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Well it seems like you feel insecure and you think everybody is better than you (which is completely not true)
you just need to chill-out,never let anything annoys you and you have to have self-confidence
your life is too precious to be wasted like that for no reason
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mackenzies mommy!
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why in the world would you want to do something like that??? ive been there... its not worth it! why would you want to kill yourself over what other ppl think and how other ppl make you feel?? you dont need to worry about them live your life for you not them! them picking on you and you reacting to it gives them what they want!!! trust me again ive been there! everything will get better for you i promise.... and maybe they are only bein haters ... maybe they are really jealous of you or something and they just want to pick on you to try to make themselves feel better!!!!
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iNsTaNt pUdDiNhEaD
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First of all, suicide is not an option, because it is a non-solution. It doesn't solve any problems, and you do have the power to solve your problems, maybe not on your own, but with the help of others. Have you talked to a school counselor about these thoughts? Have you talked to your parents or even a trusted friend about this?
I think you will find that you don't need to try so hard to have everyone like you. That can have a reverse effect. Instead, it would be helpful if you could actually distance yourself a bit from those you think you might have annoyed. That doesn't mean not to be friendly to them, but it does mean that you need to find other interests besides the cheerleading. That doesn't mean to give that up, but to find other uses for the times you're not doing cheerleading stuff. That will accomplish two things. It will help take your mind off the problems that you are allowing to consume you. And if you limit the time you spend with these other people, they will actually want to be with you more than if you're always there trying too hard to be liked.
You can do it. Stay in the game, talk to someone, and good luck!
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sweetie
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don't talk like that I mean if you have to quit the team go ahead and quit. I mean you are 15 yrs old u have ur whole life ahead of u you are capable of doing anything u want don't let any stuff like that ruin it for you think of all those people who love u. This is a serious thing please talk to someone try talkin to ur parents if that doesn't work try a psychologist.
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theu01
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Don't Do It.
If you're getting picked on you probably aren't hanging around with the right kind of people.
Find people you that accept you for who you are and don't try to impress anyone.
I was picked on before then I met some new friends people I thought I would never talk to and...I fell in love. This just shows that there's light at the end of the tunnel.
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Travis F
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Well, you should try standing up for yourself. If any girls picked on you, you should picked on them back. That'll teach them some lesson. Committing sucidie will not solve your problem. Think about your family, someone who loves you.
They wouldn't want to loose you.
I was picked on at school and thing about it, I strike back at them. Then they quit bullying me.
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Rocky
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Just imagine , u are a cheerleader and u encourage team & people , frustrations happen in life and everybody seeks a immediate solution not finding they go to end life , if u just turn around from the bad side there is good side where u can see life..
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JustMe
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Hun, I know EXACTLY where you are coming from. I was in a coma for 16 hrs last september for a suicide attempt. You WILL change your mind at the last second, and luckily for me, it wasn't too late. Call a crisis line immediately, a family member, a friend, everyone...even if you dont say right away whats up to your friends and family just say you need them NOW Email me anytime you want...if youd like to talk to someone who's been there ALL My thoughts are with you
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KNIGHTMARE KING
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talk to your parents, talk to a counselor
don't be stupid and end what you are just getting started (your life) if all else fails you could always talk to me i'll have an ear for you
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Stargazer Lily
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Please go talk to your parents, a counsellor, a teacher , any adult that you trust and respect. You need to get some real help with this. You should definitely get some counselling. You'll be surprised how much it can help. Suicide is NEVER the right answer. Things will get better. Good luck. Peace.
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Nightrider
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Hey girl, suicide in not the answer because you may think it is an easy way out - but it causes a lot fo problems for everyone.
Everyone around you loves you. You may not realize this, but those loved ones will have problems coping with your suicide.
The first solution to such thoughts is to recognize you have a problem. You have and that is good. The fact you wrote about it here is a good sign.
You certainly need to talk to either a distress centre in your area or a mental health professional. Please do not delay.
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Amy N
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Call your local hospital and ask them to give you the number for a suicide hotline. Call them, and they can talk it all out with you and help you.
If I can give you some personal advice, PLEASE listen and take me seriously. It's been a long time since I was a teenager, and I've never forgotten how intense your feelings are as a teen. Whether it's love, fear, depression, etc. It's a time in your life when you FEEL stronger than you ever will. This can be good, and it can be devastating.
All I can tell you is, and I PROMISE you this. All the intense emotions you are feeling right now WILL pass eventually. High school is such a hard time to go through, kids will give you so much crap, and there's more pressure than most adults can even imagine to be perfect. Kids can be so cruel, and life can just be almost too much to handle.
I know it feels like this is going to go on forever, but it won't. Someday you will be looking back going "THANK GOD THAT'S OVER AND I DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE HIGH SCHOOL CRAP ANY MORE"!
And also, I can tell you, I have run into some of the cute, popular girls years after high school, and guess what? Most of them look like worn out old hags! They're not so cute any more. And the plain ones? They grew into beautiful women!
If you feel like you're not happy in cheerleading (which, incidentally shows you must be pretty cute and popular), DON'T BE AFRAID TO QUIT. If there's something you would rather do, dump those cheerleaders and do what you really want to.
Hang in there sweetie. I swear, it seems like forever, but it WILL be over and life WILL go on and be much, much better after high school.
Much love, and don't you dare give up on yourself. Kids that pick on you are jealous of you, bottom line. Remember that!
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jerrell'sz_bOO.
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first, have ice.cream. it always makes me feel better.
second, try making ur self look pretty to go to school.
do a new hair.style. buy some new clothes
put on make. up
dont be afraid to be LOUD. im loud at my school and will go up to a stranger and start talking to them but i guess thats how i made all my friends.
dont care about what other people think of you.
if someone comes up to you and says something so you dont care and walk away.
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Elizabeth R
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I think you should talk to a school counselor or one of your parents. Don't comit suicide, because that is not going to solve anything. You can get through this, just talk to someone and tell them how your feeling and why your feeling that way. And if you think quiting cheerleading will make you happy, then do it. But don't throw your life away your young and you have so much more of it to live. Have you ever thought about standing up to those girls and telling them to buzz off. I was a competitive cheerleader all through middle school and high school I know how mean girls can be but don't take their bull, stand up for yourself. But talk to someone about your feelings because if you never talk to anyone, no one will ever know how you feel.
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lis
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i think its pretty normal for girls ur age to feel this way, i mean its alot of pressure, the thing you need to understand is that people pick on others to make themselves feel better, sometimes arguing back gives them the attention they want. There must be help lines you can call in your area, the trick is to not try so hard, be happy with yourself and be comfortable in your own skin, screw whatever other people say, you just gotta find ur place sweety and people who are nasty aint even worth a second of your thoughts...
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*Jacey*
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whatever you do don't commit suicide. Think about everyone that loves you. There are websites that will help you with your problems. You can try dm Live.com there you can chat with a agent or get a virtural coach. Hope I helped, just remember not to do anything stupid that can leave your family in pain for the rest of their lives.
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Beau C
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Your life is way too important to just take away from yourself. Everything always works out. Sure, you can quit the tea,. Think of something else to do instead. And don't let the other girls get to you.
Don't commit suicide, you'll be missed.
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doggy1s1
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Suicide is breaking your deal with God. He allowed you to have life so you could learn from your experiences. What doesnt kill you only makes you stronger. God always opens a window, when you need help ask Him.
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THE"IS"
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try acting like it just don't make any diffrence to u,they'll come around
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Seth
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Hey, the first thing I do when I start feel angry at the world is this. I spare a thought for my best friend who is now blind. And then I suddenly realise how blessed I am. Somehow my problems, no matter how hard they seem, will never be as hard as his.
Hope this makes you feel better.
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RicKadeL!c
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just dont do it! dont worry about ur still young u have ur whole life ahead of you and ur about to kill urself over friends??? cmon
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sugar bear
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JUST LIVE!!! Get that suicide b.s. out of your mind! Channel your thought & get mad at the situation! Not for the purpose of quiting, but for fighting to make things better! Stop trying to chnge others & even yourself! Being yourself is hard enough in this world & people suck! Don't allow the things that others do effect you that much! You can't stop them from being *** holes, but you can channel your energies into proving that their all wrong!!! LIVE!!! FIGHT!!! & JUST BE OUR SELF!!!!
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Judith H
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Please talk to your parents about this. I wasn't popular in school, but I had maybe 2 close friends. Girls didn't tease me, though. It's a whole different world now, than it was when I went to school. Please do it tomorrow!!! They should be able to help you thru this. I will be praying for you.. Good luck....
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letterstoheather
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I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. Can you make an appointment to talk with your cheerleading captain? What about your school counslor?
Talk with your parents.. let them know you're feeling very down... your family doctor might be a good place to start.
I have been depressive and suicidal all my life... May i ask you to please take a look at the website below? It's written for people like us by a "regular" person... and has a lot of good links, and helpful information, as well as hotline numbers.
i'm sending you hugs... take care of YOU...
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Summerlynn
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I know where you are coming from. I was picked on and i felt depressed because of it. Please talk to your parents, school counselor and maybe you can get counseling. Suicide is never the answer. There are crisis lines out there to have someone to talk to. 1-800-448-3000 is a boys town suicide hotline for teens in crisis. 800-999-9999 this one is also for teens and youth. Do a search for national crisis lines for more.
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raflorsheim
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Definitely don't commit suicide. You would just hurt people you don't really want to hurt, and it wouldn't help either you or change things with those girls. You need to talk to someone, but you are right, those girls are not the right ones to talk to. If you aren't comfortable talking to your parents, what about the cheerleading coach or a counselor or teacher?
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lOVERFACE.
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who cares what they think ..really
dnt do that ur so young so much life ahead of
you...things will get better
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Mr. Mustard
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1-800-SUICIDE.
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SurfBoy
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Well suicide isn't going to solve any of your problems, it's only going to create more for others.
You're 15 years old. School is just a phase of life. I had the same situation growing up.
Everyone picked on me at school. People I didn't even know picked on me. Everyone called me a f-a.g, loser, nerd, geek, worthless.
Suicide won't solve your problem. You just need to be strong, and know that all of life is not this way. It will only get better.
Nothing beats keeping your head up, and when you're my age (26), with a good job and a good life, you can look back at all the people who gave you trouble in school who are now losers, working in restaurants and other deadend jobs.
Don't hurt yourself. It would make me, and a lot of other people very sad. Remember, there's always someone else out there in the same situation as you who has it 1000 times worse.
And don't forget, there's always us friendly people here online to talk to, who will never ever judge you.
Get some rest, for tomorrow is a new day.
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®PsychologyGuy
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Well, you will get a lot of the default answers on here telling you to get professional help. However, if you are just looking for someone to talk to who will listen, without getting into the mental health system or having your parents find out, you can always call a youth crisis line. If you need help finding one, let me know the city/state you live in and I can get some information for you.
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Stevie
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talk to a doctor... if you cant wait that long there are plenty of hotlines you can call and someone will talk you through what you are feeling. if you think none of that will work then call 911 and they will take you somewhere for professional help.
question though... why would you kill yourself over what others think of you? stop trying to impress others... do what makes you happy without worrying about what others think of you. youve got to like yourself before others can like you. in a few years you will look back and realize that what other people say really doesnt matter. as long as you accept yourself and do what makes you happy you will be fine.
start seeing a counselor (therapist)...no one at school has to know about it... but talking to someone about your problems will help you more than you think.
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