How do I get my dad mad again?

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Vincent T	break a window or do something like that or smash his car windows Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tulasi	say u do drugs, had sex with a bunch of girls, idk ..... stuff that parents dont usually like...... but in my opinion i wouldnt get ur dad mad.... thats pretty mean! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

asif ali	you can do things which he do not like to get him angry. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

madsmaha1	Maybe he's seen the errors of his way!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

your mom	Tell him your pregnant. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bobby d	maybe he is on some kind of anxiety medication that makes him calmer. I say enjoy the change. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2cents	i think you should be thankful that you're still alive and he has ceased from his screaming....maybe your suicide attempt gave him a rude awakening to his behavior and the effects it has on people.....why don't you just sit down and talked with him. tell him you've noticed to the change and tell him how it has made such a difference in your life, then maybe ask him how he gets out his anger now..... communication is generally the key to figuring anything out Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

anardun	he's trying not to be mad out of love for you. So if you actually make him mad, he'll feel that he's failed you and THAT might make him snap even worse. I'd say try the other approach. Get calmer yourself and let him see you are happier. that way he's more likely to relax instead thinking he has to be so careful. Cuz ironically he's being quiet so that YOU won't snap. The only way to help both of you is to help each other both calm down. The more stable you both are, the more you both will feel you can relax. All else fails, try getting some counseling together, since you both sound like you could use it. Maybe it would help you both figure out what works better than what you're both doing now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Moises T.	u know what happen he try to go your way an seeif it works so if he change was because he knew it was time to chage so. just live with it because if u try to get him the way he was umay make him more then he use to b because u dnt even know wat u want u got the attentio u want it an now that u have u dnt want it. come on kiilin ur self that wasjust dum u aint hurtin ur self by doin that u r hurtin every body else u die an is done an that peoplethat care for u dey life goes crazy like ur parents thats y that happen. so stop been so selfish an live ur dad alone man.u need god in ur life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hairybear44820	My best friend acted like that then he died 2-weeks later,,its like he knew it was coming and he was sad and trying to be nice, be carefull. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Inspire	Honestly both of you need to go to a psychiatrist, this is a unhealthy situation and can be very dangerous. maybe you just scared the crap out of him and his love for you is stronger then what ever grudges he was holding on to. But seriously, seek professional help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Super Girl	just focus time and attention on yourself and away from him as much as possible. of course he can be triggered and that wont be nice for either of you. you will be very regretful and sad about it. dnt go for something that u obviously dont want. i feel bad for your dad in this situation as well. just go bother with your own life that way you both should be peaceful and focused on better things. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mrs. Kitty♥	NO, he'll HAVE a heart attack if he keeps yelling. Let him be the peaceful man he's become. Beating anger with peace is soothing for the soul and heart:) He loves you and doesnt want you to go through tough times no more. Let Love in:) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥	Dalin' don't look a gift horse in the mouth. He probably has had epithomy from your attempted suicide about what he was doing could cause so much hurt in other people that he realized that what he was doing was childish and harmful to others. In other words he grew up enough to realize that yelling, screaming and shouting all the time was a self indulgent childish behavior and has just simply stopped doing it because he has had a defining moment in his life. i.e. nearly losing you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emily.♥	Have you ever thought that maybe he stopped being so crude because he knows you tried killing yourself because his anger was driving you mad? Maybe he's come to his senses and decided that that is not the way he wants to live anymore. You should try to research on anger problems (serious ones) and see if you can find out what is wrong with him. Maybe he has a disease and part of the disease consists of him being angry for a long period of time and then calming down and then starting up again. He could possibly have bi-polar disease. You never know. That's why you should do some research. Hope I helped a little. C: Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Devils Racer	hes afraid ur gonna do it again, so he changed Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

A Benway	yeah, i think its best if oyu dont poke the bear Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BrownTown	You're lucky that your dad cares that much. It seems like the light bulb went on in his head and he's made a change for the better. You should be happy that he's done that. It probably wasn't easy. Why don't you try talking to him? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

honey	maybe you opened his eyes to his cruel behavior and he saw the impact it had on you. yes, if something is traumatic enough (like your child trying to commit suicide because of you) then a person can change in a matter of minutes. enjoy the new dad and get comfortable with him. it sound like both of you need to heal. healing will come in time. if you are not paranoid of him, he may actually drop his guard and start talking to you more openly. you need to do the same. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rod85	Instead of talking to us, talk to him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jimd52936	think about what your saying.if you tried to kill yourself don,t you think your dad loves you so much he made the change,.try talking to him and let him know Howe you feel and your worried about him, the key to any relationship is communication and respect,goo luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

U.S. Revenge R	As a dad of an 18 year old I can tell you that if he tried to commit suicide I would do the same. He no doubt feels that he is the reason you have those types of thoughts. I know I would blame myself for my sons actions. He may feel he has failed you. I suggest you not trying that ever again and also try to talk to him about this. You should ask him straight up the same way you posted here! It can never be that bad to take your own life! Next time things are bad take a walk and think. Tomorrow will be better. That's a promise from Jesus! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sophia1	but why would you want him to get mad ? he might not get angry anymore cause you tried to kill yourself & he doesn't want to lose you because he loves you... it's probally normal & he just wanted to be a new guy Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lbtrusting	MAYBE AFTER ALMOST LOSING YOU HE CHANGED HIS WAYS BECAUSE HE LOVES YOU AND DOESN'T WANT TO LOSE YOU. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

liziprez15	first of all i want to say that its very sweet and considerate of you to think of your father so much and care about him. I believe that the reason he stopped all of this is because he loves you too! and he scared to lose you, just as your scared to lose him. You might want to tell him about how you feel and find a way for both of you to take your anger and frustration out. Maybe you guys can take a boxing class once a week? or work out? As long as there isnt any verbal abuse going on. I commend you on bettering yourself. Take care,take it eay and good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cdabexx	Hes being careful cuz he cares about you--accept it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mia H	why fight fire with fire??? what the hell!!! if he's happy then ride that for as long as it will take you!!! life is only so long why waste it trying to tick loved ones off??? maybe he has had a change of heart Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kathryn R	I know this might sound strange to you but he might be getting help that you don't know about. He might not want you to worry about him so that he does not tell you. Try having a talk with him and let him know that you appreciate the fact that he no longer yells but that you're worried about him having a reaction to his not releasing his anger in some manner. It might get the two of you talking and it might help you and him to understand where he's coming from for you and for him to understand where you're coming from. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

AC	Maybe..........it's because he doesn't want you to attempt suicide again? He might yell, but he doesn't want you dead. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

im_aCrazyCat	Oooooh interesting to say the least! You trying to commit suicide must've put guilt in him thats all i can say this minute, i hope he stays that way cause angers a bad thing x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tuggamamma	You scared the **** out of him and now he is wondering if all that yelling is the cause of your troubles. He is trying to be a better person. Talk to him about it let him know how you feel. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No