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klbabygirl13	TELL SUMONE!!! that is nothing 2 play with cuz if she does it u will feel bad cuz u new she wuz thinkin it...tell an adult n get sum help...she may b mad at u but she will eventually get over it n if u truly care then u shudnt think twice bout helpin her!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lisa H	She can go to Planned Parenthood. Depending on the state you live in, her mom may never have to know. And honestly, I would tell her to relax for a couple weeks. The actual pregnancy can not be determined for at least 2 weeks after conception. The baby doesn't even implant for the first 3-5 days. There are many many hotlines for yound pregnant girls. They can help her figure out her best option and how to handle her mother. They can also provide some much needed support in this difficult time. Have her call this crisis line. 1-800-448-3000. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hannah	You tell her mom. And then it will all be over with. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mRS.eFRON!!!	MY FRIEND LAURA WAS DOING THAT AND I TOLD MY COUNSELOR AND IT WAS OK SHE ACTUALLY HATEDME... BUT THEN WE WERE LIKE GLUE AGAIN! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Karen S	She should tell her mum and ask her for help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lefty	i think she should confirm the pregnacy first to make sure. then if she is i think she shold confront her mom at the right moment nd let her down easy... don't wait to long though because she will find out eventually. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

julie b	It's not too soon. Suicide is NEVER an option. Tell her to talk to her parents. Nothing is the "end of the world" EXCEPT when your child commits suicide. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bonnie S	In this case you should tell an adult, or maybe even her parents. Have her take a pregnancy test first. Proceed from there but dont waste time, do this now before it's too late!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mamaofaprincess2	Suicide isn't the answer. she should tell her mom. i was really young like her when I got pregnant with my son and I told my mom and she wasn't happy, but I kept the baby and he is almost 10 now and he is wonderful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jay_jay_9002	tell your friend to get some help now. planned parenthood gives a pill up to 72 hours after conception that will stop the growth of the fetus. if it has been longer tell your friend that she should go see a doctor now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emma M	i think that you need to tell your parents or someone you are close to so they can help you even if it goes against what your friend wants as you should not have to deal with this alone. I cant tell you how important it is for you to tell someone Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Natz	First of all she needs to get a pregnancy test and find out for definite whether she is or isn't pregnant. I know it's scary - I had to do it a couple of years ago too, but it NEEDS to be done!! Then if she is she needs to tell her mum. I'd suggest going with her - she may feel more comfortable, or at least stronger as she tells her mum if you're there with her. But suicide is NOT the answer - it would cause more disruption in the family if she killed herself than her having a baby or being pregnant would. Please, as her friend, you need to get her to see this!!! Good luck and I hope your friend is okay!! x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jamilah	There are alternatives to pregnancy.....no not abortions but adoptions. I am sure that her mom will be upset but a baby is a beautiful life. I am a mother of 3 girls (14, 10, 6) and if one of them told me that they were pregnant I would too be upset but I would not make her feel degraded. I would try to help her and give her the best options for what she prefers for her and the baby......................THEN I WOULD GO AFTER THE DAD AND MAKE HIM RESPONSIBLE AS WELL!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Allie	Stay by her side @ all times and you need to talk her out of it! If it becomes worse than this mite sound crazy but YOU need to tell her pearents that she might kill herself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Smoke Star	Its normal to feel that sort of panic especially at that age and if she was raised in a really good home. She probably feels scared and ashamed. Just let her know that this happened for a reason. If it turns out that she is pregnant, it just means that person was meant to be born and will have a purpose in this world. Comfort her the best you can, maybe you could be with her when she breaks the news to her mom. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

patel_anish_1	I think your friend should tell her parents and talk about an abortion if sh does not want the baby, or she can go to a hospital and ask for a pivate abortion, without letting her parents know Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sunny r	You need to tell a parent. YOU Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lola	This is not an uncommon situation. I personally have an uncle who commited sucicide, and an aunt who attemped it. I am no stranger to the causes and effects of sucicde. Make sure she knows you are there for her. She must know you will suport her in every way posible. Right now, her friends are prpbably the only people who will be able to influence her decisions. If she does attempt/commit sucicide, she will harm the baby, if she in fact is pregnant. She may have screwed up this portion of her life with her possible pregnancy, but tell her with a little hope things will get better. She should go to the doctor, and be tested fro a pregnancy. She must tell her mom, if she is indeed pregnant. There are many support groups for pregnant teenagers, and you should gather info on those organizations, and present them to her. Make sure she is taken care of, and if push comes to shove, you tell her parents, along with yours. If her mother lashes out and does something unreasonable (kicking her out, forcing an abortion, etc...) Invite her to stay at your house while things blow over a litte. Whatever you do, do NOT abandon her, she needs you now more than ever. Make sure she knows all of the consequences of sucide, and how it will effect you and the people she is close to. Whatever you do, don't tell her to just 'snap out it' or anything discourging. Right now she needs praise. Many prayers with you and your friend, LOLA Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kenjacy	Being pregnant is not a crime, after all that is why she was born. However she got pregnant when she was not planning. It has happened and she needs to face it. Let her tell her mother. Am sure all mothers understand more than the fathers. Her mother will guide her through the period. Commit suicide denies her an opportunity of enjoying tommorow. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KlonopinQueen	She needs to call a suicide hotline for starters. The girl needs some serious help. That is horrible. There are plenty of places she can go or call or heck even take her to the hospital! I am sure her mother would rather have her and her baby around then to endure the loss of her own child and grandchildren. There are alternatives such as adoption, or whatever she chooses, she is not the first 15 year old girl to get pregnant! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Beckiebobs	no matter how pissed off with her her parents might be, they would rather her be alive, NO MATTER WHAT. They are obviously gonna be upset, but they would rather be upset, and then all deal with it together, rather than loosing a daughter, and possibly a grand son, or daughter. Nothing would be worse than that! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bubbas	if you feel like she is a danger to herself, GO tell someone. especially if she won't. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

A.S	Tell her fast she needs to tell her mom , I mean if she wants to kill herself she can leaves that to her mother, right ? No , for real make her think slowly in away she could tell her in , her mom won't do any thing to harm her . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

x x jane x x	there are so many other options than committing suicide, you should try and research for some numbers in your area for pregnant teens..... sit her down and explain that she can talk to ppl, if worst comes to worst then go and tell her mam.... it will be the only option if your friend is gonna do what says she gonna do..... but make sure her mam completely understands what your friend is going thru and that she's not gonna go mental.... theres always a way to solve these things without having to comitt suicide.... maybe her mam will be angry at first but she'll come round and there are doctors who can arange a termination if ur friend really doesnt want the baby..... good luck x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tigerlily7973	defintally if there was a time for you to be there for your freind it is now. she oviously ment to get pregnant. it was in Gods plan. you just need to comfort her and prove to her that although it will be tough to talk to her mom about here situation, when it is all said and done with, she will have a beautifual baby. my sister got pregnat when she was 15. Yet it was hard to tell us. we still helped her and showed her it was ok. she finished high school. got married to her boyfreind and got a job. the best thing to do is to be there for her and mabey talk to her mom for her and tell her not to freak. because your freind needs her too Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

the d	this is coming from a guy Tell her not give a f*ck what her mom thinks, it's her life and that she could care less what her mom thinks, Stay with her during this time, you could save her life. tlak with the school counselor as soon as possible, tell her not to worry, if she can not reaise the baby she can alwyas give it up for adoption, Stay in close contact with your friend, ask her to spend the night at your house or something, BE THE STRONG ONE YOUR FRIEND NEEDS YOU! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

triskaidekaphobia	tell her mom. if mom is mad then at least mom can help. better than lying cold and stiff in a ditch or something. right? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sarah_b2_sweet	She should talk to someone about it. A counselor at school, a doctor, anyone. The National Youth Crisis Line is 1-800-442-HOPE (4673). I am sure her mother would rather deal with the issue of her being pregnant than losing a child. If she is confiding in you that she has a plan of how she wants to committ suicide YOU should talk to someone and tell someone about it. Get the help of a grown-up. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

booshua	She should tell her mom.. or go to planned parenthood.. or both. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

k1_persia	Tell her parents, and keep an eye on her. The problem is that she feels alone right now so the important thing is to make her feel supported, and put the issue in perspective for her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No