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chocochic101	girl, ur just like me!!! i have the same problem my family. my brother, my parents goin out whenever im gone, and i have a short temper. i really never thought of killing myself though. just talk to them, and tell them how u feel. trust me, it will really help u out. if ur parents kno how u feel, they will most likely change. um,... i wish u the best of luck. and seriously, DO NOT kill urself. just think about all the ppl that love u and how they would hate to see u go. so, good luck, and best of wishes. ♥♥♥ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bridgette	Wow, sounds exactly what I went through. I can only say I felt the same way, but now, it is different. I rethought my life, realized things will be different in the future. Your little brother will grow up, and soon you will be able to go to your favorite resturaunt on your own. I'm only 15 so this was quite recent I went through this. I will say, I never attempted it but had serious thoughts. I promise you though, if you look to the future and see that things will get better, than you will feel better. Alot of teenagers fill that way though. Just something you go through in life, its about overtaking it and not doing what you "think" you want to do. Be strong! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hermit	Ok -- your little brother's a dumb@ss and your family goes out to dinner without you. Is there nothing else in life worth living for? If you are that far gone, then, yes, you need help, but seek it professionally. What is it you expect to find on a website that's going to make life worth living? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Seth N	Please, before you do anything you might regret, try giving these numbers a call... Suicide & Crisis Hotline 1-800-999-9999 Help for Troubled Teens ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ National Hope Line Network 1-800-784-2433 Suicide Prevention Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rose1077	I'm not sure I can help stop it, but I can tell you that you're not the only one that deals with such things. These thoughts could stem from several things. However, if they've come on unexpectently and not related to any any one traumatic incident, I would lean toward a chemical imbalance. I think you should talk to your parents, tell them what is going on and ask them to help you setup and appointment with a psychiatrist. This doesn't mean you're crazy. Psychiatrists are specially trained to help discover the cause and can prescribe medications that can help correct. Remember your parents love you. This might upset them a bit, so be prepared, and remind yourself they're just worried and they love you. If you really can't talk to your parent to get help, then try another family member such as grandparents or aunts and uncles. School counselors are always a great resource too. In the meantime, when thoughts of suicide come up remind yourself about all the good things in life, as korny as that sounds. When you feel your temper slipping, step away for a minute and count to ten. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brad the bored...	let the anger go, beat the sh*t out of you're little brother, he'll learn not to mess with you, and with the other stuff.... i think you got a problem, but mine's worse, do your best not to end up like me... that would be a problem Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Susi is Boss	It happens to me all the time. whenever I am out at a friends house, my parents end up eating at one of my favorite restaurants. I get really mad. and I also have a brother. he annoys the hell out of me. but this is what I do control myself and my feelings: 1. I clear out the bad thoughts out of my head 2. I think that maybe it happened for a reason 3. and plus I always look on the bright-side. I hope this helps. good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

<3GaaraXGayna<3	It sounds like, like me, you have anger issues...A rather powerful hatred towards a member or members of your family- I have it towards my little sister. Not just when I'm angry either [though truthfully 95% of the time I am angry] I think to myself, if she was never born, I'd be an only child and I'd not have to be sad about her not being there because she wouldn't have existed. I'm guessing the strong dislike for your brother has stemmed from your anger problems and has snowballed - Normal jealousy and the whole typical little sibling annoying you thing I think you could probably handle - It's just the fact you have such a temper for whatever the reason and your brother seems to increase it... I'm guessing that it kinda feels like your brother and the rest of your family are acting like a family together and it feels like you are being excluded? That's evident from the way you talk about them going to your favourite restaurant when you're out - It feels to you as if they are trying to spite you. I am not saying that they are necessarily trying to spite you as such...Perhaps they do not know it is your favourite place to go...Or perhaps it's THEIR favourite place to go aswell...But either way, the strong dislike for your brother in the way you describe is not normal sibling rivalry, in my opinion from your strong feelings on the matter you probably have clinical anger problems Hope I cleared things a little...I'm only 13 but I've been through a lot Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Patrick P	well the best way to get rid of those thoughts is by thinking of good things. For example your friends or your pet, a nice memory, or something funny that has happened to you. Also think of all of the things in life that you would miss out on if you commit suicide. And as for the short temper towards others(your brother).... look at him and smile. Look at him with love because he is your brother and you are very blessed to have him. Many people would die to have their brother back. Remember both you and him will have to die one day, so make the best of the time that you have together. There has to be something about him that you love. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	One thing you might try is before you let them push you to the point of rage you need to walk away and count to 100 to calm down or picture yourself some place that makes you truly happy. Another thing I can suggest is having your parents take you to a doctor where you can be put on a mood stabilizer. You may be experiencing a chemical imbalance that is causing you to be so short tempered. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

thedavecorp	EEEEEEEEVERYBODY considers suicide at some point. So, there are a number of things you can do: BOOK: FEELING GOOD - the new mood therapy (I think it's by David Burns) Your library should have it. Dianetics works really well too, go to www.dianetics.org I would avoid medication if possible, but if it's not, lexapro has some good results - but that, unfortunately, won't be up to you. Write me privately if you need more. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lee B	This will go away once you grow up, don't worry too much about it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dave	ive been in a similair position myself actually near identical. what i would do is get a docs appointment and tell him ur situation then he will refer you to some phsciatrist(poor spellin i know) which really helps! i know believe me! and if it continues u may hav to go on anti-depressents. btw statisticaly speaking 75% of the western population are on anti-depresents at one point in their lifetime so dont stop urself from goin! make that doc appointment! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TR	Hey ive been through something like this so i want to talk to you truly_latino_17@hotmail.com see you later Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mrs. Goddess	I recommend counseling. Being young and lack of maturity can make it more difficult to keep your temper under control, but usually it doesn't extend to thoughts of suicide. That is not normal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kjml2003	alot of people feel this way growing up. i look at my life now with two great kids (i am in my 30s) and i think back to when i thought about it too. you dont realize till you are older that its growing up thats so hard and life is so worth living. please seek help and stay strong for yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hoelmoel	you seem that you are a nice girl you did not hear the song that says: don't worry be happy ? you should hear it! you still have a long life to live do not be too pushy on your self take it easy with that stuff you are talking about because you did not see any yet ?! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

phatpnoi3k	It sounds like you might have a lot of other problems on your mind already to let something like that get you so upset. If you're at that point it might be a good idea to ask somebody you feel comfortable with for a little help dealing with them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

heathcliff	DON'T THINK ABOUT SUICIDE, just because your family doesn't like you. now a days the concept of family is overated. think of family as the first in line to betrayed you. concentrate on yourself and forget about your friends, they are good for nothing any ways, no body cares!!! so you should start caring about yourself, and love yourself, we all know that no one else does!!! you say you get angry easily, well get mad at life for dealing you these cards... and strive in school and work go to college and pay no mind to distractions choose a lucrative carrer learn to be indepedent not co-dependant. forget about friends and boyfriends they just drag you down. if your family don't want you around have them send you away to college, get lots of properties, and money and once you think you had enough get some more, don't take shi*t from no one.... and take care Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

London_calling	You don't say how old you are and I assume you are a young teenager. Things may seem bad now, but people change and you've still got a lot to look forward to in your life. Talk to your parents about your brother and how he's giving you a tough time. Hormones play a large part in this period of your life which can effect moods etc so eating healthy foods and just relaxing (nice hot baths) can let you have time to yourself. As for your short temper (I know it shounds lame, but it works) count to 10 when you feel really mad before you say anything - the best approach is to walk away and leave the situation; this makes you look like the better person and avoids conflict. You obviously have friends because you sleep over at their houses so use them for support at this difficult time. I hope some of that has made sense! I've never felt suicidal but I've certainly had seriously bad moods and wishing my sister was dead. Feel free to e-mail me about anything. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥♥♥	Just look at the bright side of things instead of thinking about all the bad stuff. Just please dont kill urself.. its not worth it. Things will get better! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LG	Well, don't invalidate your anger. You don't have to kill anybody. Just acknowledge that you're angry and that it's OK to be angry. You don't need to justify it to anyone. You might want to kill yourself as a way to punish your family for their infractions. Try to find a better way to express your anger. You can give the cold shoulder. You can go to another room or out of the house when your brother bugs you. You can get a tattoo. You can try to tell your family that going out for your favorite stuff when you're not there really bothers and hurts you. All of these things are better and less permanent solutions than killing yourself. Think about what the best way to let them know you're angry is. Only you can make that decision. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

drjekyllandmrhyde	i think like that sometimes too. youre simply angry, and when you are your mind is prone to exaggerate. the fact is, youre not suicidal, well at least im not since i know no matter how many times i actually think about killing myself, i never will, so these thoughts just come to ease off my anger. the same with you? if you want to get rid of them, perhaps talk to a friend about your problems with your family and vent off there. maybe you should write/type your problems out to yourself and throw them away/delete them once youve vented off. if you dont like that, try confronting your family about what they do. if you really want to, you can control your thoughts easily. just dont think about suicide when youre angry. simple as that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lambchops5151	Focus on the future and remind yourself that in a few years you will be on your own and will never have to see your brother ever again. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dream on	i've had depression for 3 F****** nonstop long years and i did have thoughts very similiar to yours...... dont let get to you....... call a friend......... I wish you best of luck......... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jaculco	Have been through the same sh!t . do not do it , not worth it . Wanna talk , talk to me. Maybe I can help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HELP!	"life is very short and theres no time for fussing and fighting my friend" -the beatles Life is NEVER worth ending for something like this. But instead of imagining yourself dead, imagine everyone ELSE dead. it will make yo ufeel alot better. when your mad at someone, write a letter to them, getting all your anger out, say mean things, then, stuff that envelope in a drawer. that way you wont regret it later. If yo userisouly think about suicide, get help from a pyschologist or therapist! they help!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

iloveeshopping1	don't kill your self. and also, have you ever heard of Jesus Christ? He would take away all those feelings of suicide. ho learn about Him. i know you finding Him would help you. :] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

momsplinter	SWIM, I say this kindly and with no mean intentions. You need to get help. If your family does not want to help you. Ask the school counselor or someone you can trust if there is some kind of counseling and or therapy that you can get. It may very well be a chemical in balance. I am not a doctor, but I know the right one can help you out! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No