I have slept behind my girlfriends back with someone and there haveing a baby what should i do?

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VanillaIce	usher - confessions Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ecstacy	3 some Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

triviatm	Confess before she finds out, pay your child support - and wear a rubber if you're going to be stupid enough to sleep around on her! Actually, wear a rubber anyway - you're at way too high a risk of catching STDs if you've both been sleeping around. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

NONAME	Man Whore! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jaybug522000	You may have already done too much. You need to take responsibility for this baby. Both you and your girl friend need to evaluate if your relationship is still worth it. good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wmp55	Tell her about the upcoming baby and see what happens. Maybe she'll come to the shower! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mr. Klaw	You're a jerk. If you knocked up some tart while still with your girlfriend, you don't "love her very much". Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chamely_3	Sounds like you need to come clean before Jr. gets here. And get ready to pay child support. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

redunicorn	Make sure you are honest with both women. Make sure that your child is taken care of. Make up your mind to be faithful to your girlfriend if she still wants you to stay. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chris	son that dog won't hunt. you need to step up, tell her the truth and arrange to support this child. since young people (at least here on Yahoo) seem to sleep together as often as shaking hands, be sure had get a paternity test done, to be sure the child is yours. And as for losing you girlfriend, you really should have thought of that before doing this other girl. be a man and take the consequences. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Earl D	Attend the baby shower with your girlfriend. I mean, you are a cad, so why not act like one! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

patrickholman	Well... this is what you do: First get a lawyer and get a paternity test to see if you're the father. If you're not the father, (you're darn lucky) DON'T tell your girlfriend a thing. It will hurt her feelings. And if you're having an open relationship and you both know it, then she really can't say anything anyway. Again, don't say anything to her... anything you try to say or do wouldn't be for her, it'd be for you. Now, back to the other girl that's pregnant. If she IS pregnant, and it's yours, then congratulations! It's not the end of the world. Actually it's pretty awesome! You'll be young enough to kick it with your kid... It's the most awesome experience, and a LOT easier than people say or make out. So, after the paternity test and you find out that it's perhaps yours, you ask the girl how much she wants a month for child support. Ask her. I can't tell you how important this is. Once she agrees on a price (and the money is just for daily expenses; diapers, food, and what not...) You get your lawyer to draw up an agreement, and have the girl sign it. If you make $2000 or less a month...then, between $250 and $500 is good. Trust me, she'll get you to sign one at the hospital,and then the state does it for you... and you don't' want that... even though that's fair too. But it will be less hassle for you and her if you just start writing checks. you feel?? So, no one has to know except you and pregnant girl. If other girl finds out, you're going to lose her anyway, so there's no use in you telling her... that would just make it quicker. Be a pimp, and keep them both. Have fun! And remember, use a condom and be safer next time. x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Billy Boy	What about the girl you're making a baby with, genius? Geez, you have to have a license to fish, drive, and hunt, but any idiot bring a child into the world. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ha Ha Charade You Are...................	you're f*cked Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Magix	run as fast as you can... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bat Thumb	Kinda late for that now, isn't it? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gungnir	They are? Surely you mean you and the other one are? In that case be a man and face the music. You caused it, you handle it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Alex P	if you guys are not faithful to each other already, this cannot last... come clean, or leave now. End it before it gets difficult. If you are not honest now, things will get worse, quickly!! If you two cannot be honest with each other, hiding things from one another, you have to check yourself. why are you doing this? What makes you do this? If you talked to her, and she starts asking questions (or if u break up and she later asks ?'s) then you have to be honest. It's just gonna screw with your head more. If you can't answer her honestly, then there's a problem with the relationship... don't lie becuz you think it'll ruin things, or lie becuz youthink that she's gonna get upset with you or the one you cheated with..... that one has nothing to do with this, it's all you! deal, soon! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kimmy t	OK you are so stupid,if you love your girl then why the hell are you doing this to her,basically you don't really love her cause you are doing this.plus you said that she was pregnant right.....will the best thing to do is to tell her,and then she would leave you and have a deborsion and move on with her good life,you are so useless,her life must of sucked cause she had jumped in to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Munya Says: GFOD	Um, uh...are you sure you wouldnt rather know how to make Garlic bread? Ok, you have to be responsible. You need to tell your gf what you did. And then take a few steps back. Maybe more than that if she's prone to swinging. And then you have to take care of that baby (of course, not gonna ask are you sure its YOURS? but Maury would ask that...). Be a good father to the baby, support him/her...you don't have to marry the woman, but you do need to be there for her and the baby. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tess	well i pretty much agree with what most of the people who answered this has said..lol. LOVE doesnt mean CHEAT sorry..IF you loved her and IF she loved you there would be NO cheating..loveing someone is being faithful to them and doing everything in their power to make the relationship work and NO that does not mean go out and boink someone else. I dont know who is havening the baby on this topic but i sure do feel sorry for the little one to have such screwed up parents ...i would advise both of you to grow up and be responsible. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bumblebee	seems like you are inbetween a rock and a hard place, if you really loved her, you would not cheat on her, and vice versa. Good luck when you tell her... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kimmypop	so u and ur gf cheat on each other, doesnt snd like a very healthy relationship to me! well if u really do love her u should tell her the truth dont let her find out from some one else that always makes things alot worse! I cant say if shell leave u or not sorry! good luck to ya Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I love money	SCREW EVERYONE YOU MEET Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emily l	You have to tell her. It's one thing to sleep around(not good),but it's another to make kids too. You seem very irresponsible. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cat D	OK obviously if you have impregnated someone else your relationship is not the most faithful and honest. You need to let her know not only because of the child but she should be tested for diseases. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Natnic27	there having a baby? I assume you mean they're having a baby...I just want to know who they are? It sounds like YOU ARE having a baby, dude. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Alex_P	if you guys are not faithful to each other already, this cannot last... come clean, or leave now. End it before it gets difficult. If you are not honest now, things will get worse, quickly!! If you two cannot be honest with each other, hiding things from one another, you have to check yourself. why are you doing this? What makes you do this? If you talked to her, and she starts asking questions (or if u break up and she later asks ?'s) then you have to be honest. It's just gonna screw with your head more. If you can't answer her honestly, then there's a problem with the relationship... don't lie becuz you think it'll ruin things, or lie becuz youthink that she's gonna get upset with you or the one you cheated with..... that one has nothing to do with this, it's all you! deal, soon! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

A*	You may love her but thats too bad. You screwed up and now you have to make it up... if your the father of course. If you are than be a father to your child. What type of sick relationship isnt the most faithful to each other. Your a parent now, but first I suggest you grow up. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

snowbaal	experiment with honesty. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No