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Людмила	sweetie, remember this...If you commit suicide you are going to hell....and in hell, you will have a worser life. It wouldn't even be called a life but suffrage for years forever. think about it. the world needs you thats why you were born for a reason. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Patrick	Youre not depressed. you just gullible. If you ever think for a second that you life should because youre 'sad' then youre a f***** idiot. those depression test are just that: test. 1 million people are suffering, 3 biliion more are hungry, and 60 thousand are dying right now through different types of torture, murders, and mishaps. Youre death will not make you and the world better. depression is an emotion. Counteract it with a positive f** emotion. Snap the f* out of it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

debbri48	rayzser, I'm sorry to hear about what you are thinking. I don't know if I can help you are not. But my daughter was your age when she went throe the same think, WE moved to a new school and the kids were very bad. her younger sisters were still in Elem. so it was easier for them. but our oldest was new to the JR high and we moved at mid.term. so that made it even harder for her. Up till then she loved school. Then the boys at the school started on her and life for a while was very hard for her and and made her life at school a living h###. I could see this but didn't know what to do for her. I would sit her down as soon she got home and try to talk to her about what was going on. I felt so sorry for her. i talked to the school council and he said to just wait and see where it went. Looking back is always 20/20 yea. I should have done something right then. But I kept talking to her and trying to be her ears. In the end she got throe it with just a little of my help but most of hers. but i wish i had done more to help her. for you see it did scar her. When we talk about it now, i asked her one time how she got thoue it. She said that I keep her busy with the horses and the show steers. she was out side a lot and having to clean stables and feed and exercise her horses and steers. Even mowing the gress. So i guess that is the answer. Try to get outside as much as possible. look at the trees and the birds and find something that will make you feel better. It made her stronger, but harder too. She didn't take any meds. but if that is the only thing that will not let you feel that way then do so. But try to get busy with something that will makes you feel good about your self. if you can please talk to your mom and dad. let your family help you if they will. But alwasys be careful of strangers even online. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

aliveinwildpaint	I'm sorry :( I feel your pain. I've been depressed for over a year now. Listening to music helps me calm my nerves and go to a better place. My therapist gave me some really good advice which I tried today, and it worked very well. Take a moment out of your day, for you maybe some time before you go to school, and just think about everything thats bothering you, and just let it all out, cry, scream, just think of everything thats happening, thats upsetting you. Just take half an hour to get it out of your system. I did this today in my car while listening to the Beatles, for about 20 minutes, and for the rest of the day I was in a better mood, and I didn't tend to think about what was bothering me as much and when I did I was just like, Ehhhh whatever. Please try it. Just let it all out. Stop crying like that love. Don't wash away that smile. I can kiss away a tear but not a flood. Smash all your mirrors, I swear love they lie. Could you see what I see, if your eyes were mine? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mono_chiki	Hun, believe me, you don't wanna die, think of all the things you'd miss, all the awsome memories you've collected over your life, and how much of it you still have to go. I'd say I'm about a year older than you, and I've wanted to die heaps of times, school can be a pressure, I'm not sure about how the system works where you live, but I'm in highschool now, and thigs are hard, but thats life. If your really worried, tell your mum, she'll keep an eye on you, or a trusted adult. Friends are a good option as well, tell some one, anyone, let it all out, scream if you have to. You only got one chance at life and you need to make the most of it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pablo_asawa	i know it is not easy when you are a teenager and facing the problems you face. i did not like a lot of stuff in my life at this age but i kept busy doing odd jobs to make money. I had a paper route and i cut a few lawns in my village..also i would do odd jobs working for a doctor...carrying out the trash once a week..and disposing of it...also i used to work in a gas station ...but you have to make the effort and find something that you like doing. life is not easy at any age..but i agree that at your age you have little power to make decesions but you should not rely on depression quizzes as when I was taking Psychology I would read about abnormal behavior and I could find a lot of things in the different mental diseases that are common in all of us...so depression is something that everyone suffers from time to time..maybe you should talk to a "new" therepist to get more then one point of view...also seek out the advise of school couselors or a clergy man of your faith...God will help you overcome your problems if you let Him...but this is something that only you can do...as it is your life and you seem to already have a lot of insight into your problems..now follow up with self study and getting someone you trust who will help you through your depression..Good luck... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nicole and mike forever	you need to get on anti depression pills Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MJS	Look out of the window. Look at the trees and the birds. Read the bible. The point is: your depression will take you no where. It is hurting both you and everyone around you. Have hope, you are not alone. When you just want to lay in bed, get up, and try to make your day the best it can be, and don't let anything change it. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

just wondering	Your only 13 you don't know what you want.....I have a 16 yr old daughter that has hated school since 1st grade and she has managed to get through it failing a few things and making them up and being grounded, dating and being dumped, cheering which she loves but losing it to bad grades. All I can say for you is get medical attention NOT internet attention and get out and enjoy life. You make it what it is. If you get real bad I am sure your parents will get you the help you need. But dying is never the answer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nichkerz	Sometimes life just gets on top of you and makes you feel down - other times it can be much more severe. I hated School too and ended up staying in bed most days and not bothering to go. eventually i realised i needed to get an education so i went school. My advise - Get up early enough to get a shower and eat breakfast. Enjoy the walk to school. Instead of school being a bore think of it as somewhere you can see your friends. Take up a hobby - excercise is proven to improve your moods. Look after yourself! Eat well and focus on the good parts of life! You will be able to leave school soon enough and with an education you will find it easier to get a job you love! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

komal	why? dear r u mad...... look at people aroun you, are they all living for themselves? no they are living for you.... you are a part of their lives and you want to get out of them..... think broad dear... it is very easy to say that i want to die but you know it is so very difficult to give birth....you can find love in small little things..get to know that and forget about dying Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lauraloo	Ok first off i want to give you a cuddle for dealing with this and asking for help. Next - ignore all they idiots out there. What you are describing definitely sounds like a form of depression. I know its hard but you have to talk to someone before things get worse. mum, dad, grandparents, a close friend, or even a doctor. The easiest thing you can do is ut on a smile and pretend everything is ok....but then something will push you over the edge and you wont be able to cope anymore. I'm not trying to scare you or anything i just dont want you to keep suffering this alone. You can talk to me if you really feel the need. Please ask for help. The bravest people ask for help every once in a while!! Take care!! x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lauriie.x	I am exactly the same right now its really hard to get through I know it seems hard to put try as hard as you can to think of the positives it took me forever to find one. I eventually thought of my cats and how i loved them and didnt want to loose them. You just need to get yourself going and try and distract yourself even if it seems stupid in the first place once you start distracting yourself its better Hope That Helps.xxx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ladybugewa	I'd say that qualifies as depression. Is there any way you could see a therapist again? It could help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sauwelios	"The first sister to kill herself is the youngest, Cecilia. A doctor treating the girl after her first attempt at suicide remarks, “You're not even old enough to know how bad life gets.” Cecilia calmly replies, “Obviously, doctor, you've never been a 13-year-old girl.”" http://www.wsws.org/articles/2000/jun2000/virg-j23.shtml I just had to think of that. By the way, if this interests you, I suggest you first read the book, then later watch the movie if you want. But this is not about The Virgin Suicides. You're not very clear about why you are depressed. Maybe you don't really know, yourself. A depression can have many reasons, physiological or psychological. Indeed, it is important to realise that body and mind are one, so that anything in your mind may affect you physiologically, and vice versa. Of course, you could go into therapy, but maybe it's more "therapeutical" to try to figure out what is ailing you yourself first. It is often therapeutical to talk, and in a dialogue, you may get new insights either on your own, by trying to formulate your thoughts, or from the other, who has his own perspective on what you say. So feel free to drop me a line. The thing is, I have been depressed for years (with ups and downs), but at one point I found the resolve not to be like that, live like that, any longer. You say you want to lay in bed all day. I recognise that. You say "I just want to lay in bed all day and die". Well, in Greek mythology, Sleep was the brother of Death. Sleep is the door to the dreamworld, and many think or like to think that death is the door to a dreamworld ("heaven") as well. You are possibly overwhelmed and/or negatively impressed by the world out there, and want to escape to another world. But as Jim Morrison said, dreaming is no solution. Even dreaming about a "heaven" is no solution. A heavenly life is supposed to be a life that justifies itself - a life of eternal happiness or joy. But it remains to be seen if any "heaven" awaits us after death, and frankly, I don't believe in it. I believe death is the end of the "soul" (the mind), as well. So the question is "to be, or not to be". Being (living) is both joy and sorrow, both rest and activity, both good and bad. Non-being is neither. In life, the bad times may be justified by the good times. In death, there are neither bad times nor good times. There is no "you" in death to suffer or enjoy. There is no "you" to feel relief of the suffering you felt in life. If you choose life, you choose suffering as well as joy; you can't have one without the other. I hope you will choose life. If you choose to live in the world out there, you will make a difference, however small. Many small differences make the difference. And you can make a big difference to some. I hope you will find there is enough in life to live for. I hope you'll hold on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jick_2	don't yet think that....you were born to serve god, not to kill yourself all day. what will you think the reaction of your loved ones if u die? be sure also that school is very important to you....you can find friends there. actually were the same age. and i'm always depressed when it comes to school. but i learned that it is so very fun at school. when youre still young, make sure to make your life happi.. i hope it makes you smile....^_^ sis.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Charlotte d'Allemagne	you say die as if it's a bad thing Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Michael R	I too have suffered from depression, and it doesn't matter how old you are, we all get depressed. The question is, will medication help you? You should see your doctor, and tell him you have thoughts of suicide. Beyond that, surround your life with positive people. Talk to a friend, try and discover the root of your depression, if you get depressed for no reason, you need medication. However if it is school, or parents, or something, you can deal with that. Circumstances always change, there is a light ahead. Do something that you enjoy, get your mind off things. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lisa	I don't think you want to die. I think you don't want to try. Don't give up, and allow the feeling of helplessness consume you. You have your whole life ahead of you and it's guaranteed to be different than right now. When I was your age I remember how everything was an extreme. Nothing was ever just right, or ok. It was either really good or my life was over. This will pass. Tell your parents how you feel. Allow them in your world, and let them help you. Tell them of your pain. Parents would move mountains, if it would take their babies pain away. This is too serious of a mater to be a question on here. If this is your way of reaching out, then this is a scary situation. I would tell you to call the suicide prevention line, but I already know you wouldn't. It will get better. I promise. If I can survive loosing my entire family before I was 20. You can survive being a teenager. Email me if you want someone to talk to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lil_devil909_03	well it is obvious that you are depressed but why are you so depressed is the question i have been through a lot in my life way more then any one needs to go through i had my first child at 17 with some guy that said he loved me and blah blah blah and then left me 2 months after i had him and then i met my husband and became severly mentaly ill and very depressed and tried several times to comit suicide body mutilation and other things because i was constantly on a downward sprial and then i went to see a therapist after the last episode of trying to comit suicide by taking 20,000 mg of Ibuprofen and then having to go to the er and drink charcole to make sure i didnt end up hurting my self i know this is probably not what you want to here but what you need to do is go talk to your parents and let them know what is bothering you and tell them you want to seek counceling and mybe they will want to put you on some medication and i think that might do the trick to make you feel better medicne will help you talking to someone who has no prior knoledge of you or whats going on will help to because they have no opinion of you and they will not take sides they will just try and lead you down the right steps into geting your self help to make you feel better i hope this helps you because you are to young and you have way to many things to look forward to in your life also turn to God to help you there is no happiness without God that doesnt mean you have to go to church every sunday just talk to him and tell him what going on and ask for help and he will lead you to where you need to be i hope this helps you and just keep your head up put a smile on your face and brush your shoulders off also you said you were tired and you wanted to go to sleep but keep figiting why dont you try to take a warm bath/shower mybe go make your self a nice hot cup of tee, warm milk or hot chocolate that will help calm your nerves and get you a good nights sleep good luck and i hope this helps you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Count Chocula	you need to go to your parents to help you. there is help out there. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stoner_dude_2007	hey please im me please i tried to comit sucide altot so please im me i will help you okay Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

trASHLEY	"you're only as happy as you let yourself be" cheer up kid. theres millions of people who are worse off than you. take a good look in the mirror and figure out who you wanna be, how you wanna act, how you wanna feel. my ex was just like you. and his life went down hill. dont be that kid lil buddy. take care. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jann	Hey girl youre too young to die. Life is short enjoy life. Its a God given opportunity to live so dont ever think of dying. Soon, one day you'll overcome your depression and you'll gonna say "ha ha ha! is that all...!" Good luck girl...go on, move on and enjoy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

david k	13 is an age that can be hard to understand yourself, we often don't take the time out of our busy schedules to hear or see whats happening in our own families. I hope you will talk to your mom or dad about how you are feeling, sometimes its easier to write it down on paper, and it may help you feel a bit better as you write it all out. You can aslo try talking to a counselor at school they may be able to give you some advise, life is not always easy, but their is something to be learned in every thing we do. Get some rest and try and put some distance between you and the sadness, for tomorrow will be a brighter day. take care Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mzfaye_05	Just tell to yourself that God is with you. If ever, you're now experiencing hardships just don't give up and survive. Just pray and ask the guide of Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit that will guide to the right path.:) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Erabus	Sweetie, I have a severe form of bipolar disorder. When I'm in my depressed state, I'm sometimes suicidal, BUT, I always acknowledge it and say : "its just my bipolar disorder. this will pass." and it does. Your obviously depressed. Pills will help. Consult a therapist. Talk to your parents. GET HELP. God prescribes the hour and the method of our return to him. Not us. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The Help	Rayzser i am going threw the exact same thing right now except I'm not in school anymore. Depression hurts, i sleep a lot and spend most of my time by myself but nothing is worth dieing for. There's plenty of help out there talk to somebody you are really close to, a family member or close friend, a teacher. As much as you might not want to talk about it, it could make all the difference. What helps me is staying busy, try to keep yourself busy doing things productive or things you enjoy like a hobby. For me when a listen to music or cook all my thoughts for the time being are on that and not on what is bringing me down. Hang in there, i hope i helped if you need someone to talk to email me maybe we can give each other suggestions on beating depression. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	PLEASE..I KNOW you won't believe this but it's just temporary. It seems like the depression will never end. That's because time almost stands still when we are in pain. Tell your doctor, first thing in the morning. Also tell every friend you have and all relatives you can trust. Sometimes people don't realize just how bad a person is suffering because we ALL have had small battles with it. Unfortunately, it is a part of our lives we all experience. Everyone NEEDS to know though, just how sad you REALLY are. It's THEN, when they start to really pay attention. PLEASE baby. Don't despair. At 13, our hormone changes in our bodies ALONE can fuel depression. It passes. Just LOVE yourself and hold on to this thought. I PROMISE you will get help if you ask for it and the depression will go away pretty soon. Hang in there. Suicide would definitely not be the answer. We here on Y/Answers love and care about you. Just start telling all of those, you trust that you need some help right now to be able to cope with it. Love always, MOLLY ♥ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shmelly Sam	I really don't know how to make you feel better...or even what to say...I can't just turn you to a solution, and I don't know what your beliefs are... I don't know your reason...and I honestly can't say the perfect answers...But I know what you mean. You're a wonderful person, and you mean a lot in this world.... If you can get through this, you will be the strongest person ever--at least one of the strongest people I would have ever seen. No matter what, you just need to hold on.. there are so many things that can turn you away in this world...I know...But you don't have to sink down with it . But you need to do the best you can, and you have to be here to see it get better, because it's going to. I've been in depression for so long, and many times I want to let go, and it is the hardest battle ever. But I'm confident to do something, because I can't LEAVE it like this...this isn't it, it doesn't have to be all I ever knew about life...[But I have to be here to see that]. I feel better most days, but I want to stay to take all I can out of life, because after all that crap...I deserve it! I wish you the best...someone like you doesn't deserve this, and I wish I could take that away...I hope something comes by, and it all looks up for you. edit There's lots of good advice here-as you can see, there are others who understand, so don't feel alone. I just really hope you find an answer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fight1985	Hang in there kid. Life gets better. Once you gain some idependence in your life I am sure you will be happier. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No