I am so lonely I want to die?

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missmozee	Baby, you need JESUS. Call on him! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

person20	i'm lonely too, and the only advice i can offer is to read the bible and pray to God about it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Suki	I would really suggest anti-depression medication. I dont really believe in medication personally, but I think for some people it works! Have you talked to a counselor? If you have health insurance, go on their website and look up local psychiatrists in your area and make an appointment! Bad things happen but life is always worth living. Nobody can make this life worthwhile but yourself. Invest in yourself and get some help! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Darren S	dont get yourself to down.ive taken overdoses in the past,after all these yearsive now started taking anti depressants and they really do help.Try to look at the postives,look at me im an alien from another planet. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

onlyoneshea	You need to really seek some help. Maybe if you have a hobby that you like or maybe take some classes that interest you that will be a great way to meet new people. Maybe join a group that does charity work that way you can help people and meet friends within the group. Know that death is permanent and there is no coming back so please don't do something drastic. It may seem bad now but things can make a drastic change in minuetes. If you ever need to talk or need a friend you can email me @ onlyoneshea@yaoo.com and I will try to help you through this rough patch. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gmomma	You need to work on your negativity. If you want to have friends, you must be approachable. Just don't think of yourself as unworthy, or unloveable. A smile will brighten up your day and someone else's. You have to give in order to receive. You never had a loving giving family to learn from. You can find a support group in your area. You were just a little kid, and must have seen some terrible things with that type of parenting. You will be a stronger loving wonderful man if you want to, but only you can do it. Please give it a try. You won't be sorry!! I promise. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CrazyCool	I think you should run away. Really. Drop everything and take a huge vacation. Don't take any calls from anybody and do whatever. Shop. Play Bingo. Go to movies. Go to church. Just leave a message to your people telling them you are alright and not to worry and just leave for a month or two. Find a new job, start a new life. Be Mr. Independent for a bit. Your wife might miss you and decide not to work so much. Who knows, you might find a new wife! Just do whatever you want. And then if it sucks there to you can really be miserable. Just leave all the crap you livng in where it is and ride out. Don't kill yourself like that though. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

deenie	It sounds like you have been given some very big challenges in this life of yours. When kids grow up with the kind of parents you had, they can tend to distance themselves from other people. Maybe that's why you have found it hard to make friends. It's completely understandable. Counselors and psychiatrists try to help---you know, they give you the meds and try to get you to talk about things you don't want to talk about necessarily. Unfortunately, it just isn't enough a lot of the time. I wish it was easier for people suffering like you are. And I wish the mental health system was better than it is. But we have the choice to tough it out or check out. From what you said in your question and the way you wrote it, you sound like a smart enough guy. You sound like you could most likely get around this thing you've been going through with some inspiration and advice. There is a really good website that you can check out. Www.realmentalhealth.com. You can see there that you aren't alone and they have a tons of info about all sorts of things that have to do with mental health. Maybe you could put lots of your energy right now into something that will take your mind off of some of the crap you have to deal with. You don't have to do things that involve other people so much, just something that might inspire or interest you. Watch some movies where the storyline is something that you can relate to. Sit and just tell yourself that there is nothing wrong with you (yea, I know, you think there is something wrong with you but the truth is that you are what you are and it isn't so much that YOU are wrong as it is that you have been stressed to the nth degree) and because of your life circumstances. One thing I know is that people need to be recognized for who they are and what is important to them, and also simply to be loved. That is basic for everyone. Many people growing up don't have both those things. They are told they are loved but aren't shown it or they are given attention but aren't really loved. We need both. Give yourself a break. You haven't had it easy. Be kind to yourself and when you feel as bad as you do now, maybe you could try to give yourself the attention you need and try to love yourself for who you are. Just acknowledge the hurting parts of yourself and then try to hold those feelings with love. Man, I wish you the best. Life is hard, no doubt about it. But I think you will like the website. You can actually chat with other people on it as well. Stick in there. More people than you think really do care. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fisherwoman	Do you have a job?Do you get out of the house daily?What does your wife do at home?What do you guys do together? I would seek a doctor's help,get some antidepressents,you have slipped further in your depression and need meds,as you know it is a lifetime thing, you will always need some help. Take care. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Double_Eleven	Hmm... I see there is a part of you not quite finished with life, because you've asked this question. I really don't believe in depression medication, however many time exceptions are made. In your case I don't believe you want to die you're simply suffering from a sever case of loneliness and in normal cases I tell you to speak to a friend so if there are no alternatives a pet may do you some good. If that doesn't appeal to you try taking up a hobby. Sounds like you've got far too much time on your hands and that can increase your loneliness. Find something you enjoy and try to keep yourself busy. Good luck my friend. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nurse_driller	1st and foremost.. give yourself a hug.. taking your own life is not the answer.. please PLEASE don't do it...2nd a mental hospital is not the answer.. seek out someone to talk to a clergy.. look in the phone book for the local chapter of mental illness they should have a help talk line... find a therapy talk group.. do anything that helps you make you feel good about yourself.. and i am so sure you have more good qualities than you give yourself credit for.. sit your wife down and talk to her.. make her see how you feel about her working so much.. if she loves you she will compromise and be home more.. let her know that you really need her support right now.. trust me.. i know what I'm talking about.. I've been there and something stopped me from ending it.. and my life has done an about face.. life still isn't perfect.. but i can live with it.. i hope this helps you in some way!!! but please please please dont take the pills!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MsTruthful	I understand your since of lonliness because I experienced it a couple years back. I was very depressed and was always kicking people out of my life because of their flaws. My mothers is an alcoholic, it almost makes me sad just to type it. I haven't still said it out loud. But I pushed her away because of her sickness, and my father was an addict. I say was because things changed for him. I pushed my man away because I just didn't have love for me, so I could I have love for someone else is what I told him. But one day I was listen to the Christian channel and I heard this lady give her testimony about how she had no family, and she was a whore, and a drug addict and she overcame all those things by the grace of God. So I look and said to myself if she did it then all things are possible. I dropped to my knees and prayed to God to relieve my father from his addiction, and a very few months later her started treatment and know he is 4 years clean. My point is I was lonley, because I was angry at everyone and that got me depressed,so my advice to you is to pray and forgive your parents for there flaws, and learn to deal with your issues in a postive way. Pick out all the good things in your life. I know people say all the time, thank God you got your health. I may sound cheezy, but until you are sick you will thank God everyday of good health, nice teeth, a home, food to eat, I hope this helps. If you every feel sucidial I would suggest you get online and talk to someone, and make friends. and thats the Truth Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mona	Make an appointment to talk to a psychiatrist, clearly you can see there is a problem and if you came here then obviously you are open for suggestions and are looking for help. Only a psychiatrist will be able to tell you what's the best treatment for you... It's normal for people to become depressed every once in a while but when you start thinking about suicide then it becomes a serious issue. The Dr. may give you some anti-depressants (which i have taken in the past and work wonderfully) or if he feels you should be checked in for while in a mental institution for further evaluation then go ahead and get the help. Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

expertu92	first of all listen to Terry Jacks - Seasons in the sun then decide Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xo	I've been there but do you relay think death is the way?? I've been in a mental hospital too. I know it's no fun. you need help talk to a D.R. talk to youer wife.Maybe some therapy. I relay don't think death is the way to go.things will get better for you but you do need help...... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chtfj21	Have you thought about doing some charity work in your spare time? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DJ Inphinity	Make new friends. When you and your wife have time, go out to a club or something. You can die of loneliness ya know, so the only thing to do is....well, don't be lonely. Friends aren't going to come to you. The world is your oyster. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jenj2569	you dont' need to kill yourself.... you need to find yourself!!! do some soul searching!!! what is something you have ALWAYS wanted to do.... well do it!!! and love every second of it.... go to a bar or comedy club one night.... just randomly talk to some people..... you will make friends! just find who you are Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Peppa J	The person who suggested you do something to help others had a point. I had some huge losses in my life, and I began to wonder if this world was the place for me. As soon as I started volunteering I felt so much better. So, while I understand how dark life can appear, I also know that there is light too, and it begins with helping others. There are a lot of volunteer centers online that are in great need of people to sign up. There is a lot to live for, but you have to put yourself out there and discover for yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

greylady	I know that you think things will never change but give it a chance and try to make it change yourself. When I was a teen ager, I had no friends too. I never talked to my parents and I kept myself isolated. I tried to commit suicide too but God brought me back and now I am married to a wonderful man and have two beautiful children and many dear friends. What did I do? I changed myself. I was kinder to others. I did things for other people and in return I received help. Killing yourself is not the answer and there is change just around the bend. You are a special person and you have alot to offer others and others have alot to offer you. Take it one day at a time and think of things you can do to bring yourself out of your depression. Best thoughts for you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥ Yaz ♥	If you feel that depressed and are thinking about killing yourself, maybe you should go to a doctor to see if there is any way they can help you whether by meds or by therapy or both. It is scary at first, but with some time, you can lead a very happy and productive life. I am terribly sorry to hear about your family, which is why I think therapy would be good. You have had trauma after trauma, and you owe it to yourself to be a healthy and strong minded person. Do it for yourself and do it for your wife. If she married you than she obviously loved you at some point. It is hard to love somebody if you don't love yourself though. Not all therapy sessions are scary, you should get a list a try different people out. I promise the results are worth the trouble!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Leroth	i think you should talk to your wife,about this Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

urDaddy	Damn, bro. Sounds like you have had a tough life. I feel ya. I'm not saying i've had it as hard as you though. Kill yourself? No. Man, you need to calm down. You have obviously been thru some ****...but you need to put the past behind you. YOU are the only person that can change your life. Its gotta be up to YOU. Set goals man..and work towards them. Keep focused on your goals and you need to stay away from peeps that try to bring you down or say that your goals are unobtainable. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gee_707	ummm,,, is it to late to answer? kidding, first of all don't take life to seriously.... life is a gift. 2nd, the past does not equal the future.... just caues you had bad times dosen't mean things won't get better... but YOU, have to turn it around.... YOU have to take action.... Stop moping around, and GO get a job, or GO to the library and learn a jobcarear.... GO to the gym and work out to keep your body in shape.... GO and find a woman who wants to be with you..... GO have fun with your life.... your goal should be to enjoy life everyday,,,, that's my goal.... Try it !! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BurmeseGoddess	awww. i'm so sorry for your loneliness. i know you feel hopeless, but there are people who care about you!! I think your situation with the people around you is making this worse because they don't have show any feelings that they may have for you. i think if you start something new, like go join a group that share similiar interest that you had, it might be a good environment for you. I really hope you feel better. i've been in the dumps before and i know how shitty that feels. So i really hope that you will come to see the light in the world, and realized that there are non-crazy people who actually cares about you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

p34nu7bu773rj3lly7im3	hey buddy sounds like u need 2 talk.... email me @ p34nu7bu773rj3lly7im3 @verizon.net thats also my MSN Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

redbone	Things in life won't always go the way you want them too, but don't take your life for it! Remember, weeping only endureth for a night because joy comes in the morning! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	Call the local Habitat for Humanity ,,,then take a hammer and help someone else. Nothing will make you feel better about yourself than helping someone else. Stop feeling sorry and get to work. And if HFH is not available, find someplace that DOES need you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

theartisttwin	I hear ya. I have one living relative left, my twin sister (other than far distant relatives I have not seen in a bazillion years). My twin and I do not get along. My fiance is at work and I cannot find a job to keep my mind occupied. I have lost a lot in life due to sad circumstances and stupid decisions and depression. I am still hanging in there though because I don't want to miss it if there is hope around the corner. Get some anti-depressents (just tell them you are extremely depressed but not suicidal) and then try to get out and get some work that will distract you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No