If a man beat u unconcious would you take him back and if so why?

I was seeing this man and he beat me unconcious, I couldn't eat for 2 days and my face was very swollen. Lately I have been thinking about him and wanted to get back with him but start out a frie...

I was seeing this man and he beat me unconcious, I couldn't eat for 2 days and my face was very swollen. Lately I have been thinking about him and wanted to get back with him but start out a friends am i crazy.
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also he asked to marry me several times and he said the reason why he did it was because he was jealous of my body and didn't want me to work or even leave the house.

Her Mama	Only way you get back with him is if he beats you until you are unconscious------AGAIN. You're gone now why go backwards into a mess you all ready know exists.

yante c	you need help! do you have low self esteem or something? there is another man out there that is great for you. the next time you may not be so lucky. he may kill you next time. then you'll have more to think about than not being able to eat.

ecofriendlygirl	HELL NO I wouldn't go back to him. If you do and he does it again then you deserve whatever he does. Next time he might kill you. You deserve better and don't have to put up with an asshole like that.

shelle007	It is quite common for battered women to stay with their abusive partners. I work in law enforcement and see it frequently. Usually it is because the male belittles her and makes her feel like she cant possibly survive without him. You do need to get some psychological help to get over him but no you are not crazy. It is part of the cycle of abuse. Just remember the next time he beats you may be the last time because next time he may kill you. Shelle

virginiamayoaunt	Your last sentence was your answer. If you take this psycopath back you can look forward to more beatings. Just think if you were married. There is not anyway possible that you and him could start out as friends. These type people is like a "pedofile" child molester. There is no cure for a "pedofile", and they is no cure for your friend. You can expect more beatings if you continue to see him. How can anyone human beat up a normally defenseless lady. Next time phone 911 and off to Jail he will go, no questions asked. In most states, including Alabama during a domestic dispute, married, or single one party, if not both will be going to jail. Here in this county for at least twelve hours. That is the cooling off period. DUI charge, until you are sober, generally four hours according to the Sheriff's dept. Rody

spam	Some people feels enjoyment / happiness when they get hurt. Are you one of those? If not, let go of him and move on. If you give him a chance, he may hurt you more and it may be even more serious than what you have experienced. Love yourself before you love someone. You are the best person to protect yourself.

mxzptlk	yeah, take him back...back behind the house and let a few friends beat him to a pulp before you shoot him

hi	no I would never go out again with a guy that treated me like ****. don't you realize that you deserve better than that? good luck, and take it from me--stay away from the guy. i can't believe you're even considering...

dollfacedbaby1	Never take him back. It will only happen again. Unless you like to be beaten.

rocketdog	Yes, I would have to say that you are crazy. I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but someone that would do that to you once, would do it again!! Don't make the same mistake twice!! The next time, rather than just being unconscious, you could be dead!!

colada15	heck no!!!!!!!

Tama C	First, you should change your name under ur picture. God didn't make you that way. But He also didn't create you to be beaten, bruised and battered. I've read a lot of the responses, but we have to understand that you're not the only one that goes through this. You need all the love and support from your friends and family. You also need to look at YOU!! You're a special individual and you have a life in front of you. Don't let no one cut that off. You are not crazy, you may need to seek some counseling. You want a companion to love and respect you for you. I pray that all goes well with you. Have a pleasant day

chris h	you are nuts

shannon t	yes you are crazy, anyone that can do that to someone they supposedly love does not really love them.. and if you do go back w/ him consider yourself as ignorant as he is

Amy D	Hell No!! R U CRAZY? Even if i loved him and he said he loved me. because if a guy does that to you, he doesn't really love you. And if you want to get technical, he probably doesn't even like you or he wouldn't have done that to you.

empress_pam	Not crazy...but you'd be doing yourself a great disservice by taking back someone capable of that knid of violence. Last time was unconscious...next time could be beaten to death

noseyrosey	I wouldnt take a man who hit just once back because I know next time he might not stop after juat one hit you are lucky to be alive even though you have thoughts of going back to your ex you shouldnt Im not going to scold you over it your an adult but I'll tell you this he might kill you next time be safe

kablaow	Well if you want to be beaten to a pulp or even killed, you'd go back to him. He may have some great quailties that you see however violence should NEVER happen. My mother was beaten often by my father. She has a blown eardrum and can't see very well out of one eye, due to the blows. There are so many men out there that have respect for women and would never strike out! Find someone else! Do it for yourself.

rdmerritt2001	If you are stupid enough to answer this question, you deserve to be with him. Let me know when the funeral will be.

Angele'	NO WAY WHY HE COULD KILL YOU NEXT GET YOUR HEAD CHECKED LADY

Jessiekatsopolous	YOU ARE CRAZY FOR EVEN THINKING ABOUT IT, MORON.

miss advice	you need to get away and stay away from him! this is what is called an ABUSIVE relationship. if he LOVED you, he would never HURT you! you deserve a man who DOES NOT hurt you. enlist in the support of family and friends. let them know what's going on. go stay with a friend or family member until you can get back on your feet. get a court order against this guy. if he tries to come near you, harass you, or hurt you again- you can bet when you call them, the cops will show up and arrest him. whenever you feel like going back to him, tell someone. listen to them when they tell you that that is the worst thing you could possibly do in your entire life.

Country Girl for Life	Its hard to let someone go who you love and have a history with, I know, I've been there. It is, however, the best decision you can make to stay as far away from him as possible. It is a lot easier if you don't have to see or talk to him at all...I know you will want to but girl, you are stonger than any man...we are the stronger sex! You can do it if you put your heart into it, Good Luck and please make the right choice for yourself and your future!

poodie_po	My dad would kill him, so even if i was that stupid he'd alreayd be dead. Stop thinking about him! what is wrong with you, If you are gona think about him, think of what a peice of sheit he is :)

sarge927	Don't EVER get back together with him, even if he apologizes and says he'll never do it again. It's a lie. He's NOT sorry he did it (or else he wouldn't have done it in the first place) and he WILL do it again if you get back together with him. What you should do is call the police and report it, even if it happened several months ago -- the statute of limitations on assault is usually two years. DO NOT LET THIS GUY BACK INTO YOUR LIFE AT ALL. You'll regret it if you do.

wwfcgoober	Hit me once, shame on you. Hit me twice, shame on me. You have got to be kidding. Do you have a death wish!

mightymite1957	Are you nuts? The next time, he will kill you. Why on earth would you even think of going back to him. Please don't tell us about his good qualities. Abused women do this, it's as if they are trying to justify his behavior. You need to be in therapy. Call someone now and make an appointment. You need to straighten your thoughts out.

Mike S	yeah. i think that's a great idea! maybe he will learn that even if he beats you silly you wont get mad enough to leave. so then he will beat you even more. and i'm sure that will be fun for you. and then eventually he will beat you hard enough that you wont ever wake up or even die. that sounds like a blast! Where can i sign up?

banzai	this isn't real no one is that retarded look at her name move along people, it's not real EDIT: don't answer, it's just another BS question like 90% of the ones on here.... don't waste your time giving some idiot the satisfaction of knowing you put some level of emotional investment into answering an obvious troll

riloh keen	if you get back together with him, this is what is going to happen, guaranteed, 100%: he will beat you again. your friends and family will not feel sorry for you. everyone will tell you "i told you so." if he beat you unconscious, maybe he'll decide to go one step further and kill you next time. do not get involved with psychos or woman beaters. there are plenty of men who will love and appreciate you, take care of you, and never lay a violent hand on you.

Kristin	Its not as easy as everyone thinks to leave an abusive partner, believe me I know. I used to be the kinda girl that said if a guy even raises a hand to me that I would leave.. Then I met "mike". Everything was great at the beginning, or so I thought. I realized leter that it was never great with us. He used the power he had over me to take away any self esteem I had. Then he slowly started taking control. Got me hooked on Cocaine, started calling names, a little push and little shove...next thing I knew I was admitted to the hospital with a fatured skull because of him. I was discharged from the hospital had a sheriff meet me at our house and i packed up what I could in a hour and left. I wish I could say that I never looked back but there were many times I thought about him and how great I thought things were in the beginning. He would email me and tell me that he loved me and would never hurt me again... With the help of family and friends I held my ground and didnt go back. I realized I was feeling that way cuz I was lonely and had no self esteem cuz he took that and all my self respect away from me. Thats waht your ex did to you too. Seek help from a counselor or psycologist.. I did because I realized every aspect opf my life was different. The way I handled different situations and people. I needed help to put everything back where it belonged. Its ok to seek help and only you and the doctor need to know. Dont go back with him cuz the same will happen again and now he knows he has even more power over you. Be strong, surround yourself with friends and family so you dont feel lonely... Its not easy but when you completely heal from that experience it will be well worth it. Good Luck and Take care. Note: his reason for wanting to marry you is insane. shows just how possesive and controlly he is. Chances are you'll end up the hospital or dead if you go back to him.