Ann VS
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I think 8 years is fine but more than that is weird. i mean, think if they have children. when that child is 20. His dad will be 55 and his mom 43, thats a big difference.
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nenna0727
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I don't think that's a big deal. If you two really love eachother, why should the age diff really matter?
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misskitty
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my husband was 37---me 18, still going 27 years later. that makes us 64---and 45. 19 years diff.
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Danny D
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depends on how you and her feel. thats it. to the devil with any one else
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Heather B
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i don't see anything bad with it. seriously if you think about it.....guys are more immature than girls. so by him being older it makes up for the maturity difference. lol. so, as long as the two of you are happy, at y'all's age, the difference is no problem.
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howdoilvthee
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Why is this question under Optical..
The ages are fine..It depends on the couple themselves..
If they love and respect each other and are honest with each other..That's really all that matters..
Respect and honesty are the foundation of any good relationship..Without these qualities, you have nothing, regardless of the age difference..
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hotdocmama
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Again, how is this optical related? LOL...
Who cares about the age difference? As long as you're happy, why let other people's opinions count more than yours?
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m_c_m_a_n
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I just can't see myself mentally connecting with a 23 yr old. IMO a woman doesn't stop being fickle until at least the age of 32.
However, if it doesn't matter to you or him then what difference does it make what anyone else thinks?
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hospitalbed_shade_ofblue
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As long as you love each other , age should'nt be taken into consideration.
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mhadel
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Age really don't matter, i have a friend the guy is 53 yrs old and the girl is 24 yrs old, and planning to get married next year. As long as you love each other age doesn't really matter.
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Vicky Z
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congrats.
nothing is wrong with that.
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blueeyedbaby41
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I'm 47 and my bf is 34 what do you think about that.It's not the age it's how you feel.
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redgem18
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No. Age never ever really matters as long as you love and understand each other. I have a friend who's happily married, and her husband is 13 years older than she is. They have been married for 12 years now and have three beautiful children, and they are still very much in love with each other.
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P.E.Z
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based on the scientists research's the best difference between couples is 8 to 10 years
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DB
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I am 28 and my BF was 41- It depends on the type of relationship you are wanting and how mature the both of you are, and you are wanting to be just FRIENDS or more
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thomas m
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Women at 23 are more mature than men at 23. So you will be much happier with a 35 year old because he will not be out and about with his buddies behind your back doing God knows what. The 35 year old will give you the attention you deserve.
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Tara662
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That's a good age difference.
My husband and I are the same age difference as you (12 years apart). I'm 45 and he is 57.
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hmmph
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I hope you're mature
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Hyper Pillsbury Doughboy!
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Age is nothing but a number
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anjelniki
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Dear,Age gap is immaterial for a marriage as long as both of you realy love each other.When I get married I was 39 and my wife 26.We Had 15 years gap.But so far so good lived happily ever after.Your question is what the others think of you.Am I correct?.Honestly ask from your heart.Do you realy love your BF.Then go ahead enjoy.But keep in your mind,don't ever think of the age gap after marriage,Just enjoy the life's fresh and valuable aspects.Congratulations.
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idez9
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Depends......Look twenty yrs down the road...you are 43 and prime..he is 55 and retiring.......I would have to say too much age difference....but honestly it depends on the players...
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The Weasel
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by the time your 23 you're old enough (and should be mature enough) to make your own decisions, whether they be good ones or bad ones.
If you were 5 and he was 18 then you all would have a problem.
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oooari
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Heck no! Congratulations!
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