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cottontail	My mother committed suicide when i was a child. Thirty years later is still miss her and feel guilty that i should have done something. She has missed out on my wedding, children etc and it was such a waste. You dont know what the future holds you culd go on to do great things have a family etc etc who knows ? Dont give in. I have felt low too in my life but it is the effect on other people that stops me. I wish you well. please email me if you need to . Take care x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Crazygirl ♥ aka GT	I'm gonna try to talk you out of this. I have a friend who atemped that at 9. He obvously failed. People love you. Nomatter what they say, someome loves you. Look, I understand you're depressed, but really, this is NOT the way to go about it. Talk to a close friend. You'll be supprised what they understand. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SH2007	Hi, i think about it daily and have done for a good while now. i even started to take an overdose on monday but i didnt go the full way. I suffer with depression and i have sought help, i have a go, counsellor and am seeing a psychiatrist next week but sometimes i personally feel that its hopeless, i know i will get thumbs down but i am giving my honest opinion! the only way i cope is by talking online to other suffers for support and try to get as much professional help as i can, but its not easy at all!:( best of luck to you, i now your pain! xxx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kelly R	Just remember this...... SUICIDE IS A PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A TEMPORARY SITUATION Talk to someone you will always find an answer if you have someone there to help you along the way. Also remember that "The best asset a person can have, is having someone who believes in them" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chimp	please dont do it, its not the answer, ive tried that many times when im feeling that bad,but ive still failled. email the samaritans has they are a great help with coping with the way your feeling. your not alone. please seek proffesional help, your life is precious and you only get one chance at it, dont destroy it, things will improve over time and with the right support. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hackerboyrick	I have, and feel like it right now. I think life is pointless, and i should just go ahead and get it over with. Personally I don't understand why anyone wants to live. Why would you want to postpone what is ultimately going to happen? I really just want to blow my brains out, but i lack access to a gun. I'm really kind of just waiting for the oportunity to present itself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

princes23	i too have been in the black deep hole, were some monster takes over your feelings emotions and yr life. All my life i have helped others, and i eventually had a breakdown, doctors kept telling me to look after myself so i did, i went to bed and too masses of antidepressants and sleepers. And no it was not a cry for help i bloody meant it, i wanted the pain i was feeling ot go. I wanted peace. In a way i still do, but the guilt i have now of what i put my family thro is too much for me to do again, i couldn fail again. Since the attempt i have had help and i went to aplace called MAYTREE (www.maytree.org.uk) Please look it up, it is a lovely place to gather yr thoughts and rest with help on hand and best of all it is free. Don't give up please seek proffesional help and work towards a new life. I have made changes and now life is different. good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Zucchinisinratatouille	I experienced suicidal thoughts at 16. To be honest, I pulled myself through it, but in retrospect that is not advisable!!! Obviously many people cannot get out of such a mental trap on their own, and they go through with that terrible choice. PLEASE think again, about all the people who would be completely shattered if you took this course. Your parents, siblings, friends, classmates, neighbours, friend of friends.... everyone connected with you would be damaged, some so badly that they would never recover. One of my cousins killed himself at about 40 - his parents are still struggling years later. A former neighbour, son of a lovely, caring, close family, killed himself last year. His girlfriend was totally traumatised, as well as his family and friends. The father of my son's classmate, at about 60 - had a devoted, lovely wife, beautiful home, etc - couldn't cope with depression. And so it goes, on and on and on.... You simply don't appreciate the consequences for other people when you're preoccupied with your own feelings. I know what it's like to dwell at the bottom of that dark hole of depression. I was almost completely unable to articulate my feelings to others. Please, anyone reading this who shares these feelings - get help now! Medication can make life a lot more manageable. I will probably need to remain on it for the rest of my life, but I am able to work, care for my son, and enjoy life. The alternative is to spiral down into that pit of hopelessness again. Don't hesitate! Get help now! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

George P	Dear Celestine....please go to Yahoo search under "The Last Temptation of George Petrie". It is the story of my downhill slide into depression and my suicide attempt. I kept my feelings secret from everyone except the one wrong person. I take medication and am stronger today than ever. I recovered almost everything I lost and look forward to every day. Please don't give up on yourself. Depression can be a fatal illness but it is very very treatable. best wishes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pullthetrigger	i feel like ending it most of the time, and have been very close to attempting it before. but have been struggling on, day by day. strange as it is, i have been living for my guinea pig - he's so sweet and i love him to bits, and he's the only pet i have ever had, so he means a lot to me. plus he can make me laugh. pets are very good at making you feel better. however, i still am suicidal,and know i will probably attempt it again at some point, just unsure when. Feel free to email me if you ever want to talk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CaptWBS	What people dont know is that theres more to live for then just what you personally know...IF you did kill yourself you need to think about the people who would know you and the impact that you would put on them and the chain effect that would go into the people that they know...You never know when something good is just around the corner and it can be taken away just because you got mad about your life...Also as a side note if you do fail with the attempted suicide you can face some jail time followed by therapy. If you seriously think about this thought I recommend talking to some of your friends or a doctor of some sort. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

soph	no i havent. my biological dad killed himself when i was 12, id never known him, but was just getting to the age when i was getting curious as to who he was. he also had 2 other children who ive still never met. he had depression, but i still felt like he was just being selfish by leaving without any thought for us. people who commit suicide often dont think about the people they leave behind, and how much pain, guilt and rejection it causes. i met this other guy whos uncle had killed himself because of financial problems, and his nephew was so screwed up and felt so guilty about it, hed tried to kill himself 3 times. i talked to him, and tried to help him out and told him he didnt need to feel guilty, but i havent heard from him in over a year now, and have no way of finding out if hes ok, or if he ended up succeeding in his attempts to end his life. suicide doesnt just affect the person that does it, it causes reverberations on everyone around them, and often can cause a chain reaction of other suicides. i dont agree with it, and think theres always a way to sort out any problems, and people to help. being a christian, i dont think that it is even a successful escape, but just takes you to more pain. this isnt a comforting thought i know, and hasnt helped the situation with my own father at all, but ive had to resolve all those issues, which ive now done. unfortunatly, others arnt so lucky. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

why me??	hey i no just how you feel, a friend of a friend in my class killed himself his parent died in a car crash he couldnt cope anymore he seemed fine in himself but underneath it all he just was a different he came to school the day before he killed himself he was a really nice chatty person but had a few enemies and on that day he spoke to all his enemies said hey lets start again lifes to short for all this nonsense then went home and none of us saw him again he had hanged himself from the doorway it was sooo sad, i think about doing it everyday coz im so hurt inside i had a horrid childhood was never happy now im married have 2 children but the thoughts just come to the front of my head and its really hard to get them out!!! feel free to email me maybe we can chat about it. stay safe hun Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

marie m	yeah one of my friends, she was 18 or 17 hung her self shame really , i think she was drunk and possibly drugs she was such a nice person its wierd its already been 3 years, shame really rip Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bluebird	Well, suicide is not the good thing to do but, People does when they are runout with their ideas to solve the problem ( serious problem) I have known many peoples who had ended their lives. Even myself attemted many times but I always visualize my mums face and cool down. I have promised her not to repeat anymore. But she always in worry about me. I definately advice this is NOT GOOD to DO. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Vito W	I did feel like it. Last day of school i got taken to the bathroom by 11th graders and beat up. Then my "friends" started to make fun of my nationality. I got almost teary eyed then the leader of em started a fight. I felt suicidal but now im doing better. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Isla R	I have thought about it and acted on those thoughts in the past, my uncle committed suicide because he had MS he took and overdose. Look believe me you better off not doing it. reid_isla@ahoo.co.uk Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bluey	well depression. mostly people who dont feel any mean to live in life. or they are handling with a hard experienc such as abuse or a loss of a special person. i do not personally know anyone who commited suicide however, there was this korean celebrity and she hung herself because of her childhood. her mother and father had her but she couldnt be taked care of bcause the mother was to be married to someone else and the father was just weird. so they were going to send her to the orphanage or in other words abandon her. but her grandmother took her in and raised her. this became very depressing for her so she just suicided. that was one story. so hope this helps. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Choose Help	Can you honestly say that the best times of your life are behind you and there is nothing worthwhile to look forward to? If your sadness or frustrations are in anyway rooted in financial problems or if there are people around you that have harmed you and that you find depressing, then let me assure you the World is a big place and you can move on and rebuild your finances and enter into new relationships. You will be surprised what an exciting journey it can be to discover that you are STRONGER than this and that the strength inside of you is pumping and wants to come out and into your life, NOW. There is so much inside of you that you were born with and that blossomed over the years that is wonderful and unique and worthwhile to discover. There are so many people and problems in this World (outside of yourself) that REALLY need you and wait for someone like yourself who is sensitive and thoughtful to be an inspiration to them. So, I wish for you to sort out whatever robbed you of the will to live, right now! Go and get some professional help at a clinic. You will feel differently in a couple of weeks. Reshuffle your cards and begin a new game. You go girl! :-) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mrs. Noo	Yes, I've known a few people who have taken their own lives. All of them have had a history of mental health problems throughout their lives - specifically depression. There's an overwhelming feeling of sadness for the ones left behind, that even though you tried, nothing you could have done would have made a difference. It reminds you how alone we all are and how important it is to be comfortable with that fact. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

marie e	yes i do know someone that commited suicide,they blew their head off,infront of his g/f,he was leading up to it by giving away everthing that mattered to him,he was laughing and acting normal the day before,the girlfriend never got over it and went into a very deep depression. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stevehasabigfatcat	well my friends uncle was very depressed for years we all thought it was over and he was better but then he had a huge argument with his wife she left in a strop, with the 2 young kids she went over to her mums for a chat and to cool down when she came bk he had hung himself he took his last breath of air she pulled him down but it was too late, the 2 kids saw it too they must be in such pain, also my friend in school hung himself from a tree it was horrid to come to school the next day to find the whole class crying, please if you feel like that get some help its not a nice feeling i no i have been there, stay strong and safe hun.xx im very worried about you now, you dont deserve to feel like this there is help out there honest Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Veronica Alicia	My next door neighbour's son - a young guy who had everything except the girl he wanted - did the hosepipe into his Porche business. We think it was just a threat which went wrong because he was found half out of his car suggesting that he had changed his mind - too late. Plus a friend of mine, had a friend who hanged himself, in the friend's house. It put my friend into a mental hospital for months. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sam w	i sometimes think about it because sometimes humans can be so cruel but i always think about my family and that they will alway care about me no matter wot. school was sometimes unbearable and i just wanted to leave, dissapear but i always know im welcome at home. most of the time suicides are caused by bullying but sometimes it is your family that drives you to suicide. i wish that no one should have to do or think about doing that ever................... good Q can u tell me how old you are, not that it matters but i think suicide is never the answer just think what your family and friend ,who love you, would do without you if you think very hard about this you will relise that no matter what life throws in your face the ones you love will always comfort you and you relise that life is werth living........ i hpoe that you dont do it because now that i am invovled ... welll you know..... just think about all the good things you will be missing out on.... your family ......your friends... falling in love and getting married and maybe even starting a family of your own.... all this cant happen if you run away from the world instead of fighting back and holding on. please tell me wot has forced you into wanting to end your life i would like to know............... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Deltaman	I think everyone feels as if they just can't handle it and want to end it all. Especially if you are young. Emotions are strong and your experience with them is limited. However, this feeling should pass as your life turns to the better. If you feel this way on a regular or constant basis, you should talk to someone -- ANYONE. a friend, counselor, teacher, doctor, parents, siblings. Sometimes just sharing your feelings makes them easier to deal with them. All of the above people want to help you and make sure you are well. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Candy C	I want to assume you are asking just out of curiosity but I can't...if your are considering yourself, please don't! Tell someone and get help. My grandfather shot himself...my dad overdosed on drugs, luckily he was found in time to be saved...my brother also overdosed and was saved. As for what caused it all....it was a long history of abuse in my family and each generation got tired of it I guess. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Confused & Young	one night for no apparent reason i got up and went downstairs and picked up this huge knife that was in our kitchen. I didn't even know why the thought even came over me, but i thought about not only killing myself, but also my mother. I don't remember much but i do remember that i was crying a lot and decided to put the knife in the sink and go back to my room. I don't think i slept that night, but i know that i didn't go back downstairs because i didn't know what might've happpend if i would've. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jessi RN	I knew guy that was in a relationship with a girl for several years. They had a child and wanted to stay together for the child, so instead of breaking up they decided to have an open relationship. She really was living up the open relationship and was flaunting it in his face. He couldn't take it. So he wrote a letter to his daughter, parked his car under a bridge, ran a hose from his tale pipe to inside his window, taped it up, and killed himself with cardon minoxide Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

majoti	friend of mine took overdose of sleeping tablets,his workmates took every opportunity to put him down and make him feel worthless. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

angel ♥	My brother killed himself at the age of 16 I was 18 then. I really am not positive why to this day. He didnt leave a note, but he did it on the first day of school that year. He was over weight for a while and just recently started working out and lost weight, got contacts...and just looked like he really came into himself. He quit wearing so much black and just opened up. He spent more time with family that whole summer and then like I said the first day of school...he put a gun to his head. I didnt live in the same house as him at the time. So I didnt realize what was actually going on. After he died we found out from the people he was living with (his grandparents from a differnent side of the family...we are actually step brothers & sisters) but anyway we found out that he was caught playing russian rullet (where you put 1 bullet in and spin the barrel of the gun and pull the trigger...a deadly game of luck or chance or temting fate, however you see it) and they didnt tell anyone or do anything about it. He was playing with a friend. I dont think my brother was on any drugs, he was clean at the time of death. I heard rumors he got shot down at school that day by a girl he liked and I guess finally got the nerve to ask the little tramp out...but thats just a rumor from his school. I cant say thats why for sure. Then he came home that day and got on the computer (as usual, lol) and then him and his grandma started to argue (I still dont know over what especially on the first day of school, unless he was in a pissy mood...we obviously I guess) but she said he went upstairs and then not long after it happend. Ive actually known about 5 people that has killed them selves but he was the one I am closest with. The others were friends from HS. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

agius1520	Its an interesting thing to consider, i have very low periods of depression sometimes and i do want to end it when i am there but i have a feeling of knowing i am depressed and won't be rash about any decision like that, Plus if i was to commit suicide it would have to be smooth, i currently am tied into my job for at least the next 2 years and cannot do anything before this and during this time i will pay off all my debts and save enough to plan the funeral of my choice but i've not set this in stone. This is a last resort, there are so many things i want to try and get out of life but it is an easy option and of course its selfish but if you are suffering permanently and all the doors you have tried are closed then its a possibility. Surely its selfish of others to make you continue suffering. Again this comes down to a problem of physical vs emotional pain. Someone who is termanilly ill with say cancer could be seen as a good thing to end their life early to prevent their suffering but others cannot see this with Suicide for depression as only those that have it truly understand what its like but then the depression itself makes you want to do it and cures are possible but they are long and drawn out. There is no right answer, you need to do what is right for you but don't do it too easily, there is no coming back if it all ends. If you wanna talk more then message me, it would be nice to discuss things like suicide openly, most people just get shocked and say don't do it, don't do it, i'll call the doctors or whatever on you if you continue speaking like that, even though your just speculating. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No