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Lyssaaa. <3	Ducttape them? Lol. Kidding. Its fine. Who cares? Tell them to screw themselves. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

figgy	think about breast reduction surgury sometimes big boobs is bad Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Civic	If your over weight lose weight and breasts should decrease and if people start staring snap your fingers in front of their eyes and point to your face Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mypips33	Its a tough call rite, probbly b/c you are so young and they cant beleive it..i know its totally rude and i do not know what to tell you, and yes it can give alot of back pain and other probs. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ashley D	Are you overweight? If so, lose some weight and your guns will decrease in size. Other than that, I'd live it up - wear more low cut shirts, etc. Give them something to stare at. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

casey	all I can tell you is to feel blessed because I am lacking in that area and it sucks..although I can tell you that my friend has had d's since we were in 5th grade and yes she does have back pain. The best thing to do when peole say something about them is to come up with some kind of smart *** answer/comment, or pick something on them that would embarass them Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Winston Wolfe	I knew a girl who had large breasts who loved wearing shirts with hard-to-read sayings on them just so she could give guys a hard time about staring. Guys' eyes would look down there and get hooked trying to figure out what her shirt said, making them stare longer. She busted me trying to read her Lenny Kravitz shirt that had backward black lettering on a black shirt. She had a lot of fun with that. Enjoy your power! A lot of girls wish they had it. Just learn to master it and use it responsibly. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Yaiyo	I'm not sure how to deal with it, but I do know that big breasts can cause back problems. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

saved_by_grace	Yes it is true that having large breasts can cause back pain. Make sure you have a bra that fits right and supports you. Breast reduction surgery can benefit some and is often covered by insurance if they are causing back pain etc.... People tend to gawk at things that are different to them. There is not anything you can do to change the mentality of people. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yankeesarethechamps	you know what...being bold and saying something they dont expect always embarasses people. the next time id say something like "my eyes are up here" or kinda hunch down so your eyes meet theres. make them feel stupid. and maybe u may want to consider surgery later...a friend of mine had back problems andshe feels so much better now Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kelsi	Wow, ok, you might want to look into a breast reduction surgery. Try not to wear shirts that have writing or draw attention to your chest, instead make them focus on your face! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SulkySlacker EM	Oh, I sympathize with you on this topic. I have a daughter close to your age with the same situation and she feels the same as you do. She is now an E For the simple part of the answer, yes, it can cause back pain. For the more difficult "how do I deal with this" I would suggest that there is very little you can do that you aren't already doing. The only suggestion I can make is that there are bras (generally bought from a specialty store) which can minimize the appearance of your breasts, though they aren't going to make them disappear. Talk to your mom if you can, and ask her to help you shop for a minimizing bra. Other than that, the only other thing I can suggest, as I do to my daughter, is that you try to love and accept yourself as you are, and take a stand when someone is being ignorant when speaking to your breasts instead of your face. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

clgluv	yes back pain is very common, especially if you don't get specially fitted bra's, your shoulders will hurt as well. Breast are things that ppl (guys/girls) see first, it's not always just a perverted thing. Anything you can do? Not much out side of surgery, if you don't like hooded sweatshirts. Just don't do anything to draw attn to them Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sn9	yes, it is true. a lot of people(including me) get back pains from large breasts. k what you should do is, next time you catch them looking at your breasts point it out to them. eaither make a joke if u dont want to feel akward about being rude about it. or be rude about it. say i find it innapropriate that you're looking at my breasts when im trying to talk to you. good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rol	I'm not a lady but first men are pigs and it takes years of discipline for us to remember to look a woman in the eye instead of at her breasts, no matter the size. Since you are so well endowed it's going to be worse, men can't help looking and since breast size is to women what penis size to men women are going to look because they are either jealous or wonder if they are real. Yes large breasts can cause back pain, when your older you can consider reduction surgery if it bothers you. As for dealing with it just try and look at the bright side, men are looking because they admire you and you have to take pity on our one track minds, women are looking because they envy you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mcrfan123	big boobs r cool. if guys stare at them, they're probably getting a *****, girls may get jealous. my friend is 16 nd she rocks the a's nd wishes she had bigger ones. you probably will stop growing at this age nd they'll stop too, for a while. if ur more shy about this thing, then do the pamela anderson move: point to ur eyes nd say "eyes up here". if ur overweight, then thats probably why theyr big, if your not, dont worry be happy. but they can cause back problems and shoulder problems too, for ex. if the strap digs into your skin, but then wear strapless bras. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Anonymous A	I wish i had dd's lol .. be proud of them and next time a guy looks at em just set him staight! tell him yur up here not down there .. some people suffer from back pains but not that often Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

marie	Yes, some women have back pains . There are two things that you can do get a breast reduction, or just deal with the fact that you have large breast it's not a bad thing. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brandnewshoes	It is true, I've known many women who have gotten breast reductions, because eventually they do become problematic. Your problem is not unique, many women with large breasts deal with the same issue, of having people talk to their chest instead of their faces. You could be obvious since they are being rude, and lower your eyes to meet theirs, so they learn to not be rude. You could cover your chest, or make some type of gesture that indicates that they are being rude. I've stopped talking in the middle of a conversation, and waited for them to notice their actions. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emtd65	I know exactly what you are saying. As a teen it really annoyed me. As I got older I would let this fools know I was aware of their rudeness, in a subtle way, whether under my breath or to who ever I was with. I would remind people that I had a face or ask if their neck was stuck etc. My 15 year old daughter is now a 36DD and she has the same thing happen - she has a very good Sense of humor and does as I did. And yes, it is true that back pain is common with a large chest. Two years ago I was a 38F and besides being tired of trying to shop for gigantic tops and little Bottoms, and sometimes looking like a carton character, I had a reduction - down to a 38D, I am only 4'9" tall. it is not a good idea to do this prior to having children since your breast will change with each pregnancy. Also, in your case you may not be done developing. So don't be afraid to speak up and lift some chins with a Gentle hand. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Yorkie L	don't worry about the myths and don't worry about your breast try these tips .don't wear tight shirts .dont wear shirts that scrunch up at the top .and try not to wear shirts that are striped it will cause them to see how big the are i answered your question so please awnser my question type in enbarising stories and look for my name please Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

psoup	I liked Audrey's suggestion to "call them on it" and redirect their eyes to your eyes. I, too have the trouble you have, but not until I was older. I am sure that it is embarrassing for a teen to deal with. Just realize that you are going to get the attention you don't want and make the "pervs" pay by calling attention to their rudeness. Some people have B-reduction surgery, I am not sure if you are wanting to -- just be sure to wear a supportive bra so that you have all the support you can get without surgery. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LaurenBeth<3	im 14 and have the same problem!!! guyss are rllyy immature and thats all they care about! theyll learn to respect you sooner or later! there are guys out there that wuld now,,trust me i no some! lol and yahh it culd cause bak problems! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

amber	yes you can get back pain with larger brests. i know many people that had back sugery and or their brest cuz down Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

michellemcshell	Yes that is true. I remember hearing about someone having surgery to reduce them.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

curvy	just politely say.. my face/eyes are up here..(pointing at ur face/eyes).. itl snap them out of the boob trance... and let them know u demand respect.. i was 15 n had size F's.. was rough..and now at 19 i have size D's...still get the looks as well.. n yes..pain does come along with big breasts.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

girleyworley	Yes the back pain is true. If I were you I would call them on staring at my breast. The next time I noticed it I would take my finger and point to my eyes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

singlex32004	You will just have to live with it, or like my cousin who had DD as well, she got a breast reduction to C cup and she has less back pain and is much happier.......just a thought-surgery is not always the answer for everyone Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Meggy<3	yeah its normal to have small back pains once in a while but if it happens all the time go to the doctor to see whats up adn i hate when ppl dont look at ur face its so annoying its like theyre only interested in your body and not what u have to say Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Audrey	You say "Hey. Eyes up here, dude." And then you continue your conversation. And yes, it is true if you have large breasts you are likely to get back pain. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Joyful ♥	When I was 16 my bust size was busting out of a DDD. I got stared at all the time. It use to bother me because to me I was just a kid and having a bunch of icky guys and married men checking my breasts out and making comments made me furious. Then there are the women and girls that look at you thinking that you got breast implants! My cousins, friends, and sister would always talk about them because no one else in the family has them. Their way of greeting me would be pretending that my breast mass was something that could be taken from me and given to themselves. I went through a lot of emotional termoil because having 'women's breasts' was too much for my young girl persona. I never wore anything that wasn't modest. All my shirts were a bit bigger to hide my size. I have been 'accidently' grabbed and 'bumped' into. I even had a guy grab me around my waist as if to hug me only to lift me up so that my breasts were in his face. The worst was when a teachers aid found out my messenger name and 'wanted to get to know me' because 'he wanted to get better aquainted with them.' I was scared to death and I wanted to kill him. I never found out who the teachers aid was. Ultimately there isn't anything you can do about it at this time other than be a good girl, be aware that you need to protect yourself, and ignore the sickos. When a guy talks to your breasts duck down a bit and say 'excuse me I am up here' or cross your arms right over them. I would carry my purse in front of me to cover them or a text book. Oh and another thing... Don't run anywhere! Walk really fast instead. If you have to run push your breasts firmly between your arms then run. It is better than having them bounce around. When you get older it isn't going to be as bad. I found that as I got older the comments stopped and everything went as normal as a DDD can get you. When I was younger I had back pain from my breasts but as I grew taller the pain went away. The biggest bummer I found is I have stretch marks from growing so rapidly. It is annoying but I grin and bear it. I hope my spur of thoughts helped you. You aren't alone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No