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mamma jen	Try talking to a counsellor. Maybe at your school. Before you can get anyone to like you you have to be happy with your self. You need to like who you are, not everyone else. I am sure there is one thing you like about your self, focus on that and build on it. Have you tried talking to your parents your self. Sometimes it can surprise you how understanding parents can be. good luck to you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Keepin it reall!	Big is beautiful! look at Monique, and queen latifa....there big and beautiful! and I'm shore you are to :) If your not happy with yourself then do something about it. Please do not harm yourself in anyway live your life in the best way possible! everyone is beautiful! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Abby Normal	Well I have some love advice/attraction advice.......... 1) People are attracted to people who are attracted to them, confusing but if you absolutly tell someone they are so cool and rock, they will star6t to enjoy your company 2) Smilling directly at someone makes them notice you more, look right at them and smile happily 3) When someone you like is talking focus all of your attention on them, act like they're the center of your world, and try and back up their cause if you can by saying stuff like that, thats true....... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bella	i recommend you tell an adult that really means something to you...your grandma or your godmother or someone like that...ask someone that you know that knows a psychiatrist Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mary	You are a wonderful and kind person. You are NOT pathetic and get that out of your head. You need to think of friends or people who really have it bad. If you choose to really believe, you can have a wonderful attitude and that's what is got a hold on you being negative so much of the time. When people are negative other friends draw away from that person and it feels like you have no friends at all. Try smiling when you don't feel like it. More smiles bring more friends. Think about others and get out of thinking about yourself all the time.. Because that's nothing but causing you a lot of pain. Try to love others. And help those less fortunate than you, there are plenty and this will help you get a good attitude. You will become happier, remember God chose you not vice versa. He wants your happiness and peace. Thats a gift He gave us all. Good luck and God bless, Mary Try real hard and you will find I'm right. You've got a lifetime ahead to practice these things. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Black Rican	ur not ugly your not fat who cares what other pple say who knos if i saw a pic of you mayber you are cute Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tayerh123	if you ever need to talk add me on myspace.com/tayerforever Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RockAngel	i dont really understand ur question r u trying to get a guy to hug u or r u trying to have someone u can trust? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

melskiolo	first of all..how old r u? (i dont mean that in a bitchy way) so many times ive heard the same ol story... 1. ur not alone, every one feels like this at some point in their lives...specially when ur younger believe me! 2. in 5 maybe 10 years down the track u are going to kick yourself for acting such a fool. it might hurt like hell now and u might think that this is the only person for u and all that jazz...and ive been there, reeli, i have.... and im telling u... you are going to laugh about this when ur older... im only 22 and i still laugh about sum of the immature drama i thought i was facing... it may be big and dramatic for u right now...but it aint...its trivial and youll realise this soon hopefully. i dont mean to sound like a hard ***** but im tellin u cuz i know. and i also kno that your proli not goin to listen to this advice cuz its human nature not to. but hey cant blame a gurl for trying :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

swimaholic	you really need to rewire Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

little_chipmunk	Just for the record, a lot people do go through a stage where they aren't happy with themselves especially if they are overweight and a teenager...it's a rough time of your life. If there isn't a guidance counselor you feel comfortable talking to then go to a church where they don't know you and talk to the pastor/priest/rabbi there. You don't have to go to their church for them to speak with you and if they don't know who you are...they can't contact your parents so you don't have to worry about that. Or if you are home alone where you can talk privately you can call a helpline and they will talk to you and help you out. In the meantime...do something for yourself...get a new haircut, try a little makeup (key word being little), dress a little better and before you know it you'll start feeling better about yourself. If you aren't happy with your weight try eating better and exercising a bit more. (Don't tell people your on a diet thats the quickest way to make sure it doesn't work...just do things for yourself) You'll see you really will start feeling better if you just give it a try. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Esvin M	go to the gym.don't eat to much.go to the store.Buy some good clothes. And dont to shy ask some one out.tell them you will buy dinner.And be nice to them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

robbie the rabbit	i bet ur not ugly..an di bet u have apretty face...thats how i feel also hun....but i mean i am really ugly..literally..i should go live in the sewers.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

greta920	TALK TO A SCHOOL COUNSELOR. WHATEVER U SAY IS ONLY BETWEEN U AND THEM. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Say Cheese!	You have to learn to love yourself and be happy. when you have confidence in yourself every one will notice including the boy. i reccomend that you write a list about all the things you DO like about yourself and add to it every day. you only need to add 1 or 2 things at a time. you might find a whole heap of things that are great about you! i hope this makes you happy! Good luck with the boy ;D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

andrew g	hey cheer up make the best of what you have Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

crazy4monkies	i am sure you are beautiful Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

i lve valleyball	will i think that you are putting your self down...... you need to be happy with what you are and nt what anyone else is............. what really matters is whats on the inside not the outside.. so dont bring yourself down Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Meghan	Hey, you know what? It's the teen blues. I get them sometimes. I feel like crap, why are you even here, god damn life sucks, I hate everything, I'm so bad at everything, no one appreciates me but why should they I AM SO FAT AND UGLY! The good thing is that most of that isn't true. You're having a rough time. It gets better, I swear. The teen years are pretty brutal. You're lonely, you're not sure who to trust or who your friends are, you feel gross and ugly most of the time. You'll get over it. Think to yourself, you're HERE! Not because of things you've done wrong, but because of things you've done right. You're still here and you're alive and I bet you're actually super awesome. Now go out there and make something of yourself! Use the hurt you feel to transfer into energy, and be who you want to be! Don't be self conscious, don't feel gross and unloved. Because you aren't. You are you and you are awesome! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

scifi_tomboy	Stop now, don't hate yourself, I bet that so many people out ther love you, but you are putting up barriers against them, stop it now & be positive. I have "Posh" parents, I don't wear make-up or pluck eyebrows, yet I am married to the most wonderful man you could meet. The less we pretend, the more we are in touch with real people. Size means nothing, being a real, genuine person means more than anything. We are all far too used to watching the Hollywood film, where everyone is body beautiful, I've heard them being interviewed & if no-one is writing their lines - they have nothing to say!! Be yourself & be proud of yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Giggles McCracken	You can talk to me Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sean	look, u should never hate yourself. right now u may not like the way you look, but thats because right now ur porbably in middle/highschool and u dont fit in with all the bllonde sluts. right now just focus on having a good time. don't get caught up in the popularity bullshit. Do good in school and in 5 years it wont matter anymore. Try to be more outgoing even though your not comtrable with yourself. Personality is one of the most key features in a person. Be confident. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mark m	Oh honey I wish I had a perfect answer for you I know from experience how hard it is being overweight. Try not to waste too much effort worrying about people who aren't accepting you and embrace the ones who love you for who you are I wish you all the luck in the world. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

andy in greece	WOW! That's awful! Get a grip. No matter what you think, you're OK. I can tell by the way you tell it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

(¯'·._.·Natasha♥·._.·'¯)	I am SURE you aren't fat and ugly... Sometimes people have such horrible self images, especially us girls. Remember guys especially like girls that are super-confident! I have really unattractive friends that are way confident and guys love them because they are fun to hang out with!! If you are really that down on yourself and don't wanna tell anyone, take vitamins, eat super healthy and workout!! I'm not overweight, but working out boosts my mood like you would not believe!!! Plus you'll get in shape and feel better about yourself. Work on making yourself into someone you actually like before you worry about this guy, please. Good luck hunny!!! =) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nelly	Well, you shouldn't say that because there is some one in the world that likes you. There is atleast 1 person. And if you still think you're fat, lose the weight. That's what I did and look at me. That's how I reall look too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

amanda marie	be a little more optamistic...and think about the good things about you and get better self esteem...guys will notice your confidence and get curious about you and before you know it guys will start to like you... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

carattop@pacbell.net	If you're in school, go to the school counselor. You need to talk to someone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

james brown	believe in yourself Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Soard666	Do not let people tell you who you are. Believe in yourself, and never care what negatives people think or say about you. You must be a special person, and different than standard, that does not mean you are less significant. You will find other special people like you who would appreciate you for who you really are. As for the rest, trust me, it’s their loss not yours! You are better off without such foolish judgmental people. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No