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he'll probably stay there for about a week, but if theyre gonna make him do like, mental testing, and stuff like that, who knows.
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notyou311
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Get an restraining order from the police. And get an education.
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King Kong
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DON'T ASK ME ASK THE HOSPITAL
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John A
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Say you f***ing suck man.
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hellooo you are in trouble. if you have deserted that boy then you have to suffer but if not then you should contact some good doctor and get the boy treated well with the help of his family members. He has taken things to his heart try to understand this.
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catherine
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YOU ARE IN SERIOUS DANGER!
You need to go to the police and have them put a restraining order on him. It will say he may not come within a certain number of yards from you. This does not necessarily keep you safe, however. You need to either put NEW LOCKS on you apartment door or (even safer) move without telling him where. YOU NEED TO LEAVE TOWN AND POSSIBLY START FRESH ELSEWHERE.
GET HELP FROM A CRISIS CENTER/BATTERED WOMEN'S SHELTER OR OTHER ORGANIZATION.
YOU ARE IN DANGER...ACT NOW TO SAVE YOURSELF!
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senior2tor
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This idea has some truth 'your grammer killed him' Language decays in a psychotic event. Also you don't say you were ever severely depressed. You don't have much in common with the mentally ill but I have seen some who really are in love. The white male does suicide four times more than the USA female. I think it is easier for the guy to be with a depressed female but he too needs to have experience in the mental disorders. It will be at least ten years before he will be recovering and he will change so much. He sees how people live around him only with a teacher. I would say move on... you don't need the mess nor does he . The memories are now seriously damaged and he cant cope at all with the past.
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Mr. Smeef
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your grammer killed him
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Honey Beats
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I WENT TO HER OTHER QUESTIONS AND SHE TYPES PROPERLY IN THOSE, EXCEPT THIS ONE! I THINK SHE IS JUST TRYING TO TAKE PPL FOR A RIDE!
LETS BOO HER INSTEAD OF ANSWERING HER QUESTION WHICH IM SURE IS A LIE!!
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
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J E
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Move.
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caffsans
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not only the councilor ,but the police men as ,that young man is very ill mentally and you need to be protected from him when he says he is going to do things to you=good luck with this
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☆Zestee☆
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You need to get a restraining order against him while he is in the hospital.
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prplfae
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talk to the police, tell them your situation, they might watch over your apartment or something to protect you when he gets out. but yes the will try to help him, he will probably end up in a psyciatric ward for the suicide attempt, but you need to talk to the police because he will get out eventually
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fkinhologram
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well love this is a very serious subject. i mean it all comes down to the fact if you LOVE HIM! Now i mean love who he is, not now after his breakdown. That would just be out of pity. He is obviously dangerous.
1. move out of state- is he that obsessed over u where he would find you instate or out?
2. Get a restraining order on his ***!- that u should already have done.
3. get a Mace spray or tazer- protects you and subdues the guy without killing him.
thats all i got as of right now. you just need to tell yourself how bad do you want IN or OUT of this relationship.
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Terrible G
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Start by telling the cops. Second move. Third have no contact with him. Fourth seek mental help ASAP. Find a good therapist to talk to. Finally, he is not your problem, worry about yourself and your own life. Forget the hospital. He will be out in less than a week.
Get a restraining order. Change the locks. Get away from him for good.
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dankohner
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What a looser. Call the police immediately and report him. Don't even finish reading this, call now!
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.:.:.Mizz_undaStood.:.:.
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this guy sound really unstable. why are you associating with him? it sounds like hes dragging you down. you might just want to ditch him and get a new guy.
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Mom Sparrow
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Well he is in the hospital that's a good start for him to get help. Make a police report about his threats. Get a restraining order if you're really afraid he'll try to harm u.
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[Un]beloved
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Let the police know that .
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Jason S
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call the police and file a report.
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Ken O
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First of all, him being unable to "live" without you is a misguided lie on his part, and is not your fault. You have every right to leave a relationship at any time, and if he can't take it then it is good you got out when you did. It is very important that you personally do not comfort him. You can say that you understand him but if you offer to comfort to him he will continue to use threats to get what he wants from you.
After an attempted suicide it is usually mandatory that the patient will go to the local mental-health facility for treatment. Probably at least for a week or two. There he will work on his feelings and emotions as well as establish a crisis plan incase he gets to that same level again. Unfortunately it is very easy to be ok at the hospital and revert once home again. If you are concerned for your safety then you MUST bring it up to the hospital/counselors/doctors and police that are involved with him and his treatment.
If after his release from treatment he tries to contact you or comes to your house I would let him know over the phone that you still stand where you stood before and the relationship is over, if he comes to your house I would not answer the door and make sure you have pepper spray handy at all times, one next to the door and another in your purse or pocket.
Good luck, and remember it is not your fault. People break up every day and don't try to kill themselves or others. It is his problem and he must work through it on his own with the assistance of his family and professional help.
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Shylia
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Your best bet is to go to the police and ask them what you should do and what you can do to protect yourself. Every hospital is different but my sister's ex (her baby's father) two weeks ago hung himself and his father caught him time and cut the rope. He was in the hospital for two days and in the mental ward for three days. They didn't put him on meds or nothing, we have always been afraid for her because he is totally disturbed and the hospital didn't help at all. So my point is to go the law and see what you can do.
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Margie
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GET A RESTRAINING ORDER AND A GUN. MOVE AND DON'T TELL HIM, CHANGE YOUR NUMBERS!!!
You should be able to get a TRO (restraining order) right away.
Move in with a friend or someone for a while if you have to.
PS- Do NOT communicate with him or see him in any fashion whatsoever.
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Change your address and your numbers and don't communicate with him.
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Elaine E
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if someone threatens to kill you, talk to the police
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Pickle123
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simple get a protection order, and if he comes anywhere near you call the police. oh and get good locks and a baseball bat. hes obviously trying to control the situation and you with violence do NOT play his game.
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Ledzeppelin324
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yeah suicide is when he is dead, he is what is it called...... depressed. just put him a on a 24/7 suicide watch and move to another state or country, and if that aint possible, my friend is a bodyguard, but he is in NYC so, chances you living there is 1/50 but anyways get a room mate or some thing, or make your stuff private so you can't find you. i agree with the 1st answer, restaining order and a weapon, not a gun, maybe a katana, a gun you need a permit and stuff, and its pretty expensive, and learn martial arts
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rustybones
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He will stay in the hospital until he's recovered from the meds and is in good physical health. They will want him to see a mental health professional, either there or at another hospital.
You need to get a protective order against him and if he shows up at your door, don't let him in and call 911.
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NUTZ
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hey isnt this like that sean kingston song called beautiful girls.
ITS TRUE!!!!!!!!
You're way too beautiful girl
That's why it'll never work
You'll have me suicidal, suicidal
When you say it's over
Damn all these beautiful girls
They only wanna do your dirt
They'll have you suicidal, suicidal
When they say it's over
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just me
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You need a restraining order...a cop, not an counselor
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petrelli
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They might treat him with a therapist, if he seems unstable, if stabel then they might just let him go. Talk to someone, like a family memeber of his and tell them how he needs a therapist or some kinda professional help. And might wana have a friend with you if he gets out, not a guy cuz if he sees a guy he might go nuts. Just make sure someone just to watch out for you and to call help in case something happens.
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