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wintennis91
I want to die?
no body is taking me seriously. i told my dad and he doesn't take me seriously. my mom tells me to suck it up and i really am suisidal. i am not diret when i say it, but i always say that "i'm done" and "i am giving up on my life and i hoenstly don't care if i fail school" and my parents keep talking about how we have no money and we're 135,000 in debt and it stresses me out!!!! i hate my family and i hate life!!!!!! they cant afford theropy for me and nobody truly cares!!!!!!!!!!1
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my dad even found out that i was bulimic 1 year ago and he didn't do anything!!! how can i get them to help me
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Fredrik R
u need to see a psychiatrist. Dont know where in the world u live, but try talking to ur teacher and maybe he can help you.

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Passionate Believer of Jesus
i dont want to sound like just a phrase...but your answer is knowing your maker....

believe God and his word, you have weighed out the cost to follow Chirst, leave your life of sin and obey his word.

you will seek after him, because you know he is truth! and then to you he has promised the COMFORTER, the Holy Spirit to lead you on your way. until you see Jesus Christ face to face in heaven. where there will be no more tears and pain....forever.

how do you invite Jesus in your life.

A- acknowledge you have sinned (went against God)
B-believe in your heart that Jesus is the son of God, and God raised him from the dead.
C-confess your sin to God

and salvation is a free gift, but you must always run after God and allow him to change you by his doing, not your own!
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The Holy Spirit In The Salvation of Mankind

A. Before Our Conversion While We Are Yet A Sinner

There are three things the Holy Spirit does for sinners...

1) convinces man that he is a sinner
2) shows wrath of God to produce Godly fear
3) enlightens man to God's salvation plan

The Holy Spirit is the inner voice that tells us something is wrong with our life. That inner voice is a blessed gift from God, who loves us enough to show us our error.

Without the knowledge that we are sinners in the court of God, man has no motivation to seek God's salvation. The guilt and fear of being estranged from God is a necessary ingredient to our eternal salvation.

The conviction of the Holy Spirit is the beginning of a new life with God. We are greatly privileged that God would visit us through His Spirit to draw us to Himself.

Those who continually suppress the conviction of the Holy Spirit eventually develop a "seared conscience" where they no longer feel any true guilt or fear of eternal punishment.

(Words of Jesus) "Nevertheless I tell you the truth; It is expedient for you that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter (Holy Spirit) will not come unto you; but if I depart, I will send him unto you. And when he is come, he will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment:" John 16:7-8 (KJV)

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goforaspa
Don't have such a pessimistic outlook on life, God cares! Your friends care for you too so keep it going and don't give up! Your parents are stressed too cos of the money issues so maybe they haven't been too sensitive but they care too really. (:

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curRy xox luva <3
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don't you see?
life's a challenge - i'm sure you know.
but you can do it! you can pick up the broken pieces and form something with it.
you are a beautiful person who has been blessed with life and you don't deserve to throw it all away - after all you've been through!
your parents may seem like they don't care because they know that you are smart & strong enough to get through your life (and not commit suicide.)
in your life, things have been bad lately. but do you want to give it all away on a bad note? no! you've got to be strong!!! don't believe me - well your parents (who've known you for as long as you've lived and changed your diapers when you were a baby) don't even see you capable of giving your life away!
everyone feels like giving up once in a while. don't give in!
it's not easy
but you are strong
and if anyone, you can do it!

=]

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bashoo_azraf
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pls pls pls ........................ change ur mind go to church and stay sillently..............i'm also do it

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A SCORPIO
Do you? Cause, I always ask myself! I get suicidal thoughts from time to time, because I don't wanna' deal with sh!t I'm going through. Then, I feel useless & I know life's not fair...but all of the as$holes got it made (like, they're life isn't hard like mine). I don't want you to kill yourself! I don't know you, but I love you (lol). Only, cause I feel your pain, and sometimes we can't depend on our source...our family. I just posted on Myspace how life sucks. I put...
(until I get my shyt together, "Life is a *****, and she will constantly !#$% you")

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GOODlife
people do care just see the right ppl dont fail u need 2 b smart 2 succeed

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A Benway
your parents are obviously not a positive resource on this.

try this number (kids help phone)
1-800-668-6868

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clayinspiration
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People do care. Your parents are temporarily too stressed to give you much attention right now. They obviously have faith in you, though, and know that you can get through tough times.

Talk to a school counselor and get help. You are not alone. Many families are stressed right now about financial problems. The housing market is in a record-breaking slump and the economy is pretty soft all around. It's not fair, I know. Your strength right now could help a lot of people who are in the same situation. These are tough times, there is no doubt, but we can get through them together. That is the best way.

Peace, joy, and the best of luck to you! Your life has tremendous value and purpose. Who knows?...your positive attitude right now could help many....even your own parents!

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Big Deal Maker
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Ask your parents if they would not tell you about there financial problems any more as it is stressing you out. Talk to your counselor at school. There is help out there for you so don`t give up on yourself. Stay in school and think of how you can help to make things better for you and your family. We could not afford a lot of things for our son. But to tell you the truth we had a lot more fun as a family when we had very little.

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BEARS
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Your the one who is making your future. You need to think first what is the best thing to do. Be a positive-thinker.

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tysavage2001
There are free suicide hot lines with people who do care in almost every city .. there is also a national free 1-800 number you an call for help. You may feel alone , but you are not. There are people out there who care. Call around .. you'll find the support you need. Good Luck ! :)

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peace2all
If you really want help go to a church and talk to a pastor. A good pastor is the best hope for depression! I could get in trouble for answering you with this response but the truth is it is a spiritual problem...sounds like family has some messed up priorities! Also remember that you are bound to be going through a lot of very big ups & downs in life but these years that you are in are some of the toughest as far as depression goes!
Please, whatever you feel believe that it will pass, have hope for something better and seek help from someone who is wise!

I will pray for you because feeling suicidal is a very scary place to be...I was there once!

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Puppy Owner
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Do you have a good friend or may be even a parent of one of your friends that you feel you can trust? What about a single teacher that you like (even if you're not doing well in the class or they are from a younger grade)? People all have those thoughts, it is when you feel them constantly that they are an issue, believe me I tried it. I take you seriously even if you don't know me. But think, there probably is a person you could safely go to. I know that you're parents aren't helping: it is hard enough being a teenager without taking on the burden of your parents' issues, but try to seperate what your issues are from the issues that you shouldn't have to worry about and find a person to talk with.

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Cee T
Ask the Lord into your life. Read the Bible (New Testament and Psalms). Find a good church. John 3:16

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manic4mcr
Heya. i had a friend who went through pretty much the same thing. she cut her wrists alot, and even over dosed. she had had enough of life and all her problems.
but it's not the way to go.
isee your family have alot of problems right? imagine if you did kill your self. they would have tonnes more issues. have alot more stress and it wouldnt be fair on them.
if they don't take you seriously then you need to sit down with them one night and talk to them directly. tell them you're deadly serious and discuss that you need help. point out the main issues. it really does help to talk. but talk with some one you trust. you don't want your secrets spread, leading to more torment on your behalf.
i hope that helped you out. and if you need to talk more about it then reply back. i don't mind

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la21unica
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you are young, you are a beautiful girl...i'm old enough to be your mom...and i'm so so sorry that your parents are so wrapped up in their own life right now, that they have completely tuned you out...it doesn't seem fair sometimes...you sound like you are a great girl...you have a solid idea of what you want to be and how you are going to get there, and that is something that so many grown ups haven't the slightest idea about their lives...

don't be so hard on yourself...don't give up...don't you wanna be there in a couple of years when you have the freedom to follow those great dreams you have today? don't you want to get that gigantic gulp of air in your lungs...you know that one that you take when you are so proud of what you have accomplish? those are things that people can't tell you about, you have to experience them...

i beg you not to think of hurting yourself...i know there seem to be no way out or no better solution than quitting life itself...but just think of this...we don't get to choose who we are born to...we don't get to choose either of them...some people happen to get a great match...but then others have one or both as a bad match...and that is ok...it sucks, but it's ok...honey, everything you accomplish, you have done it for you...you should not expect anyone to make you feel wanted or loved...if they (as in the rest of the world) can't see how awesome you are, then it may just be because they don't really deserve to be in your life like that (and that's ok) you know how great you are, and how, loving, and giving, and fun, and hard working, and goal oriented, and i'm sure i could go on and on about it...but those great things you know you have, are things that a loooooong line of strangers are waiting to come across...there are people in your future who are depending on you to give them strength from your experience...if you quit now, what will of their lives...there are lives that you are destined to impact, and you can't do that from six feet under and forgotten...i'm sure that you don't want to be seen or remembered as a weak needy person...if you quit now, no one is going to get it...they will only see the act you committed, and to them it will be weak...

chin up darling...sometimes the weight gets so heavy, you can't really see getting from today to tomorrow...and that is ok to feel...when you can't see that far, just take steps that will take you from hour to hour, if i make it to lunch, then i'll only have the afternoon, go home, go to bed and i'd have made it through the day...

just make sure that in the same way you are putting all this energy into feeling your sadness, once you start feeling happy, even if it's for a little thing...feel big...

you can get free therapy if you don't have insurance and if you don't have financial means...

if you want to talk a bit more, you can email me...i have one son that's a teen...but i didn't have parents or any adult who was there for me, so i know how you feel...

take care...

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deadsilence
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plz dont do this u knw y???????
becaz at somestage u ll be able to solve all money problems but if u do this u ll be captured by a Hand and from that u can never be released.....

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Kitty Lucy
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1-800-SUICIDE Honey!

Don't kill yourself, you have stuff to offer this crazy world. Brighter days are upon your horizon. Give hope a try and you'll be laughing in the end!

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jackie
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I don't believe you really want to die, but you would like someone to listen to you. Is there another relative, a friend or an adult at school who you could approach? In some countries there is a phone number to call, e.g. 'lifeline', where people will listen and respond to how you feel.

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dajani_dina
there is help for u dont give up , call the suicide hotline here is there web site . http://suicidehotlines.com/ they r toll free 24/7 u can talk to someone about what ever is bothering u. call them dont wait for ur parents to acknowledge what u have some ppl just wanna live in denial.

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toxicat13
Who cares what they think or anyone, just worry about you and how you can be better than them. Also, don't let people see that they piss you off. That feeds their personality.

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Balzy
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Babygirl life is hard. Don't give up. What does'nt kill us makes us stronger. Try and learn from there mistakes. It will make you a better person.

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Another Knife In my Hands
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Never turn to suicide to solve your problems. It's NEVER the answer. I'm sorry to hear all of this. I once thought of sucicide but then i thought of all the good times i've had with my friends and family. I care if you feel this way. It saddens me to hear such sad things. If you ever need to talk im always here...

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confuzed
call a suicide hotline

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sasha1641
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Sweetie~`you need to go to your parents and be honest about your feelings.
Don't tell them you "are done" tell them exactly what you wrote here.
When we tell the people around us, the things we THINK they want to hear they stop listening to us.
You need to be honest and tell them truthfully your feelings.
Your parents love you.
When they hear how much pain you are in they will want to do everything they can to help you.
There is no reason not to tell your parents.
Good luck!

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tokiohotel.luver
Oh i'm so sorry about your life and I wish you a better life and nody should treat you that way it's wrong. And if I knew you I would care about you. Good Luck ~ peice ~

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Pete
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Wow. I'm going through almost the same exact thing! Except, my parents drink away THEIR problems...they're alcoholics.

I feel for you. I feel like giving up but I know that's very naive of me. I know I have to keep doing my thing because a person can't give up when things get tough. Keep your head up. You can do it!

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dstluke
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Walk into your school counsellor and tell him in no uncertain terms that you are suicidal. You will get help very quickly. The other alternative is to walk into an emergency room and tell them the same thing. You will get help. If you don't want to talk to the school counsellor, talk to a teacher or someone you trust. Get help. Keep talking and tell people outright that you are suicidal. Make them listen. You need help.

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Art Student
Seriously, when this happened to me I called the suicide hotline and they are WAY more helpful than your dumb a** parents.

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kitty
LOOK IN THE PHONE BOOK AND CALL THE SUICIDE LINE IT'S FREE I THINK YOU WANT HELP YOU ARE TO YOUNG TO DIE YOU HAVE A FULL LIFE OUT THERE SO MAKE IT BETTER MAKE IT HAPPEN BE HAPPY NEVER GIVE UP ONLY THE STRONG SERVIVE

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