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cyberwarlocklord	dude/dudette never take the easy way out thats what bad ppl do and it'll just cause ur family more trouble...anyways my school time was even more wacked than urs is now....im 36...back when i was in school i got beat up by what we use to call jocks cuz i had long hair and hung with the long hair ppl...think about it if u need anymore support call pro help or add me on YIM chatroom_hog i might be able to help lord knows i'll try till then peace... : ) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janisjoplinrocks	you sounds like you really are having a rough time right now! You need to tell your parents how you're feeling and really talk to a professional! There is so much to live for! your mom and dad and friends would be so devastated if anthing happened to you and they would blame themselves! Trust me, I am a mom of 3 beautiful kids and I know if anyhting happened to any of them it would kill me! Please don't hurt yourself, right now it may seem that things won't get better, but they will! You will grow out of all this stuff you are feeling and will someday go to college or get a cool job and have a family of your own! Please do not do anyhting you and everyone else will regret! Please email me if you need to talk! Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweety514	Seriously, all you need is a friend. Peoples' looks change. I was really ugly as a kid... now I can't complain at all! It all comes from within. Whatever you believe is what you attract. If you always think negative things, negative things will happen. Can I start by telling you that ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. Teenagers can be cruel. Life is hard. Thats just the way it is. But you can chose to work your *** off and make it as beautiful as possible. Do you know how many people you would hurt by doing what you are thinking of doing????? YES! KIDS SAY STUPID THINGS!!! AND YOU CAN EITHER CHOSE TO BLAME THEM FOR ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS OR FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION ELSEWHERE!!! Acne... being overweight, ugly... these are only external factors. They do change overtime. Nobody gets to chose!!! Some of us are born luckier than others. Nothing we can do! Who cares if people say they wouldn't miss you!!! Why would you care! Stop focusing all of your attention on negative people and start focusing on how beautiful life can be. YOU ARE IN GRADE 8! Do you know how your parents would die inside if you did anything to yourself? You would not only ruin your life, but theirs as well. And as hard as it is to be a parent... I'm sure they have tried their best. One of my friends killed himself. What a waste of a life. He destroyed so many peoples lives in doing that. If it scares you that you might go to hell then keep thinking that. But also think about how many peoples lives will turn to hell if you do it. Whether you believe it or not. LIFE IS NOT A VIDEO GAME!!! Grow up and start taking responsibility. You know what??? School years fly by... in the REAL world, its not what you loook like that matters, its how hard you try in life. You get back what you put into life. Killing yourself, what would that change? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dmf	don't even think about it anymore, what u need to do is learn to ignore idiots who are trying to push u to do things u don't wanna do. ask urself if u really wanna die ok? i'll bet anything that u don't wanna. as for the depression? ur only depressed cuz of those jerks. try telling ppl off sometimes, it does feel good. u gotta learn to take no crap from anyone. be rebel and ignore all rules and regulations. that's what i did when i was little and still do it to this day. (i'm a 32yr old male from ny state). see when ppl give me a bunch of crap or try making me feel like crap i turn around and give it right back to the person twice as bad. that old saying that goes "2 wrongs don't make a right" ? u gotta throw that crap right out the window!! cuz it's a lie. my rule is an eye for an eye....i'm a huge one when it comes to exacting revenge. try making those u don't like feel like crap, put the shoes on their feet so to speak. ( wanna talk to me one on one?......overkill1975 is my yahoo name) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mouse	Know that you are not alone, there are meany people out in the world who feel as you do. You know the harder a persons life is the stronger it makes them,and why would you want to hurt yourself because some idiots at school have a bad attitude, it's not worth it. Your better then that. You weren't sent to earth just to end it like that, keep pushing on, and someday, maybe you can help someone with the struggles of their life. Because you've been there and know how they feel. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ςtερh [♥]'ς τωilighτ	DONT DO IT! If life is really that bad then talk to someone! A councelor, a physicatrist, or a family member or friend or someone! Youre only in 8th grade...you have so much more to look forward to in life! Think about this- after high school, its all over - all those bullies probably wont get anywhere in life! And you'll never have to see them again! Middle school and high school are supposed to be the best times of your life! The times when you are young and stupid and can get away with stuff! Dont waste your precious time here on this earth! God GAVE YOU life! Life is a privelege! Dont take it for granted! OUr time on this earth is limited anyway- why cut it short? Heres my advice - ignore those bullies. They are soooo self-concious that they have to pick on others to make themselves feel good about their pathetic lives. If it really bugs you than TALK TO SOMEONE. Suicide is a PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A TEMPORARY PROBLEM. Problems and people come and go. But problems are TEMPORARY. Once you've commited suicide there is no going back. And think of your family! what YOU ARE DOING TO THEM. Suicide is a selfish thing. You are devastating the lives of those who love you just because YOU think YOUR life is bad. Sh** happens. to everyone. Life is NEVER so bad that you need to take your own life. NEVER. So PLEASE!! For the sake of those who love you, and for the sake of those who care, PLEASE DONT DO IT! find something else to focus on... friends, family, etc. Talk to someone. Get the help you need. Suicide is serious. Please take this into consideration before you do anything serious. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RebEL	Sometimes a few real friends and family is all you need. Those people at school who say they wouldn't miss you are the scum of the earth, and you are a whole person with dreams and hopes and you have some friends and family who LOVE YOU. That's all you need. They can help you be strong. My advice is to talk to someone RIGHT NOW. This is an extremely serious matter. Someone will help you and guide you if you reach out, no matter how confused and hurt you are. You've been through a lot and those kids are being indescribably cruel and horrific... and you're just starting 8th grade and you have a whole life ahead of you. Thank your lucky stars for the few friends and family you DO have and let them help you get help and get better. But NOW is the time! You can do it and get help and get past this:) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jaye Vinson	Please, do not do this. I am so proud of you for not doing it before. People in your school right now will not even be in your life in a few years. My brother killed himself last summer and my heart still hurts every single day. I know if he was aware of the pain that was caused because of this, he wouldn't have done it. He was sick. Depression is a disease. There is help. If you tell me what state you live in, I will do the research for you and find someone for you to talk to. I will email you names and numbers of professionals to help. Give me a chance. You have an illness. If you had the flu you would take something for it. Take something for your depression. Talk to someone. You are a very important person. Please, tell me your state, and I will find you help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

goodcook	PLEASE, reach out to someone, an ADULT someone you trust. Let them know how serious this is. things can get different. Through a good counselor or therapist you could discover what an incredible gift life is. These people that are picking on you mean nothing- they aren't worth your energy and especially not your death. Next time you write yahoo answers please let it be to tell us that you're getting some professional help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Doom Tints	You're far too young to be thinking about this. Don't worry about being picked on. After you finish high school, you will never see any of those people ever again. I don't know how your family life is, but I think a good place to start would be to talk to someone in your family about this. Whether that be your siblings, your parents, your grandparents, or aunts and uncles, you need to talk to someone about it. If you don't know how to start the conversation with your family then simply print this out and show it to them. Once your family life is better, the outside stuff won't matter as much. Remember that your family will be with you forever, the people giving you a hard time at school will all be completely gone from your life in just a few years. Your family is probably not being very attentive towards the struggle you are having, so you need to let them know that you need some help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

laura	You sound just like me when i tried it. I figured out they didnt know how bad it hurt me that they were doing that. They finally stopped maybe you should just talk to some of your friends or classmates. I was actually asked if i would kill myself so i thought thats what they all cared about was me leaving. But you know what your friends and family are what matter to you. so really i think you should reconsider it. you seem like a nice guy that just doesnt know what to do anymore. So maybe all you need to do is write your feelings down or talk to someone about. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

just a girl	Seriously...you shouldn't do it...not because of the fear of hell. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Edgar S	Take my advice don't do it. Grade school is always gonna be like thet but once you get in high school or college it'll change you'll make new friends and have a better life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥dancer♥	life can't be so bad that you would want to die.you said you have family and friends.well what does it matter what the kids at school say?go to a counsler at school and talk to them.you need someone to talk to so please find someone.you have a lot to live for but you might not can see that right now.seek help please.i wish you all the luck in finding help.god bless you.please find help and stop thinking of killing yourself Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vicious	death is not the answer. get on google. do a search on teenagers and depression. you're going thru a very strange time in your life. Your hormones are going crazy and you don't know who you are yet. Where do you fit in this world? That's what you need to be finding out and you are stuck in a transitional stage. You will grow out of all that. I promise. So just enjoy what You can in life and don't worry about the things you can't control. I'm sad all the time too, but I keep moving. You should too. I don't know you, but if you died it would be so sad and a loss to the world. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Salahudeen	DO NOT DO IT. I'd say you'd regret it but... Listen, there are lots to live for, find a group that helps deal with bullying, get a big cousin to beat the crap out of them or somethiing :P Your only in 8th grade I mean come on, tell the police or something if teachers dont wanna stop it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Learning and Teaching	stuff like this makes me so sad. you may feel like it's the right thing to do.. but it really isn't. those people will suffer for years and years. try doing things that might make you happy. find love. actually you know what.. i truly love you :] i am so happy you posted this question. for you to show yourself that there IS a part of you that wants to stay alive. and also, to show OTHER people the good sides of staying alive. 5 years of school is nothing! you are almost done! i hope you do good in school. if you commit suicide, you will never have another chance to do something fun, or laugh, or even cry of joy. i really hope people stop having such bad thoughts about themselves. i will miss you! i don't even know you. it's just something that in my mind, will bother me, knowing that i tried to help you. PLEASE STAY HEALTHY AND ALIVE. try some confidence boosters, like smiling at yourself in the mirror. wear bright colored clothes. watch some funny movies. make more friends, hang out with current friends. telly our family that you love them! oh & btw, i am in 8th grade too :] school just started for me! xoxooxox Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Poppy	Don't do it! The people that make you feel this bad are really not worth it so just ignore them. Most people don't like the way they look, and to people that matter looks won't be important anyway. Don't leave your family and friends that really care about you, try and talk to some of them about it and let them help you :) If you ever want to talk to anyone I know you don't know me but it might be easier to talk to soneone that doesn't know you. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Michelle I	Please, please, please talk to your doctor, a friend, anybody. Just talk to somebody. Nobody here will be able to help you since we don't really know you.Call up your Mum or Dad, or even your boss. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ella	well i just started 8th grade and maybe ur not the only one who is getting picked on because junior high can be tough but i do know that suicide is not the answer cuse in the bible it says that god doesnt forgive sucide so im sure that once u grow up ull be a handsome man get married and have a wonderful family and also think bout the others that do love you wouldnt u feel bad that they cried and totured themselves that u did such a thing Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wendygurl87	I'm glad you didn't do it. You are so young, and to perfectly honest being 13 or 14 now a days is harder than it used to be. You should not do it. You had something stop you the first time. Keep using that to stop you. Things sometimes have to get really bad before they can really get good. I lost a friend in high school through suicide because she didn't think anybody cared, I think she would've changed her mind if she saw all the people crying at school. Don't put anyone including yourself through that pain, it is selfish. Please talk to someone. SUICIDE IS A PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A TEMPORARY PROBLEM! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*~ ? * ~**	hey dont think like that. look you are still a young boy. talk to your parents, or you can call the the teen hotline. please call ! the number is 1-800-448-3000 and the web site is www.girlsandboystown.org. god loves you dont forget that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lilly L	You just answered your own question, there ARE people who care. You have to trust that, they are there for you. You have no idea how much pain you would put those people through if you did kill yourself. I can tell that you are a good person because you care enough about other people's happiness. Find something that you are good at, something that you enjoy doing and love. That way when things get hard you will have something of your own to go to. If you want to talk you can contact me, but seriously, you mean so much to your family and friends. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Foxy	Its really not worth it. talk to a close friend or family member. but DONT commit suicide Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

doshaSmoke	You should devote all that negative thought into weightlifting, or sports, or your fav hobby ,you could change your whole body type and its crazy to see how buff youll get. If you change your thinking to positive all the time you'll feel better and you'll see your life change. Its as simple as thinking bout' good things you can do it bro! Any way I believe that you dont want to die by doing it yourself cause that negative thought and energy will remain with you in the afterlife. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Eric	First of all don't listen to what other people say... people that make fun of other people are losers. Suicide is never the answer to anything. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Skater	DUDE DONT DO IT. YOU ARE WORTH THE WHOLE WOLRD TO SOMEONE!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Girl with Golden Eyes	It will get better. Don't worry! bring yourself to talk to your parents so you can get help. You dont want to kill yourself. you proved it already. If you need someone to talk to im here. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Viet_Gurl_1995	DONT DO IT I'm 11 yrs old and 5 yrs ago was when i strted thinking baout suicide ebcuase i hated myself so much. That was when i was 6 i weas oging to jump down a window form my bedroom being os upsetting. But knowing that there's still so many things i havent done in my life, i decided not to. Life is definitely tough. But are u doing this just becuase poeple hate u? That's stupid, ur family still loves u thats why they didnt abandon u. DOnt DO IT! have u even tried transferring to a new school and start over again with a fresh new year? Maybe htis is ur chance to start over when the year comes aorund. It's easy to find bad people who dont appreciate u like ur bad friends in school but a LOT OF TIME to find a good person. My aunt said that to me becuase she was hating herself ever since my uncle left her, and its been 4 years when she finally foudna good man to take care of her and her son likes him too. I like my new uncle a lot too. So just take time to find a good eprson and neevr commit a suicide u will make ti worse, by going to hell if u kill urself. Talk to a conselour in school or your parents, they will definitely comfort u. One day u might be worth a million dollars to someone. Espicialy ur parents that cant survivie without u Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No