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LillyB	Maybe you are afraid of life and dying is the easy way out! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mur_f1013	I agree with Miracle and many others...if you are having suicidal ideation for "no reason," then you are depressed. Contrary to what Tom Cruise says, antidepressants do help. You might also want to think about working out...I know this sounds weird but this has lifted my mood many times (the endorphins.) For a laugh, read "A long way down" by Nick Hornby. It's a funny look at suicidal people. I know it sounds like an unfunny subject, but it helped me gain some perspective on the topic (I've been there.) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DIAMOND_GEEZER_56	Hi Thomas, Get help ASAP m8, U can get help, get to ur GP now. Tell ur parents and friends, let them know how u feel. Are U living on UR own ? Sorry m8 its only a short answer, I usually write down a lot more but I am feelling drained as I has just een stuck on a dialysis machine for around 5 and a half hours. Look after urself m8, take care, God bless u and protect u. Jimmy LOL Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	I'm sorry for how you're feeling. You may not be aware of any other symptoms, but to me you ARE depressed. I suffer from ongoing severe depression and think about suicide frequently. All I can say is make an emergency appointment with your gp on monday. If you think you are at severe risk of carrying out your thoughts, go to A & E and speak to someone NOW!!! Depression is just an illness, it's a lack of serotonin for whatever reason, either you don't produce enough in the first place or your neurotransmitters are taking it back in. PLEASE SEEK HELP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweet h	You are dealing with some kind of depression or something..I understand..I have major depression disorder...was diagnoised seven years ago..untill then i also had those feelings..you have to get some help..please do this..my friend killed himself about 18 months ago and it has tore alot of people apart..it is not the answer..your answer is to get help and fight..tell someone in your family or anyone how you are feeling...I been there but i'm telling you suicide is not the answer, when you think about it think of all the people you will leave back here hurting...but right now think of you and get some help..please..remember someone who commits suicide dies once..but the loved ones are left to die a thousand deaths wondering why...Seek help something is going on even if you think you don't feel depressed or anything else...please im begging you listen to me..also when you are having those thoughts call someone and tell them..my prayers are with you..stay strong and dont you give in.The main one to call on is God He has helped me a many a time..He is there and will listen..take care Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

leschal	YOu are seriously depressed please go see a phyciatrist you really must have someting serious hiden that you might not even be aware of you need to have some one to talk to that is not going to judge you and that can give clinical help if needed, you may need to try some anti-depressants, but you might just need some one to talk to, you can cantact me, please don't kill yourself, I know of someone that felt like this but he also had homicidal thoughts, he found out later that there was something medicaly wrong with his brain take this seriously something more serious could be going on, don;t be affraid to let someone close to you know what is going on some times a friendly shoulder to lean on can help more then you think Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hello	Go to your gp and ask for counselling.as for the people who told you to "do it" i think they ought to be locked up for 10 years and fed on bread and cold water throughout that ten years..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥pola77♥	you need to talk to somebody about how you're feeling,suicide is not the solution to anything! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tattyhead65	In addition to some of the excellent advice you've already had, I'd recommend cognitive behavioural therapy. It's a way of helping you to think differently. Have a look at the web page below - you may find a book there that can help. I wish you the best of luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	Suicidal ideology, thinking about death is not healthy thinking, please contact your local community mental Help-Line/Crisis center. Depression is a very serious disorder, but treatable with therapy and or medication. Because you actually asked the question, is a sign that you think you need help. Please get on the phone with the crisis center! Suicide is very permanent solution for a temporary condition. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

glgl	maybe you subconsciously miss Home, where we all come from; . I am the same, I understand. I don'r want to behere, I hate iit (sorry). I just want to go Home.the place we go when we die is the most beautiful place, where there's peace,love & all beauty. no-one suffers & everyone is happy. I guess we're stuck here 4 now. But never ever commit suicide, I promise you, you'll regret it badly. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Caitlin	you are depressed and even though its may seem that you are "ok" but having these suicidal thought, you are obviously not. My dad had depression and it is VERY easily treated. People are given real help. I would strongly suggest you speak to your GP and tell him/her what you just told us. You will get excellent help that will make these feelings go away, but YOU have to make the first move and speaj to your doctor. After that it will become easier. good luck karma x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bexs	You may think of suicide but do you really want to die? It is normal for people to think about death, what is it like etc - we all have dark thoughts for no reason - it doesn't mean you are depressed and immediately need medication like a zombie. You don't say how long this has been going on for - perhaps you are just going through a down time - this happens to everyone. I really am against mediciation that so many people just pop pills. We are all human, everyone of us goes through stages in our lives whether you are 20, 40, 60 or 80 we all face different problems and issues. Talk to a doctor or family and friends. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Power_Of_Zen	You need things to do to occupy your mind so you don't think things like that. Also maybe you need to plan ahead a bit (rather than living day-by-day) plan things to look forward to, things to treat yourself with at the end of every week, maybe set some objectives to achieve today-this year-in 10years, find new people to meet & places to go to make life more interesting (I know I should do some of these things!) I hope you're not religious and expecting something better to be the other side of death - perhaps there is, but if there isn't you would have made one huge big mistake with no chance of going back. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sciman	Sometimes people who are unusually sensitive, intelligent and imaginitive confuse and maybe frighten themselves with the power and strength of their thoughts and feelings. These are very important themes which you are considering. We are all pushed and pulled by our feelings, and we have no choice but to put up with them. They produce our greatest joy and energy and our deepest feelings of despair. One of the fundamental questions sometimes faced by people is: Do I want to die?, and Is it today? Other people who like and/or love us say: Cherish life. The deeper the sorrow or confusion today, the greater the merit of tackling it. The greater is the joy, after the storm. If / or when you weather this phase you should be better able to help and advise other people. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pink_cows_rock	Do you have a family history of depression? Depression and other problems like this can be partly genetic. I think u need to definitely see a professional about this, it's the only way you're going to get help...they're really nice ppl and they dedicate their lives to helping ppl in ur position. Also, try occupying yourself with an activity you enjoy or excersize to make u feel good and take ur mind off of thinking about suicide. You deserve to live a good life, don't let it go! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

David	I would say to talk to a psychologist and just try to talk about things! I know how you feel because I have been there, even too when nothing was wrong with me. :( It is very sad! hope you get better Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CLICKHEREx	See a doctor and ask to be referred for counselling. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

britz45	there could be several reasons for your suicidal thoughts but i can tell you that no one on yahoo is qualified to explain.. what i can say is that suicide is one of the most selfish things you can do, think of your family and friends who will lose a wonderful person. for the sake of them please seek help. my prayers are with you... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lazybird2006	You need help, you are suffering from depression, but you don't know it, as time goes on you will feel worst, then the depression will increase, then you will realise that you have been suffering from depression all this time. You know you are suffering from something, otherwise you wouldn't be asking your question, so please talk to you parents, if you are close to them, if not a trusted friend, then arrange to go to the doctor for help, he will then refer you, so you can have the help you require. Take you friend, a family member with you, for support. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sthrnbelle715	Even though you are not feeling depressed or and anxiety I would highly suggest that you talk to someone professional about your thoughts. All your information is confidential and they can really help you pin point what your issue is. Good luck to you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dog'n'2cats	You don't give your age - I'm guessing late teens & if I'm right, I'll bet you are not alone in feeling like this. If I'm wrong & you are older, I would suggest that you visit a person who teaches NLP or EFT - these will help you to have a more optimisitic look at life. Good luck & enjoy life - there's many who would love to live but aren't given the choice, Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jules	Hi, you've taken a first HUGE step - by asking about your feelings, so you must have realised that dying isn't really what you want to do - so well done. I don't agree with some of the answers given, especially ones that tell you that it is wrong to have such feelings. I myself, and many others I know, do have similar thoughts on very regular occasions. The people who don't are the lucky ones! What we sufferers all have to realise is that every time we have these thoughts but don't act on them, it's a good thing. We manage to go through the thought process but not do the ultimate - and for that we should applaud ourselves. I really think it would help for you to talk to someone so you can voice what you are thinking. An understanding GP would be good place to start. A close family member, or friend might also help - but be aware that they may not understand your feelings and could be angry and/or distressed by what you say - so you will need to choose wisely. Find a good local mental health charity who can offer you help, support and understanding. Personally I have found that my local 'Mind' has been the place that has offered me most support. We are extremely lucky in the town I live in as the Mind there offers a drop-in centre which is open 5 days a week. For me this was a much less scary place to go, as they are not formal health professionals, but they are very knowledgeable and can access further help for you. The great thing about the drop-in centre is that it can be accesed as and when you want to. There are no set appointments, no rules on how often you have to attend, and no stigma or discrimination from the people you will meet there. Other members are suppportive and all have their own understanding and suggestions to help everyone else out. The samaritans offer telephone support, but also offer an email service - which I've found preferable on occasion, as it is feels easier to maintain your privacy (set yourself up an email account in a different name, and use only for this purpose) and no-one can find out who you are. They ususally aim to provide a reply within 24 hours. There are many causes of depression, and it is much more common than people realise. It doesn't have to start with a major lifetime event, it can slowly build up over a period of time without you realising that it is happening. Don't be disheartened, you're doing well so far. You may have the thoughts, but you are still here to ask your question and wait for helpful answers. Every time you have the thoughts, whether you sit and plan everything out, or just have a brief thought, be strong - tell yourself you aren't going to act on them. Try and seek some sort of advice, hopefully some of what I've mentioned will be available to you. Don't sit alone trying to cope with this, there really is good help available you just need to know where to look for it. Good luck - Be brave - Keep surviving!! You may never get completely rid of the thoughts, and that's something you may have to live with, but if you can learn the best way of you dealing with them, then you'll have not given in, and will be coping. It's not easy, there isn't a miracle cure, but there is hope!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

willowGSD	You need to talk to someone and I suggest you look up Samaritans in the phone book! You also need to see your GP as soon as possible! You may not feel depressed but what is happening is > your brain is lacking the chemicals it needs for you to think positively at the moment and you don't need for anything major to have happened to get this way whatever age you may be! Why is the unanswerable question I'm afraid! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Astrid	Thomas i'm so sorry you feel this way.I suppose you feel you need a reason to feel like this.You say your life has had no major problems,so it's not as if you are thinking over past troubles.So what can it be? To be thinking everyday about ending your life,is not right is it? I don't know how old you are,but just try writing two lists. On one list write,what your death would mean to the people you leave behind. On the other write what your death would achieve,what would it prove?and to whom? Why do you say death seams like the place to go? Have you ever been there?i have,and came back. .I t's not someting i want to do again for a long long time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wise_nickel94	c a pshychologist!!! mayb u need 2 talk 2 sum1 really close 2 u or do sumthin fun w/ ur friends cuz it seems like ur wastin time thinkin bout stuff that doesnt matter...have fun and u'll find u dont worry bout death anymore live every second of ur life like its ur last! dont worry bout dieing, cuz every1 will eventually Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Miracle mom	I really think you should look into some sort of counseling, going to a therapist. They may find you're depressed, and contrary to what many people believe, you can't just snap out of it. There may actually be a chemical imbalance and taking an anti-depressant may be what a psychiatrist would order for you. You'd probably be evaluated by a psychiatrist, then would see them like once a month b/c they would prescribe meds, and a therapist once a week. Would you be willing to do that to help yourself? I really think you should. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nendlin	sounds like obsessional behavior hun go your gp it can be treated the good thing is your not acting on it your not alone with this one my love xx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sandie28	you should seek help asap! maybe you could try the samaritans? or see your doctor he may recomend some antidepressants? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

angela n	i reakon u are depressed-havin feelings like that arent good. try talking to a counsillor or your doctor. u might find that something has triggered off these thoughts without u even realising it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bmac	Well, obviously you ARE depressed. http://www.suicidehotlines.com/ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No