage... don't even mention it to him.
I hope you see what I mean. Try to make things easier for yourself, but not by making it harder on the other parties.
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