Is my situation hopeless?

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Falconer	suck it up and deal with it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lynn B	No You're situation is not hopeless. Hang in there, I bet you're stronger than you think. And if you feel like you're losing control. Pray and ask God to help you. Start praising God and guess what 'll happen those voices of those nasty people with not seem as loud. Your spirit will rise above the noise those boys are making. Just keep looking for a new place and Know you've weather the storms already,used your experience from weathering the storm and used it to make yourself stronger and Hold your head up High. I have faith you can get thru this shining so you'll be able to help others later down the road. Lynn Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

unhappyinin	hey hang in there just a while longer until you can move on. Maybe try to be gone as much as possible and stay out of the activies that they do. With your anxiety you should be on meds. if not then you need to talk to your Dr. about it and give them some time to work. I deal with anxiety and it took about 3-4 months for my meds to really kick in and help a lot I had to change them a few times to find the ones that worked for me and I will tell you that If I hadn't had just hung in there I would have left my husband and been miserable just hang in that is the best advice I can give you by the way I am 29 and just started dealing with my issues about a year ago although they had been there for almost 3. So good for you for taking the steps that need to be done so I wish you the best and HANG IN THERE Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

coco_k22	Wow, for someone in your situation you seem like a very intelligent and grounded individual. Perhaps the best thing to do is to talk to your social worker about your situation and how it is making you feel. Ask for other options on where you you can live and work together to come up with a possible solution. :) good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

indian_trax	you should go ballistic, or join th marine corps. your choice Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

enigma q	one famous person asked his god how he could find peace in a battlefield, and god answered spirituality is everywhere, you dont go to a safe place to be spiritual Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kori d	just hang on call the cops if u need to but dont give up we are all here for u Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

(:♥TayLee♥:)	try to find somewhere else to move where you will feel more comfortable. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shruthi_singh_7	as long as you are alive and kicking you are not hopeless. your feelings will change with courage and cofidence. you are no less than anyone. sometimes its wiser not to encounter the situation and walk away. sometimes you should take it on your stride and face it. have the serenity to know the difference and act. you have all the help in the world. have hopes and face it. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Texas Cowboy	Yes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rascal	No Keep Going Strong And God Bless Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

summerlands_shadow	i agree with abras there is always a way Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

olivejuice2muchlol	your situation is not hopeless, if you talk to your social worker and tell she or he you need a new place to live they will be happy to help you. stupid kids!!! they make to much noise Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gwarr129	Did you ever think of moving to the midwest, It is a slower pace here in the heart land, if you need employment , watch the local situation. SE Iowa is kinda bad at the moment, but some companies likeTyson, and Farmland are hiring and paying decent wages . Just a idea, just sounds like you need a slower paced life style. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SuzieQ92	Honey, if you know God there is never anyone without hope. I will pray for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gengen	Iwill leave running.....and let others take of that situation Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

abras	always a way Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

puttingmorecreaminyourmilk	I feel sorry for you but fight back... stink bombs are the way to go... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jumpingrightin	Praying, while those intentions sound "nice" won't change a thing. This is what you need to do. 1)A psychotherapy is fine, but you should also be evaluated by a psychiatrist. An adjustment or additional medication may improve things for you. 2)Your environment is very important. Find another place to live immediately. Even for people not dealing with mental health issues, a bad environment is very hard to deal with. Again, move. Even if you have to life with a friend of family for a while until you get a new place, do it! 3)A huge part of most mental health conditions is the feeling that your situation is hopeless is very common. Your situtation is never hopeless, regardless of what it might seem like. Again, it is never hopeless! 4)Spend as much time away from the bad place as possible. Go to the public library. If the library where you live isn't a good place, find a better library in a great part of town and visit there. You can walk off the street to any public library and enjoy the resources. 5)Spend time with friends and family who's company you enjoy. Those that have depressing conversations and don't make you laugh, forget those, only people who can lift your spirits! If all this sounds like too much work, just take it one day at a time and work on improving each of those areas. Remember that small changes over time make a big difference. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

steveangela1	get a machine gun, (my uncle sales them...lol) and blow them away! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bauercvhs	Plain and simply, you will not get over your issues until you are in a better environment. You cannot and should not under any reason try to reason with the hoodlums in your area. I suggest you move ASAP. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

purple	when music is playing loud after 11pm call the cops....thats distrubing the peace ... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rowbee	you just need to do what ever you can to get out of there and get some peace and quiet. i used to live in a really bad neighborhood and whenever i got he chance i would go have lunch and spend sometime in a beutifull nature park, the trees and fresh air would really calm my nerves. i am glad to hear you are getting help for your condition, my brother is manic depressive and i beg him all the time to at least take his medicine, but he doesn't believe he needs help. its nothing to be ashamed of, we all could use help once in a while Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lighthouse_halo	Your situation is not hopeless. You are in an unfortunate situation. Look for other housing as soon as possible. Try to dwell on taking one day at a time. Moment by moment. There is a better way.I know it's difficult but considering your financial situation, you gotta try to stay focus. I've been there. If you need to talk, I have a support group online or you can IM me. lighthouse_halo Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shih	hi there! am sorry to hear about that. Well, its either you moved out or they. You are still in processing in curing yourself or shall i say overcoming your difficulties. But if theres no other way you could moved out or they,i guess a "sit and talk together would help. Point out which is affecting you and disturbing your health and let them know how you are having the difficulties in dealing with it. At the same time, they can continue their so called activities but, in a time that it could disturb you less. Talk to them in a nice way and maybe , everything could be settled. Sometimes we think the worst one when it could be easier when its done. Goodluck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

spaceindian2	I don't know if you're saying they live with you, or near you. If they live near you, have someone move in with you temporarily that you trust, and explain your situation, so they're aware of what they're walking into. That may help ease some tension, a bit. You could always connect with a local church and ask the pastor if there are any members that would be able to give you room and board until you find a better apartment. That's all I can think of, in the meanwhile, keep the phone near you, the police is only a call away for your safety. Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

honky550	You need to remove yourself from the shitehouse situation you find yourself in! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hot Lips 4077	focus on that light at the end of the tunnel--you WILL get outa that flat soon, you WILL!--and then make calls starting TOMORROW to find a new place that will be a step up for u to live in. hold up your hope, baby, you can do it, and make sure 2 tell ur counselor/dr about your living situation so they can give u specific strategies 2 deal wit these jerks until u can move out. you can do it, you really can. believe in yourself and hold strong! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Siany	All you need to think about is that these are just kids, why do you care what they say? If you get scared just phone the police to move them, they'll soon get sick of being moved. Think about what makes you happy and focus on that. Take Care...and get a new flat :-p Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Norm	Sounds like you should work at finding a better flat. Maybe your social worker can help you find something better. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ray	Call the police. No one needs that garbage. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No