How do I deal with being ugly?

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Suzie!!!!	You should watch Joel Osteen. I'm not religious AT ALL, but I absolutely love this guy, you can watch his seminars for free on you tube. Watch this and I hope you feel better. He always uplifts me, its so true it makes me cry sometimes... http://nz.youtube.com/watch?v=4ZyCamZCLyQ Not just "ugly" people feel bad, I feel ugly on the inside at times too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Alix	Ya i'd like to judge on a picture to, big people can be beautiful too, idk how you should deal with it because i don't like the way i look either. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Phoenix	I don't think you are ugly. someone who can make people laugh couldn't be ugly. anyway, here is how you can lose some weight easily. organic unrefined coconut oil and apple cider vinegar. take a little of the latter before each meal and a spoon full of the oil in the morning and one late evening. and maybe you can do something about that bang and why not change the colour of your hair, or maybe just highlights. yes that's it, highlights. you will feel much more confident. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rache♥	Hunnie, It's not what you are in the outside, it's what you are in the inside, Look at you, you're a nice person, you make people laugh. That's what makes you beauitful! You know guys in highschool are complete jerks, when you get older there will be a guy out there just for you, He will love you in every single way, besides thoes type of realtionships don't last, with the guys going for looks, they have nothing in common, and they don't even know what a real realtionship is, guys are very inmature. When they grow up ( hopefully) they will laugh it off and say, " Yeah,I remember my highschool years where I would only go for chicks that look good, but right now I am happy the way I am, the person I'm with you're beauitful inside out. love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. Angelina Jolie ... And if there is something you don't like about yourself, change it. like you said you wanted to lose weight do it. Make yourself happy in anyway. Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sand08	I Would Say Pay No Attention To The Boys And Other Girls Who Pick On You.... I Was Like That Once But Now I Kind Of Believe In Myself Because The Nicestest Boy In My Class told Me The Other Day That I Wasnt Fat And That I Was Fit And Was Really Nice Everyone Here Is Belevieing In You, You Sound Really Nice! Just Stop Hurting Yourself... I Find Hurting Yourself Upsets You More! (Good Luck ! =D) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Anna K	Wow. At least you have a face. Say thank God before something happens... Look at this poor girl: http://www.breakthechain.org/exclusives/_images/jacquiafter.jpg Jacqueline Saburido. Look her up. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Erin	I think that a lot of that will go away with time. You hear a lot of stories of how celebs got picked on in High School and now they're beautiful, or they were the "ugly duckling" and now they're HOT. It may be hard... but keep your head up and realize true beauty is how you act, how you treat others, and your personality- I think a lot of that comes with maturity and age. Good Luck!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chee X	You just gotta love yourself for who you are. When you start loving yourself is when people start seeing you as beautiful. If you can't love yourself like that then you must work to love yourself somehow. Don't do it the wrong way or anything! :] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ally	You might think you are ugly but some may not. If you keep looking down on yourself you will get even worse. I am sure if you get off the computer and find some new friends you will be fine. You seem like a great person on the inside and to your surprise not all guys want the good looks. They are looking for love and I am sure if you put you're head up you'll find it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pass Me Not Lord	I hate to break it to people this way...but look at Tyra Banks she was ugly as a kid...now she is most guys fantasy and some girl lol. In other words maybe you have not found your style..I use to feel I was ugly...I changed my hair style from pig tales to wearing it down..my shoes from tennys to sandal and hills, and stop wearing pants and start were skits. And guys went crazy they girls wanted to kick my a.s.s even my best friend got mad at me :-) but o'well she got over it and I found a look that suits me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emjayblaze	i don't know if this helps but right now (five years after high school) i look back at the "pretty" girls, and they're not that pretty. Some of the "ugly" girls are the most gorgeous people I know. No joke. It's like a butterfly coming out of it's coccoon. Don't worry, and for god's sake stop hurting yourself, that will only make you look worse in the boy's eyes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Something or Other	Physical ugliness can be changed, trust me Emotional ugliness is irreversible. Boys in HS won't care, I am not going to give any half truths. The man that boys become will care, they will want a good person on the inside regardless of appearance. Nothing is stopping you from losing weight, I have a female friend, and she was the fat girl in HS, and no guy would give her the time of day, she now is basically the same height as you and 130ish and men drool over her. Its not only because she is slimmer, its because she is confident, remember being beautiful is a waste if your not confident. So don't despair, if life was a game of chess, you have your queen when your opponents don't. Don't forget beauty is whats inside, intelligence, humor, fun. That is what will make the bitter that much sweeter in time.... Don't deal with being ugly, deal with the potential of being beautiful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

britenbeauti4	are you even sure that you're ugly? i spent many years thinking i was because thats what other people told me. if you base who you are on what other people think of you, you'll never be happy with yourself. life is too short to spend it trying to please other people. dont worry theres someone out there for you and everyone else. and it doesnt matter if you look like beyonce or angelina jolie, what matters is whats on the inside. i know you hear that a lot, but it really is true! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sgisg	don't worry i'm ugly as well ...i just don't leave the house and think about suicide alot even though i daren't do it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ali	The people who matter most, your true friends, won't care if you're ugly or beautiful. They love you for YOU, not if you are a size 1. I know it's hard, but stop caring so much what people think about you. Don't stop caring for yourself, but don't care so much whether they think you're hott or not. Harming yourself is NOT the way to go. If you really want to change yourself, harming your body is not helping. =) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

psp girl	You are not ugly ! Thats just how you think.Here's a trick everyday write 10 goood things about yourself like how pretty your hair is and look in the mirror and pretend youre model. trust me you are prettier than you think . Dont let people think youre ugly . They are taking thier insecurites on you . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Crazyx♥xMuffinx♥(:	Be LOUD! Join CLUBS! Eat HEALTHY! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PriencessE	don'tt let the boys get you down cause you arebeautiful in gods site don'tt rush things you will finds the right person soon but don;t rush it just be yourself Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tammy27	You have to love yourself in this skin! 1) Eat healthy and exercise 2) Use Jergens tanning lotion (like Beyonce') 3) Ask your parents to get your hair and nails professionally done 4) Wear lipgloss and carry concealer 5) Surround yourself with happy, confident people Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Adobe	I know this doesn't help right now, but don't judge yourself based on what other people thought/think about you while you're in high school. If you ask anyone over 25 years old, they'll probably say that they hated being a teenager. We're pretty much all ugly ducklings at that point in life. Now if you're 45 and you're ugly...you're probably screwed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

iamloco724	start working out..try to bring out ur best features..not to much makeup but enough to make a difference Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Claire	I thougth i was ugly to untill my good friend Alyssa said "Alaina your beautiful" and from then on i saw my self as pretty and my self essteem grew tremendesly! good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emily	sounds like the weight is your only problem. i hate how that kills peoples self confidence...like mine. anyways...it sounds like you are dealing with it by getting a treadmill. you should be fine after you're happy with yourself :) good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

teekay1972	Please stop hurting yourself. talk to a parent, teacher or other adult you trust and get help. You are beautiful. Can you get involve din a club or group outside of school - go there be yourself and gain some self confidence then you will see you are not ugly. But great idea on the treadmill - exercise is very empowering and you will feel great. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hanglooselove	you dont sound ugly at ALL. please be confident, and stop hurting yourself :[ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brigitte P	yeah boys can be jerks when it comes to looks don't let those people bring you down! Try to bring out your best features plus try to be more out going and make friends with girls AND boys, maybe you'll get a boy friend from there. try to be more positive about things I'm sure your not as ugly as you tell yourself be positive,happy,healthy, things will fall into place eventually Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sillygirl	If your still in high school you have to realize that you are still young and have alot more maturing to do! You will need professional help of your hurting yourself. Concentrate on your good qualities and remember that you have your whole life ahead of you! Do I have to tell you the "Ugly Duckling" story?! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

knox60751	your personality is beautiful, I am sure you are beautiful.... you don't have to be the most pretty or the slimmest, a nice personaltiy and confidence are beautiful and if the boys can't see that then they're not worht it. I am sure you are very beautiful and this sounds like a cry for help, please please please try to stop self harming it will make you very ill indeed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MikeP.	wow, i'm 14 years old and i can honestly say i would much rather hang around somebody that makes me laugh than some hot girl that i have no fun being around. Yeah, just get some pounds off and the guys at ur school will be going after you, as long as you keep up that personality. OH! and don't hurt yourself, that's a terrible thing, DON'T DO IT!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

▌║││█║▌│║▌║ ™	if you want others to think of you as pretty, you have to start with yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hopefully Helpful	Do not allow others to bring you down. Just because they may say something that hurts you doesn't mean it's true. Try to work on your shyness. Start making easy conversations with people. If you are sure you know the answer to something in class, raise your hand. There would be no reason for people to laugh if you give the correct answer. Try to manage your self hate in some other way. If you self harm, you will be stuck with scars that will only make you hate yourself even more. Please don't hurt yourself. Your body does not deserve this. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No