Yesterday i fussed with my mom and i pushed her and hit her. I need to know something?

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Jessie K	just apoligise to yer mom and tell her what yew just said. after that i'm sure she'll be up for getting yew more help too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sxymxy16	I think that you should sit down and talk to your mom about what you did. first things first, get her to forgive you....there is no need to explain if she doesn't forgive you. Just sit down and talk to her, hopefully y'all can forgive each other and work things out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yeah yeppp yeah	well first of all it was wtong for your mother to kick you its called child abuse. idk but dont blame it all on you cuz your mom helped with the fighing she should apologize to you for kicking you first Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pink	Oh dear, something similar happened to me long ago when my mom was alive. brings back memory's. my advice to you would be to wait till things cool down and then apologize to her. she would be more open for it when she not angry. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

iquestionmark	She kicked you first? That doesn't seem any more right than what you did to her. Maybe you need to forgive each other? Go out and do something- just the two of you. Have some quality girl time. Some day you will be happy she was overprotective- I know everyone says that, but how would you feel if she didn't care enough to want to know where you were going and who you were with? It's her job to help you get through your early years with as little damage as possible. It's just as hard for a mother to deal with her little girl growing up as it is to be the one growing, so try to remember that. The reason you did this? For some reason you felt you could. You need to get it straight in your own mind that hitting your mother is not acceptable, and it's not OK for her to be hitting you either. *You're going to grow up so fast you're not going to believe it. In no time you will be 30 and you'll wish you could go back to the days when all you had to worry about was school and keeping your room clean. There's always a way to avoid failing in school. Study, get tutoring, if you think you can't handle the work talk to your teacher, a guidance counsellor...You'd be suprirsed what talking to someone can fix. Life? It can suck. Try to fill it up with as many good things as you can. Focus on bringing positivity into your life. Get involved in something you love. Dance classes, a club, anything to keep you busy and doing something you enjoy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SeÑoR LUiS™	DIDN'T YOU EVER LEARN NOT TO HIT YOUR PARENTS! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dynf	You need to apologize to her. You do have a bad temper and be careful, you don't want to end up somewhere because of your temper. You should learn how to walk away. Take a breather when it gets real bad. You shouldn't even lay a hand of her at all. If she hits you, you shouldn't hit her back at all. This woman will step in front of the truck to save you. In time you will know exactly how she feels inside when you become a mom yourself, and that's when all the bad things that you did to her in the past will come and haunt you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

assilem4791	Perhaps stress, but you have to try & remember to always respect your mother. She loves you & wants what is best for you.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Debbie V	Did your Mom start this fight by kicking you? I think it's been established that you have an anger control problem, and it's probably going to take the Topamax a few weeks to kick in, even if you take it every day like you should. Bring your mom flowers, and tell her how sorry you are. Promise yourself never to do that again. You need to clear some things out of your life right now, because you can't handle everything on your plate. It's too stressful. If a project can be put off until next month, do it. You need less to think about, especially upsetting things. All teens have conflicts with their moms, but most can control their temper so there are no violent responses. You're overstressed, or maybe you have a mental disorder. It doesn't matter. Get the meds, take them every day and promise yourself that you won't get physical anymore. TX Mom Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

420 Veggies	You aren't understanding each other. See a family counselor immediately. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

poptart!™	wow you shouldnt disrespect your mom like that but i think you should go to a counciler or talk w/ ur mom.. hope this helps Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ann	How old are you? Read books about puberty. Also take up a sport, even if it is just walking, or riding a bike. Do this on a regular basis. It is normal for a teenager to have turbulent feelings, but your goal is to know that you needn't act out on every ugly, or violent thought that goes through your mind. Don't act out on your anger. If you wait a moment or two or fifteen, the anger will pass. Learn from the regret. If you feel angry, IMMEDIATELY walk out of the house, and go for a walk, and don't come back until you have completely calmed down. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yankee_babe1	First of all, I can't believe no one else addressed this part, your mom should not have kicked you either. Both were wrong!!! Children learn what they live. You should request counseling, for both you and your mom, ask your mom, doctor or school to guide you in the right direction for therapy. You also need to realize your mom is the authority in your life and you must respect and follow her rules. Try to remember yelling will only cause each other's anger to rise. Keep the volume down when talking, it helps keep things in perspective. Allow each other time to speak, if your mom tries interupting after you have let her have time to speak then POLITELY ask her for your chance to do the same. Showing signs of remorse and admitting to your own wrong doing are positive steps in the right direction, follow through with the therapy... EDIT: You and your mom both owe each other an apology... GL Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Katarina U	The answer may lie in completely unrelated things to your mother. If you're getting bad grades in school, having a rough time with friends, or fighting with a significant other, you may be unconsciously taking your frustration out on your mom. You must realize she only wants the best for you. However, it WAS wrong of her to attack you first, and if you feel that she is being too mentally, emotionally, or physically violent to you, do not hesitate to contact authorities. She may have a problem of her own. If your doctor recommends that medicine, Topamax, start taking it ASAP and just think about your actions before you commit them. A lot of children, teenagers, and adults alike go through this exact type of scenario, but it is by no means permanent. Good luck. ~Kat Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ceeje	Wow. Okay, first, your mom has no business kicking you. Second, you need to sincerely apologize to her & make sure you did not seriously hurt her. During this you should be taking your meds. You obviously also need counselling. You don't say how old you are. If you're old enough to move out you should get on that right away. By the way, you should look up the term "fussed with" and come up with another more honest term, like maybe "abused". Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Madd Hatter	Your way in the wrong here. Under no circumstance and I mean no circumstance should you ever hit your parents especially your mom. How about you gain some respect for your mother who obviously loves you and wants what's best for you. You should be ashamed and that should be enough motivation for you to never hit your MOTHER again. Kids these days, in my day if you hit your parents you got a beating that wouldn't end for days. Disgrace. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

orchard_littlejoe	Parents always want better for their children then the way they themselves have it. Have a private conversation with yourself and ask yourself if what your mom had to say was really "wrong" or was it you that just had a problem hearing it. Only you know deep down who is really right. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

linz_b	first thing you need to do is give your mom a serious apology. yes what you did was wrong, but at least you acknowledge that. do you see a therapist? it sounds as if you should be seeing one, because you might need an outlet to vent you feelings before your temper explodes like it did with your mom. best of luck to you!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kim W	do not know how old you are but anger management sessions here are needed because I don't want you or mom going to jail. If cops get wind of this both of you will need bail. Personally I wouldn't hit a parent and if it got to that point, I'd leave till I got my act together. It says in the bible to honor your parents if you want a long life. But heck who fears God these days??? No one on yahoo for sure. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MomX's2	Alright, keep in mind your mom will forgive you cuz' Mom's are that way. (I'm a mom) If you are feeling bad feelings you need to walk away! Get help from a health proff. (psychiatrist) work through it, because if you don't it may escalate to something terrible!!! GET HELP!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

luvrmoney	You already answered you own question. You know you were wrong. the meds. alone aren't going to be enough. Maybe you and your mom can talk and go together to counseling. Please apologize to yor mom. I'm just guessing here that you and she only have eachother. Good luck to you both! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Elias	Anger therapy sweetie, and go give your mom a big hug and tell her your sorry and you love her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jurysugar	Yes, it was very wrong what you did BUT on a positive note, you are taking responsibility for it and you are recognizing that you have a problem now before it gets out of hand. If you lay a hand on your mother(well, you should never lay your hand on anyone) but laying your hand on your mother then you definitely have an anger issue that needs therapy to learn how to cope when things get you frustrated. Don't beat yourself up because you are very young and there is so much hope for you as long as you get the help that you need. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Matt D	Wow first of all your mom has probably already forgiven you, but it would be so nice for her to hear "mom I'm sorry I freaked out yesterday, I'm sorry and I love you"... No caring parent, especially one that loves you enough to be over protective over you, would be able to hold a grudge against you after hearing those words ...I'm sure she also knows that you have "anger Issues" and will understand that it was something that you didn't have complete control over ( if any ) ....few ppl can say that they did not ever disrespect , argue or fight with their mom, just be one of the ppl that makes amends to her, a mom is a precious thing to have, love her ! =) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blue22op	Well, the first thing you need to do is have a talk with your mom. I don't just mean tell her how sorry you are, but tell her you're stressed why you're stressed and ask her to help with your situation. I think it was all of your pent up frustration, but the best thing is that you realized you were wrong. If you showed no remorse you would be in a worse position. I wish you the best of luck and try to talk out your problems. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cathy	I think you need how to cope with your emotions. Find a way of better communication. Let go of those negative repressed feelings and work things out. Talk to your school guidance councilor or school psychologist. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

....	this is reason umber ONE you should NEVER have sex!!! crazy psycho! we dont neeed anymore medicated weirdos reproducing and making more psychotic weirdos who need medication to keep them from beating their mother .. are you sure ur not mexican.. i hearrd they beat their mothers Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dr. Jeah	You need to attend therapy sessions for anger management immediately. Dr. James Jeah MD Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

christopher j	well first of all, before you even worry about medication or anger management, you should let your mom know you have been under stress and that you love her and your very sorry for hitting her. tell her what a great mother she is. thank her for being their for you when you need her. the healing process should start from their. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

b4iquit	To have a parent who loves you is a gift beyond compare. Both of you are at fault, I don't believe parents should hit kids either, more so if it is in anger. Time to sit and talk together. Sort it out, apologize early. During that talk you need to draw attention to your temper and decide if you want to do something about it. You need to learn how to control it, tame it. Learn other ways to express your angst and stress. That may mean getting help and that does not mean there is something sinister wrong with you, just that you are mature enough to know you have a problem and need help to beat it. Good luck. Keep the good relationship with your mum. Be safe, be sage Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No