My mother is in the hospital and i need help and advice?

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lovj	Dear Lord Jesus I pray in Your precious Name that every sickness that this lady is going through right now is healed.You Lord Jesus were beaten 39 times with a cat of nine tails that was lined with Glass and razor stones that split your back like ribbons.You did this for our healing.And I thank You for this healing in Jesus Name I pray Amen. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

oldsalt6585	I just took a few moments to pray for YOU, your family and your mom. Keep praying. I've added you to my 'on line prayer log'. I don't know your name or your mom's but God does. Numbers 6:24-26 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

static4you	I hope everything comes out fine with your mom bro. Prayer is very powerfull you know, keep your head up Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

therazorsx	I will pray for you... Just remember no matter what happens, don't beat yourself up for what has happened in the past. Live for today, live for you mother today. This may be something that is not life threatening or you could be faced with the hardest point of your life. Don't give up hope and don't blame God. We are human, some live a long time, some die without taking a breath. Be glad that you have had a mother for this long of a time. Love her every minute. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lesley P	I'm so sorry about your mom, and my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. As for you dropping out of school...do you think your mom would want you to do that? Even if she does get better, she would want you to better yourself and your life to start off right. I'm sure she would! Take care and all my best wishes for your mom's recovery~ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Helena F	Alicia, I will certainly pray for your mother, I promise to. Don't give up hope. The Lord will hear your prayers, he feels your pain, and doesn't want you to be hurting. Just keep praying, and keep asking for other people's prayers. Miracles happen. God bless you both! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bob j	Glad you were able to put your feelings down in words. That can help. One other thing you might want to do is see if there is some kind of Yahoo group for people who are finding themselves in your same situation. I'll bet there is. Because you will be of better help to your mom if you can seem as though you are both accepting of the situation.....while at the same time.....not going to pieces yourself. If you seem to be freaking out.....she is likely to just feel worse, so you might want to see if there is somewhere where you can vent your own feelings.....so you can be more calm and caring for her ?? Just a thought... Bob J. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

butternut	Where ever two or more are gathered in his name ..... We will all pray for your Mother and you , there is no stronger power. Believe in God for he is your Father as well as your Mother's Father and he loves you both. I lost my precious Mother two years ago, so I know your fears. Gods will be done.Calm yourself and give it to him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stinkypants2u	I can relate to you. I lost my Mom 10 years ago to pancreatits that was a severe case. I did the same as you. I pleaded with God and asked him to let it be me. I prayed and prayed, but she slipped away. I know it's breaking your heart and messing up your mind, but just make sure you are there for her and do everything you can so if she should pass away you will not have any regerts. Tell her how much she means to you and give her lots of love. PS my daughter is named Alicia. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TN Seeker	God works in mysterious ways. This could be someone's wake up call. You and your mom both pray. As you thank God for what he has already given you (look around at EVERYTHING) envision your mother regaining full health. Feel her hand as you walk together, laughing, discussing your future, college, kids, etc. Imagine, then, thinking a long thought of thanks at that moment for the Lord having seen you both through this trial that you've encountered. Behind every dark cloud is a silver lining. Find that silver lining and FOCUS on IT. You Get What You Focus ON. Be mindful of where your thoughts lie. Imagine the positive outcome. Feel it, see it in your mind and play that mental movie to yourself over and over. Meanwhile, the rest of us will do the same for the both of you. I wish you both the best. Vaya Con Dios. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bella36	So very sorry......my prayers are with you. Hope everything turns out for you and your mom. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janeyw	Praying never hurts, and I will say a prayer for you and your mother tonight. Wait until you get the results, and then do what you have to do to deal with it. She needs you to be strong now, and do what you can for her. You will get through it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

california girl	I know what your going through and yes God is a good place to start. my prays and my heart go out to you. Please remember that no matter what happens that look to God he will help you through anything in your life as to taking care of your family. I am just getting ready to go to college for the same reason my parents needed me and it was really hard to think they wouldn't be there for me on some of the special days. But my prayers are with you take care God Bless! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bad Kitty!	I understand what you're going through; my mom died last summer from Parkinsons'. It was really sudden, and none of us were ready for it. Remember, this is out of your hands. You may pray for her to get better, but you must accept whatever happens. My prayers are with you and your mom, and your family. Be strong for her! She's probably afraid, and needs you to smile and talk of trivial things with you're with her; be positive, and try not to cry in front of her. On the other hand, if there are things you feel you need to say, say them now while you can, regardless of whether or not she'll be okay. You know you need to say them, and you have a chance now. You'll be glad you did. A friend told me about this prayer (I'm not very religious either). It's helped me through many difficult situations over the last few years. "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." Proverbs 3:5-8 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RMT1	I will pray for you and your mom. We went through something similar with my Nanny a couple of years ago. Don't feel like crap for taking your parents for granted - it shows in a way that they were good parents for raising you and not asking for more. Make sure you tell her everything you are thinking now - make sure she knows how thankful you are for her and how much you love her. I hope you don't lose her now, but don't let this opportunity go by without expressing your feelings. If she makes it through this scary time, you will be that much closer. And if it's God's plan to take her back then you will have the peace of knowing that she heard what you needed to say (and if you don't tell her, trust me, she knows anyway). If you find out that the doctors have bad news, perhaps a semester or two off would be best for you - only you can decide that. Anyways, I may not be a religious person, but I certainly am very spiritual. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and hope for only the best for you and your family. I have come to realize through the years that everything happens for a reason and we are never given more to handle than we are capable of. Now, go talk to your mom and be there for her in whatever way you can. Good luck and good health. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Eve	I'm so sorry hon. I think you may need to prepare yourself for this likely being cancer. You know my son is 11 and he was diagnosed this summer with lymphoma. I know exactly how you must be feeling, and let me tell you, when it's your child it's even worse. So yes, I'll say a prayer for your mom, and don't discount the power of prayer. My son is cancer free now and I owe it all to people's prayers for him and for us all. I hope and pray it will always remain that way, but nothing in this life should ever be taken for granted. It's sad that we only really come to terms with what that means when faced with something like this. I will pray for you both, there is always hope with anything, and no matter which way it goes, remember that love is the greatest power of all and will always live on in your heart. I pray your mom will be around a long, long time. Hugs. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janet	ok, and hope all goes well. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

justme	I feel for your family and you. I hope things turn out OK. Unfortunately you have learned one of life's lessons the hard way as often is the case. How many times can you remember your mom saying "you'll regret it someday, or you'll realize I was right someday"? Now you understand. Don't kick yourself too hard for it, we all have done it and our parents always loved us unconditionally anyway. Thank goodness you realized it before it was too late. My thoughts are with your family. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HoosierDon	let me start at the top... yes i will certainly pray for your mom and you.... my mom was diagnosed with and eventually lost to cancer after a protracted battle when i was young. my dad was diagnosed with cancer years later but beat it and passed from other causes recently. research and treatment today has come a very long way and a diagnosis of cancer does not mean the same thing as it did years ago. do not despair. take all things one day at a time and enjoy now,without thinking too terribly much of what the future may or may not hold. don't make any drastic decisions about your education or anything else. below you will find links to informational websites regarding diagnosis and information from johns hopkins and the mayo clinic among others. click here to read survivor stories... http://www.pancreatica.org/survivor_stories.html i hope it gives you hope... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Geobreaker	Sure, i'll pray for your mother. Dear God, please take care of this (woman/man?)'s mother. She has fallen ill and requires your devine assistance. There are many people including the writer of this message that are praying for her recovery. Also help the writer of this message. He/She has come to realize just how important his/her mother is to him/her and is having a dificalt time coping with the situation. Give him/her inner strength so that he/she may be able to find a balance between his/her family and studies while keeping his/her mother in his/her heart. Please pardon the his/her parts, but I'm not really sure since you don't really have a picture. I hope things get better for all of you, especially your mother. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chris	You and your mom are in my prayers. God bless you both. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

~StepfordWife~	You and your mom will be in our thoughts and prayers... If you want to make up for being what sounds like a typical child... print your question out and give or send it to your mom. Nothing could make her prouder or more loved than the heartfelt words you wrote above. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mandy	You know I'm really sorry to hear about your mother. And yes, I will keep her in my thoughts. Also if you ever need someone to just chat with about anything. Send me an IM. my computer is always signed on and I walk by it several times a day. (I'm a stay at home mom) and yes I understand what you mean about taking your family forgranted. I used to all the time. I took my dad forgranted and luckly I got a second chance to show him exactly how I feel. Now I never hang up the phone with him without making sure that he knows I love him. But anyhow my Yahoo Id is Dabarr57andmandy2006. I'm 23 yrs old and more than willing to be there for you to vent anytime you need it. Hope to talk to you soon. God Bless and I will keep your mother in my thoughts and prayers as well. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

missaboo	my heart goes out to you and your family, i will pray for your family. times like these we do not want to face, but unfortunately we have to. be strong for your mom. take things day by day, listen to her doctors, do whatever it takes. i understand where you are coming from, you always took things for granted until something like this. i know this is hard, but get any bad thoughts out of your head, don't research anything on the internet because it will just make you a nervous wreck. wait for your mothers results and take it from there. i know when we go through things like this we always think of the worst. but we shouldn't. remember there are alot of survivors of diseases like this, so do what ever it takes, be strong, i will pray, god bless your family. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ann	Although I do not pray, I will send good thoughts your way. Be strong and be with your family. I hope all will be well. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nuttin'fancy	My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom. My mom died suddenly, without warning, and I didn't get a chance to tell her I loved her for one last time. Cherish your memories. Life is too short and illness has a way of making us re-evaluate and prioritize what is most important in our lives. I hope everything goes well for your mom. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

true blue	My heart is breaking for you. I lost my dad when I was 19 so I know how you're panicking. Relax, take a deep breath. You don't even know if it's anything to worry about yet. Don't think of dropping your classes yet. Take things one day at a time. I'm really close to my mom too, and I can't even imagine not having her. Although she's 65 and I know that the day will come. All I can tell you is that it's normal to take your parents for granted sometimes, and your mom knows how much you love her. My son is a teen and he can be very harsh towards me sometimes, but I know in my heart that it's just his age and that he loves me very much. So please know that your mom knows that you love and care. Guilt won't help you at all. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Just be there for her. I hope that everything turns out fine. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jackie Zoe	I said a little prayer for your mom, I really truly hope she gets better..That had me all teary =( Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

petuniasandonions	I lost my mom to a brain aneurysm at a young age. I know the scared feeling you are talking about. All of my thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and especially your mom. Be strong for her. She really needs you right now. She is probably very scared now, too. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Wendy S	I will pray for you, your Mom, and your entire family. Take care... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ra63	I will say prayers for you and your mother. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No