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makayla	i think you should either contact a counselor and/or the police. if she is going to harm herself you dont want to keep it to yourself. if she ends up hurting herself you dont want to have to live with the guilt of being the only one knowing what she was going to do. so, yeah contact the police or a counselor. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Privratnik	You really need professional help here. You're right, this is an emergency. I reccomend going to the school counselor, or a teacher you trust. They can get the ball rolling for your friend to get help, and can probably do it in a way that won't involve the police. What ever you do, act right away! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

peggy j	You need to talk to your school counselor, a teacher that you trust, or another responsible adult. Your friend needs help. This isn't like snitching on her. You are trying to help her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lztexan	wow........ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kkpooh4545	Tell her that you care about her and that she is a special person and that you would like to come over and talk to her. Try to build up her self esteem - heck go and see if she would like to go and do something together. Take her flowers from a friend - you - make her feel special! Sometimes people need to be told that they are special and that you care about them. Hope this helps you. Send her a card - make a home made card and write some nice things to her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Allie M	You need to get some help for your friend immediately! Contact your school & they'll know which way to direct you! HURRY, before it's too late! Or you'll be seeing your friend in a box, speechless! She is crying for help! HELP HER! God Bless! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

elemenopee.	if you care about her enough to save her life but risk her hating you then call the police and dont worry about how she will think about you after you are doing her a favor! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Beau†iful Nightmare	U NEED 2 DO SOMETHING QUICKLY!! GET HER HELP Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

melyssa	dude contact the police right now cuz if you what to long she might either end up hurting herself really bad or killing herself. I had a friend who was the same way and I thought it would end soon so I didn't do anything and now she's dead. so do the right thing and save her before it's to late. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emmy1881	TALK TO YOUR PARENTS, SISTERS, MINISTER, COUNSELOR, ANYONE THAT YOU THINK MIGHT BE ABLE TO HELP. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jean	She's reaching out and you noticed. Now go tell your parents right now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

whatswitdatguy	She needs someone wholl see beauty in her regardless of her weight.... shes considering suicide as an answer but the problem is her weight Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

recyclingmamma@sbcglobal.net	maybe you should talk to her in person, you sound really caring. make an excuse to talk to her, maybe a computer or school problem.chubby people think nobody likes them but not everyone is an ******. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

girl	Wow!Well you should try talking to her about what she should do. Like contact the hospital even though she doesn't want to,tell her that she needs to think of what's the best for herself.Please don't let her commit suicide.She probably doesn't want to commit suicide but she probably thinks there are no other options.Well there are.Tell her she really needs to either try to get a doctor that could help or get a counselor.I hope this really helps. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dina_salinas2000	YES, call the police, the police will go by her house and help her right away, also by calling the police your friend will know that you really do care for her and that will make her feel better inside,don,t worry about her getting mad at you because its better that she lives and gets mad at you then if she dies and you feel the guilt for the rest of your life, you will think that you should have tried harder to help her. to be honest with you, you don't need that kind of friend that is going to put you through that, if you help her this one time and she keeps it up, just stop being her friend.i hope that she sees how good of friend you are and stops putting you through this, there is lots of help out there, just have her call those numbers up above. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Answerer	damn contact the police Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shorty	get off line and call the police Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

In God We Trust	You have to do what is best for your friend. Is it life or death? You already know the answer. I will not elaborate because I am not a psychiatrist. You are a true and sincere friend. I would feel out her parents as to their take on this extremely serious matter. I would talk to your friend. If the situation can be resolved this way, this is great. If not, then speak with your parents. In any event, please don't give up on her. Read Psalm 35 to (Plead My Cause) and ask God for help in this matter and any that are unknown to you. Read Psalm 4 for (Safety and Protection) against unknown occurrences. Most of all, you must know that "If God be for us, who can be against us?" - Romans 8:31 Peace and God Bless. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

oceanbanshe princess	give her your constant support let her know that you are there for her and that you care about her. if you can go over to just be with her. she needs to see a coucelor or go to a rehab of sorts. call the suicide hotline. pray with and for her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kimmie	Contact school official, her parents, and the police Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blackandpurple_soul	i say talk to her, and try to get her to a doctor, and the police can help Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sarah g	Ok looks like your a guy so no sleep overs right you need to talk to your parents and tell them just how worried you are becouse it does not matter who it is but you need to get an adult you know to listen to you it sounds like she needs to go into the hospital for a while i dont know maybe you could invite her over to hang and your parents could wait in the other room with the police while her and her parents show up she realy does need help Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gitmomagic	Many good responses....make sure you contact the school counselor....and/or the police/family services. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chakalatia	Well, I wouldn't call the police right away, because one, they don't take action that fast on your word of "someone saying" they want to kill themselves, believe me I know! Second I would go straight to her house, **** the phone. Third, if she is "chubby" she would not want you of all people to throw that in her face. Get her motivated to change what she does not like about herself into something good. She problably does not go to school because people pick on her, or her weight. We live in a society of people who are cruel, that skinny is better, that having more than another is being popular. Who gives a damn what you look like as long as you carry yourself well. I have the same issues and been there, done that, tried that, to be thin, to have more money, but if your not doing it the right way, your not doing it at all. I am 30 I have 4 kids and now I take my 13 year old daughter with me running (sometimes) we ain't motivated everyday!. Every woman in my family is obese, it is hereditary, but does that mean I should use that as an excuse and get fat, hell no, Im too scared of that. But we can't stoop to the levels that other folks are at and beat ourselves up because of what other folks say. As long as you got a good personality, you are willing to make a change on your own and keep it positive, then you can be what you want to be in life. Tell your friend to read this. She needs laughter, not humility. (it's a phrase). Yeah I made it up. One. Out. Respect. Chaka(It's All Jazzy Babie) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blake amber	dont call the police it make her feel worse and plus the police gunna do for her? keep an eye on her and try to make her feel better about herself. and try to get other people that you trust to keep an eye on her to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sheila_0123	She has probably been devastated personally. Her family may be responsible for whatever happened to her. The Department of Human Services or Children's Services need to be notified by someone close enough (yes, I do mean you.) to give some details as to her behavior. Her life may depend upon your doing the awkward task of reporting to authorities whose work it is to prevent suicides that happen due to dysfunctional family involvement. See the source below for further information about helping someone to regain their self dignity and self respect after difficult situations have occurred. Not having contact with other people is a very strong indice that she is not well enough to integrate and involve herself in otherwise 'expected of her' activities. Get over whatever hesitancy you feel about your inadequacy or lack of responsibility to act in her best interest. Evidently, her family is unaware or doesn't acknowledge their fiduciary responsiblity toward her. That is the what to report...her families lack of fiduciary (fee due she airy) responsibility. Bless you, too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Debbie B	Be her friend. I bet she feels fat, which makes her feel ugly, too. She needs attention from someone that truely cares. She also needs an ego boost. I hope she is still around. I think she is. Good luck, kid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pooh91	u should blind fold her and act like u are taking her some where special but it is really the doctors office Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Linda Z	I would tell her parents any way, since this could be a matter of life or death for this girl. Maybe they need a wake up call, before it's too late. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Melissa B	Call the police and tell them the story. They have to go to her home, make sure u mention shes intending to harm herself. They have to come out. If she is under 18 call Child protection Service and she can be removed from home. Or if u are able to kidnap her and take her to the ER. (use to work in one and u would be surprise how many are brought in for suicidal tenancies) They have to treat her. They can not refuse to take her in. And ask UR parents for help. U might be surprise what ur parents could do for as well. (well I hope they are like my parents willing to step in for a ur friends) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No