Is my girlfriend pregnant? (were 13/14)?

I just turned 14 and shes still only 13, she already had her period so I know she can have a kid, but is she? we did it for like 3 mins and then I wanted to do it all the way and I came in her. but she wiped it all out.

its like 3 weeks later and she is really sick in the morning and sometimes throws up and also she is tired all the time and idk if she is having a kid or not?

what should i do?
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are their any things we can do to fix the problem? can we go to a docto and fix it? we cant have out parents find out. thats somethine we cant do.

Kyle	Dude nice job, get her tested.

NOT The Token Emo Kid	that's really gross about the wiping everything out and i don't think that would help if you gonna ** around at least be smart about it and use a condom, i just hope you didn't up both of your lives and if she is pregnant how dare you think of deserting her to raise your child you **** up now you have to pay for your stupidity

silver.graph	I'm not a doctor, but I do know morning sickness is a classic symptom of pregnancy. Fatigue is too. She should go to a doctor right now, while there's still time to do something about this situation. At thirteen, she is way too young to have a child. Urge her to make an appointment with an ob-gyn doctor for a pregnancy test and to tell the doctor that she has an emergency situation. "Wiping it all out" does not work. It's hard to "wipe it all out," and it only takes one sperm cell to do what's probably been done.

Abby	she needs to find some way to get a pregnency test. it could be a lot of different things, but thats the easiest way to tell. if she is dont blow her off. she needs you.

russell	do what mustyouk said the people there will be really surportive. Or both of youse go to the doctors together.Yopur only a child so you are your parents responibility so they cant get to mad and whatever u do dont leave her otherwise that will just make her have the baby

Francheska=)	ay mi madre dude, u should have just waitedddd im 14 so i can kinda sorta feel where jur coming from except that im a girl:) hehe but just keep it updated, ask her everyday or so how she is and wait a while more if she doesnt get her period when its time ( every 28 days) then without waiting too long, get a pregnancy test after a missed period there you will know i hope she isnt good luck ilyy --franny ps: OFFF COURSE YOU CANNOT LEAVE HER i mean you can but you shouldnt u dic*head its your fault anyways

Star Dust	take a deep breath and try to relax ok first buy a pregnancy test the first day after her missed period so if she was suppose to start her period June 26 go and buy a test June 27. If she is pregnant the best thing you can do is get her prenatal care if you don't she could be putting her life in danger. watch the movie Juno it's always better to tell the truth good luck to you both

heydude	well, it depends. has she missed her period? if she has, then there is a good chance she is. to be sure, get a pregnancy test at a drugstore (like walgreens). in the end, though, if you are going to have sex at such a young age, or at all, you should always be safe and use a condom.

Jessica B	M'dear, as much as I'm sure we'd all like to be able to tell you one way or another we can't- we aren't doctors treating your girlfriend. The only way you can know for sure is if you get a pregnancy test (I'd reccomend going to a doctor through an organization like Planned Parenthood). Good luck.

txboi	well if you came in her yea bro she's going to have a baby and if she is feelin that way in the morning she is pregnant man...i should now me and my girl are the same way but we are a lil bit older then you

Megan	Planned Parenthood. Period. For the record, there are morning after pills that could've fixed that. Or, ya know, don't be a fool... wrap your tool. Best of luck, though.

Ashley M.	ask her... this is really serious!! u need to ask her!! do it in a private place, not like w/ ur friends or anything like that!! plz ask her, I am 13 and if I knew that I was pregnant, I am sure I would want my bf to be w/ me the whole time!! just talk to her, don't be scared!! :-(:-):-(:-)

Chiyo	Umm! Whoa, that is extremely young! You should get her to take a pregnany test....

Kitt	I feel sorry for you Mikey, We all do some stupid things, never think before we act, When we are young the power of sex is to much for us to control, You now know what you should have done, so no point having a lecture. I am afraid you are going to have to tell your parents, Start with your mum, This is going to such a shock for them both, But with understanding it will be a good time of learning, I would say they will both stand by you, Love is such a great thing it sees us through the worst times, Then I suggest that your mum then talks to her mother. Women have a better understanding and not so liable to get things out of perspective. There is a chance she may not be pregnant it may be a ghost pregnancy, but you can not wait to run this risk. If you are really in love with each other and not just experimenting, this will make you closer, but you will be watched closely for a long while. If you are just experimenting then this is going to be harder for her than you, she won't be as trusted i just hope her parents are really loving with her. The problem is once you have started this sexual activity you will feel you must continue and now you have awoken her sexual feelings, and you are both to young to cope with this. I would suggest you both talk to a councilor after this crisis is over, there are many in the sexual field, the school psychologists would know of them

Cogito	Oh boy. It does not matter whether she "wiped it out" or not. If you came inside her, you cannot undo it. The moment you come, your sperm swims very very quickly, it takes less than a second. Buy a home pregnancy test for her, like Clearblue- it will have the instructions inside. Do it as soon as you can. Most importantly, go and see a doctor immediately if you don't want to tell your parents- a GP for example. Call NHS direct if you are in England. And when you see them, ask them to explain to you what contraception actually is and HOW women get pregnant, because you don't seem to have a clue. And for crying out loud, WEAR A CONDOM next time- it is not that complicated you know. Oh and by the way, you should be doing your bloody homework not ejaculating inside your girlfriend

BlueDiamond	Pregnancy symptoms differ from woman to woman and pregnancy to pregnancy; however, one of the most significant pregnancy symptoms is a delayed or missed menstrual cycle. Some of the early symptoms for pregnancy appears at 1-2 weeks after conception: Implantation Bleeding Delay/Difference in Menstruation Swollen/Tender Breasts Fatigue/Tiredness Nausea/Morning Sickness Backaches Your girlfriend is experiencing some of these symptoms. I suggest you take her to a gynec who will suggest a blood test to confirm or not the pregnancy. For a more detailed explanation, see this article: http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/earlypregnancysymptoms.html

monica b	i know it might sound crazy but you need to find an older friend, older brother, someone over the age of 18 to buy your gf a pregnancy test or tell your gf to find someone older who see trust to buy her one

cglife08	hahahahahahaha HAHAHAH dr dres comment is the BEST!!!!! hahaha that made my night!!! i agree with dr dre!

nzsnow	Get her to go get a pregnancy test or go to a doctor! She very well could be cause im guessing by 'wiped it all out' you mean you were stupid and didnt use a condom, that was more than a bit stupid.

Hinata H	Tell you parents to take her to a doctor. You messed up big time kid. Big time. There is no going back now. All you can do is hope that it is some other type of sickness she has. Like maybe the flu or something. But i am pretty sure she might be pregnant. So tell your parents before it gets worse.

Jenn	wow, she wiped it all out? WHATEVER...there is no way anyone can ever get all of the *** out of there! Sorry but I think the odds are against you. Go get a pregnancy test and stop having sex until you are old enough or at least invest in some CONDOMS!

a_pink_gyrl	She needs to take a pregnancy test (from a drugstore or wal-mart) - and speak to her parents (if she thinks that they won't freak out) - or she can call a clinic in her area to get advice and counseling about what to do. "Wiping it out" or taking a bath will not keep someone from getting pregnant - a condom is the best thing to use for both std's and pregnancy. Please tell her to talk to her parents, an older sibling, call a clinic - someone that can help her and won't judge her - I imagine she is very scared right now as you both are very young to be going through something like this.

rose	wiping it out isnt gonna make a difference! she's probably preggo.

gorgeous1_559	YUP SHES PREGNANT....SPERM CANT JUST BE WIPED OFF CAUSE IF ONLY ONE GOES IN ITS ENOUGH TO GETHER PREGNANT SORRY DUDE BUT STARTSAVING UP UR MONEY YOU GOT LESS THAN 9 MONTHS CAUSE UR GONNA HAVE TO BE SUPPORTING UR BABY GOOD LUCK!!!! OH YEA THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED A CONDOM IF U HAVE NEVER HEARD OF THAT MAKE SURE U GET INFORMED

rachel l	lol dude. you cant wipe it out. theres a high chance she is preggo if shes feeling those symptoms. the only way to know is to get a preggo test. i hope that teaches you not to have sex when you're barely a teen.

Mayzie	First of all, if you came in her, she can't "wipe it all out". Yes, she could be pregnant, though I am crossing my fingers for the both of you that she's not. You are way too young to be having sex and putting yourself in situations like this. She needs to see a Doctor, and you need to stay off of her!

Rararine	buy a home pregnancy kid in future use a condom

sonialynnl	get a home pregnancy test

Lisa M	Go to your parents... Remember this if your not ready to raise a child your not ready to have sex...

mustyouknow?	go to a planned parenthood center and have her tested. the testing is free and they'll help you with whatever you need. Just get to one asap! http://www.plannedparenthood.org/ Good Luck and God Bless!

Sam_wise101	For your sake, I hope not. She needs to tell her parents and then make an appointment to see the doctors right away. First thing you need to do is figure out wether she is pregnant or not. You can buy a couple of pregnancy tests or go to the doctor, your choice. Second, if she is pregnant, she will have to talk to her parents and they will ( and YOU) will have to make some really difficult decisions. (She's really not old enough to get treatment or make decisions on her own) Thirdly, also if she is pregnant and wishes to keep the baby, you can leave her, but consider half of any money you make for the rest of your life hers. If you're lucky, and she's not pregnant, I hope you learned your lesson.