My uncle always stares at me in a desired way im scared what should i do?

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Sure you can use it	call police 911 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Peek prayin 4 Pilot n binky	does anyone else see it? Its pretty scarey I have been in a similar sitauation. Tell someone like a sibling or a cousin or best friend and next time he is over just have her watch him on the sly and possible get a cell video of his watching or anything..and if you get some good evidence tell your parents. Has he ever touched you cause I will hurt him BAD , no one hurts a child, no one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

supernova	He is psycho. Stay away from him. Get some strong friends to show off maybe.! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Danny ISCOOL	Is he hot? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MorganO'Brien	dont ever get your self into a situation where you are alone with him. if it continues, tell your parents. also avoid eye contact with him as that can be misleading Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JR .	well if you are a minor i would talk to your parents first if they dont listen to you call the police Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RITA	If he isn't doing anything don't make a mountain out of a mole-hill . .and don't be alone with him . Simple . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ijc	Try not to around him unless there is at least one adult that you trust in the same room. Talk to an adult, that you trust, about this issue. If they do not seem to help you, find another adult that you can trust and talk to them. Keep trying as long as you have to, until a trusted adult puts your safety first. Remember that sometimes adults don't know what to do at first. But you need to be safe. Do not worry if someone thinks you are not honest - just, find an adult who believes you. This is not an issue to try to put out of your mind. Take care of yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*sillyred!**	dont stay alone with him, dont "help" him if he asks you for help. leave the room when necessary. tell ur mom how uncomfortable you feel and if she can keep an eye on it or ur bro or sis n stay shhh about it until it gets out of control. take care. a restraining order may follow if an incidence occurs and he mite register as a sex offender if ur a minor. take care take care take care be cautious stay paranoid be aware of ur everything (surroundings, actions) take care Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Joseph, II	Walk up to Him & say, "I KNOW What You're thinking- and Cut It Out. I've mentioned it to the Police- & they're keeping an eye on You..." You should have NO further problems with Him- after that! :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cee bees	Tell your parent, guardian, or police department Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mii	How old are you? Age definitely makes a difference in a situation like this. You need to, at the very LEAST tell your parents or another relative so that people have a heads-up now. Let them know how uncomfortable you are about it, and that it isn't just something that is in your head or something you're doing just for attention. Don't let yourself be in a situation where you're alone and isolated with him; if possible, make sure others are around whenever HE'S around. Also, it might not hurt to keep a journal of these incidents; everytime he stares at you in that way, write it down. If things ever escalate, say he tries to touch your or says something inappropriate to you, make a detailed note of that as well, and ALWAYS let someone else know. This is NOT something you should keep to yourself. No one has the right to make you feel uncomfortable or afraid. Keep telling your parents, friends, or relatives until someone believes and supports you. In the end, he may not even realize he was doing anything wrong and may have remorse. But it's MUCH better to be safe than sorry in an instance like this. Be careful, watch yourself, TELL OTHERS, make notes of the incidents, and BE CAREFUL! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nomi	Can you tell your parents? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

✿_alliegator_✿	tell your parents. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rick j	Tell an adult Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Aan	dont think that much about it but be carefull. he can hurt you and cause you trouble. tell to your parants if you can and if you cannot avoid him stay away from him. and never be alone with him. you will be fine. but just be very carefull when you are with him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Anarchy	are u hot? if u are i wud stare too Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

***** please.	Thats disgusting. Maybe you just think he is. If your positive he is, stay away from him. Maybe tell your parents. Just never let him be alone with you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dee	How older are you? You need to let someone else know about this. He might need to be confronted. Sometimes these behaviors are very real. I wish you well. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hikari	Tell your parents or anyone that you trust and are able to help you. Stay away from your uncle, he can really hurt you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jimmy	DO NOT tell your parents and DO NOT tell the police. Nothing has happened ...yet. It could be perfectly benign and innocent. As someone who has studied law, but who is not yet licensed to practice in my state, I can still tell you that accusations of this kind NEVER go away. Proved or disproved, they stick forever. They follow the person around for the rest of their life and can have horrible effects. If the accusations are justified, then the horrible effects are likewise justified, but if you are wrong, then you may have marked an innocent man forever. This can be particularly horrific in the family context because you NEVER know who will side against who. It could tear all of you apart. That being said, TAKE PRECAUTIONS if you do have a feeling that he may have bad intentions. You should make every and all effort to stay away from him in a one-on-one situation. Don't get yourself in situations in which you could find yourself alone with him: Don't take rides with him, don't let him babysit you, If you stay over at his house, stay in your cousin's room and lock the door. Take similar precautions if he stays at your house. In conclusion, always make sure that there is someone else around whom you know you can trust. Observe his behavior. Does he act the same way with his children or your other cousins or friends? Ask cousins, siblings or friends about him. Don't just blurt of that you think he's looking lustfully at you, just ask them if they think he's kind of weird. If they do, then ask them why? Maybe the guy is just a harmless weirdo with no social skills at all. Worst case scenario: If you ever find yourself in a position where you are seriously afraid or (G-d forbid) he touches you inappropriately, scream. Scream like your life depended on it, because, if he is some kind of sociopath, it may very well be. Ignore ANY threats he makes to you or your family because they are almost ALWAYS bluffs to keep you quiet. If it turns out to be nothing, just tell everyone that you saw a scary movie or TV show, you were drunk, you were tired, on your period, on drugs...anything that could interfere your judgment I don't mean to frighten you, but given the type of law that I focus on, I've seen a lot of cases that go horribly wrong. Moreover, this is a FAMILY issue that has not yet risen to the level of criminal and /or civil culpability. Don't make accusations that you are unsure of and can never, EVER be taken back. I hope you're wrong, but if you're not, I hope I've given you the tools to go on with this situation. Remember, there are teachers, guidance counselors, etc that you can talk to and with whom you usually have a relationship of confidentiality UNTIL you tell them about something illegal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hunter H	Tell him what!!!!!!, we have to talk about u STARING AT ME he will say Y I DON'T STARE AT U!!! u will say OMG **** U Shoot him Or Pee On him he will like it cause ur pu$$y is in his face =] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Simmi	Tell your family. Stay away from him and if he tries anything, call the police. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smartgurl	Tell your parents right away....and never be with him alone or at least try to avoid it...this happened to me but with my moms son from another father and then he was trying to make moves with me and then i kinda waited a lil too long and my mom refused to believe me...and she started talking to me like two months after cuz she was all mad with me and didnt believe and told me things that harmed me like if she knew that i was gonna be like that she would have thrown me in da trash when i didnt do anything it was her stupid physco son.....i tried really hard so she would talk to me again..and i think till this day she still blames me for my dad kicking him out of our house and life...but yeah dont wait and let them know...good luck!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

courtney_shanee	DO NOT BE ALONE WITH HIM. Do matter what. If that makes you uncomfortable then don't be alone with him. But, if he ever trys to touch you or anything like that tell your parents. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kittywink	trust your instincts on this. Stay away from him as much as possible. Don't be in a room alone with him even if you have to stick like glue to an aunt or cousin. Tell your parents. Don't give him eye contact--he would consider it flirting. Talk to him as little as possible. Best wishes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mike c	First off tell someone you can trust and NEVER be alone one second with him. If it continues i suggest you confront him in public and ask him to stop looking at you like that . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

annie	this is obvious?! tell your parents this and stay away from him. he hasn't done anything yet... better safe than sorry though. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stac	Don't be in his presence alone, and if possible, AVOID HIM!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

samantha	stare right back at him and saay "what?!" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RoxieC	Talk to your mom about it. Just tell her that you do not feel comfortable around your uncle due to the way that he looks at you. Then go around him with your mom around and allow her a chance to see how he looks at you. Let someone know. Most people are raped by people that they know. So don't wait to see what will happen, try to let someone else know beforehand that can maybe help you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No