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staindfan509
Is it wrong to want to die for someone to be happy?

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Texas Chick
yes

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Squirrel Cage
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Yes

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Baby G
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yeah

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not me anymore
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to want to, no, but really depends on who and what all is going on.

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hamrrfan
Suicides do not kill themselves to make someone happy. They are trying to punish that person by making them feel sorry for the death.

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KayD
Im sure there is some other way to make them happy?

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RhapsodyOfFire
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When you are dead you will no longer feel anything (i.e Sad, Happy, Angry) it will all be a black void.

But to die for someone to make that someone happy, well yeah, its heroic, but there are other ways to make people happy, other than dying.

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Blessed
What makes you think you would be happy when you died for someone?
What makes you think that someone would
really be happy because you went and died for them?
What if they ended up not happy at all and then there was nothing you could do again to make them happy.

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MacC1windmill
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Absolutely.
If some dies , cant be certain if it has made others happy or not.

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Marcus R.
Yes, because being dead destroys all feelings along with happiness. Churches teach that thre is life after death, but the Bible says one has to live a full life in the right way to get to that afterlife happiness. Cutting your life short for selfish reasons like wanting to be happy is not living life right. Get over your selfish wants with contributions to society like writing fiction or making art.

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Bri[[dreamer]]
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yes then you'll only be making that person happi u need to give them the benefit of the doubt by just stayin alive :p i'll bet that person would feel dumb!

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cleverclogs
how do you know if that 'someone' would be happy if you were dead?
you need to speak to someone before you take action my friend, please, please, please, listen, there is help out there
no one is worth dying for, if you think that, then you need to get away from the relationship you have with that person, that is the poison

good luck my friend, l am praying for you

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dave e
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The real question is why would someone be happy if someone died? I would need to know the context of your question, but generally it's never necessary or a good idea for someone's death to make one happy.

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punkie_girlie
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not really. it sounds like youre in love. im sure noone would be happy if you died hun.

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answer machine
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You should never want to die, And who is this person who wants you to die?

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wind champ
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you need help. why are you asking such a morbid question? Your death may make one happy, but many more would be sadden. you'll be giving up and that is too easy. Go get help and stop thinking this way.

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fluke
it won't change anything.

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teri h
how could you dying make someone happy?

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peaches6
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I think that's pretty far fetched. No one is worth it!

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Lw's Lady
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Yes... no matter how much we care about a person.Time heals.Happiness is within only you can make you happy an dying for a person isn't the answer.

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Darkrai N
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In most cases yes but also kinda no but that must mean you care most likely but someone shouldnt die for happieness.

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ROSE J
Yes it is. A person should not wish death on anyone else just for happiness. If you are in a relationship that you no longer want to be in leave or find another way to leave.

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j&lc
i think it is. and how would you make that person happy by dying?

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Jenny
WELL AS LONG AS YOU DON'T OFF YOURSELF IT'S OKAY

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soulgirl4you
No... I wouldn't say that it is wrong to feel that way.... we all have morbid thoughts like that... but it would be wrong to act on those feelings. Instead, what you should do is look deeper at the problem. Does the other person not want to be around you? If so, then distance is key. Is your living really making it impossible for a person to bear because of an illness? Then I'd say that by ending it sooner you would just be adding more to thier grief because I'm sure thier fighting for life... so I'd stick around. Do feel like you've just messed up alot with this person? If so, then take a step back and reflect. Maybe you might need to have a serious discussion with the other person about what ever problem you're facing. Or reach out to someone close to you to talk to. Bottom line is... living is always better because things will always get better no matter what. It may take time, and it may be hard, but it will happen. You just have to live with hope. Hope that helps a little.

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cowabunga
Yes it is WRONG! You are worth every bit as much as anyone else. this girl doesn't need you out of the picture to be happy! If that is what she thinks, then she is messed up and your dying won't fix that! God gave you a life to live it to the fullest!

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Timo 545
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it is wrong to want to die for somone to be happy, in that situation. The other person will not be better off if you're dead. Trust me. Its worth living. But that my opinion.

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Okay, it looks like no one who has responded to your question has clicked on your link. I know you're upset about your ex being unhappy. You shouldn't be, though. Everything always works out in the end for the best. But, I'm sorry... killing yourself is not an option. It will make everyone else more miserable. What you need to do is move past all of this and stop feeling so terrible. You can only control your own feelings and your own happiness. Do something (that doesn't involve your ex) that makes you feel happy. I like to spend time with my friends and their little brothers and sisters or to me around my pets. Animals and children have such a different outlook on life. They are like never depressed or sad because they are so happy. They have that "innocents" to them and they take life everyday as it was meant to be taken. As a gift. Please cheer up and move forward. Its not worth it. I swear.

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suzyQ™
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I answered your original question. Please read it. And yes, you never get the results you expect. If dying would make someone else happy they don't really love you at all, if they did they would be devastated by your solution and that pain would never go away. Love to you. Please be strong.

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2U2
It sounds selfish and maybe you don't understand what really makes that "someone" happy. If you death makes them happy, then I would think that that "someone" isn't worth the sacrifice.

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