What is the fastest way to gain confidence?

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foo_fighters_fan_2002	I find the best way for me to feel more confident is to dress well, to look good. Which a nice wardrobe, i feel good about myself and feel myself being more confident because of it. so quick (but by no means a 'fix') i would suggest go clothes shopping. Take a couple of friends whos opinion you trust, then even if you dont feel confident that they clothes suit you or whatever, your friends will be there to tell you otherwise. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

khadijahbyrd	the fastest way to gain confidence is to believe in yourself. and other to believe also. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

derekjkilner	100miles a hour along the motorway then you will feel confident only joking, dont think so deep,how does your friend get by, learn from them try some things they do ,dont think DO Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

amygirl9333	Sit down and take a minute to make a list of all your great qualities.. Then make a separate list of things you would like to change about yourself... Look at the list of things you don't like about yourself and start working on improving them.. One at a time...Take the list of all the things you love about yourself, put it in your purse, and when you start to feel down on yourself pull out the list, and read it to yourself.. Eventually you will have nothing left on your list of things you hate about yourself, and the list of things you love about yourself will be twice as long!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

coolcat_35404	Come over tonight about 8 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vahucel	Confidence is a conquer that spends time. Do not lie. Be confident with yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Anthony S	Say hi to 10 people a day. Honestly. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Meeshell	Go to a spa and get a body scrub. Or something really relaxing. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janet m	just keep telling yourself its ok all things have a way of working out at some point i know its hard but they say if you try to have a positive attuide that it really works good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zachgrubbs	Beer Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Suzita	Believe in yourself. Write ten affirmations now!! Things you like about in yourslef. Say them every day. Try reading Susan Jeffers books - eg Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway and The Little Book of Confidence. Think positive about yourself and hold your head high. You're a winner!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Apurva Misra	being slowest in changing ur decisions nd views.... be them right or wrong Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dolphinchick	Smile Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nice girl	Lesson to any Anthony Robins tape. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

scooby.doo	just think you are as good as the rest of them. never down yourself and hold you head up and get on with it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

AAP0305	Lose weight (exercise will also make you feel better) and go shopping for cute smaller cloths and styles shoes w/purse to match. Treat yourslef and go to the spa, get your nails done, a pedicure and hair is a must!! Go to the makeup counter and get a make over, and buy some new make. Then plan a wild weekend with some friends or family..go out on the town and show off your new look!!! Good Luck!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RONNIEKAT	Do a self-inventory. Speak highly of yourself. Accept your weaknesses and approve on them. Do not rely on others to give you compliments and praise. Praise yourself. Dress well, eat right. Look people in the eye. Tell the truth. Think before you speak. Love yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

libertino85	Just start acting/behaving as if you are confident. Then it will start coming naturally, especially when you notice all the positive responses you get. "Fake it 'till you make it." Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

princess angel 2207	believe in yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mr Hawk	do all the things you are afraid to do over and over Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Schelle S	Read the number one rule in the Rules book. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

apek	Alcohol is fast and cheap but there are specific drugs out there that don't give you a hangover. Now if you were to ask what is the best way to gain confidence - well that's a lifetime occupation. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kango Man	Bungee Jumping. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cmac	if you believe that you are the child of God, that is all the confidence that u need. and love yourself people are cruel and words can hurt. but you have got to know that strength comes from within Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cattmeow2	Some people say "fake it 'til you make it". Just keep telling yourself that you are confident and it will be. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dummyfx	Buy a gun. (just kidding) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MellyMel	Set goals - when you make them your confidence and self esteem will rise and soon you will be ready to do anything. I love setting small goals and finishing them - It makes me happy to accomplish something. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Richard Stapleton	Walk with your head up, and never look down at the sidewalk. Shake someone's hand very firmly with a one jerk motion. Cross you T's high at the top and not in the middle. Dot every "i". These are simple techniques that would amaze you. Why so, because folk with low self esteem do the opposite. They always look down. They shake hands very flimsyly. They do not dot most of the i's. They cross their "T's" at the bottom half. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sciman	Try to be patient. It is the quality of the confidence, and not the quantity. I used to be shy, but the most satisfactory way to deal with it has been living life. I may stll suffer a bit from calligynephobia (fear of beautiful women)!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ginkgo	The fastest way to gain confidence is to learn more about yourself by taking 10 minutes to read the webpage below. It is called Rx for Life and it has things you can do to keep increasing that confidence every week. Plus, at the beginning, it tells you the latest thing that Bill Gates (richest man in the world) is doing to become happier. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No