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get a woman and a man to see which is better but only ur body knows what ot wants
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iyamacog
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You can do anything you truly WANT to do........by putting your mind to it, and DO IT! If you're unable to, then you truly dont want to quit, bad enough.
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Someone's Baby
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Pray and seek medical professional help if you have to.
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SiGendut
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Gwahahahahahahahahaha.....
How can I end my porn addiction?
i believe most of us here have the same problem with you (if it meant a normal straight porn)
but the real problem is that you become a gay because too much watching porn ? how could it be ? we are watching porn here, but not become gay, maybe it's not because too much porn, but because you are a gay from the beginning, well... to become or not to become a gay is you yourself who decide, :D no thing's wrong to become a gay though,
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Andrew V
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Find a hobby outside the house, go to parties with friends, go to the gym or you can try going to a psychologist that is willing to help your situation.
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black_noodlez
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try gaming...
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victor s
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get a girlfriend and delete ALL your porno, if that doesn't work seek proffesional help. try to find a costructive hobby that keeps your mind off of porn and keeps you busy.
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Dewdrop S
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GET RID OF YOUR COMPUTER AND GET A LIFE!!!
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Mario
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I think you just like to get a lot of attention. You are not addicted to anything. An addicted person will not say that his addiction destroying his life like you said.
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Wayne B
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Hrm... tough one...
I recommend removing the ability to get porn on your computer...
Step 1: Delete all the porn you have on your computer (make sure to empty the recycle bin right away if you forget to use the Shift+Delete function)
Step 2: Most ISPs have parental software they can use. Call them up and ask about parental controls on the internet and see if you can't have them set something up for you. If they give you a password, shred it.
This is gonna be rough... I imagine like quitting smoking cold turkey or going on a crash diet. Good Luck
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Secrecy leads to isolation. Isolation leads to a sick character. A sick character leads to poor relationships. Become accountable to a trusting friend, one who you DECIDE to be totally honest with. Take control over the porn. Your idolizing it. What is in our thoughts and our hearts will eventually lead to behavior. Watch what you look at, it becomes an image of potential behavior.
Right now, a relationship should be the least of your concerns. Focusing on yourself and how to get yourself emotionally healthy is more important.
I respect you for realizing you have a problem and wanting to change. That is a step in the right direction. The "action" part and the "plan" is hard to adhere to. I hope you will find the strength and courage to begin a journey of healling from this addiction. You are in my prayers!
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Ashley W
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you can get professional help
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Kimbree♥
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If that's what you enjoy looking at you shouldn't stop it. If you feel you are bisexual be happy and strong knowing that's what you are, and they true mate would except you however you are. If you want to destroy your addiction give away your computer/collection.
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te144
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Destroying your genitals would be excess. Just carry a timer that defines your porn period, and THEN back to a good non-sexual book. In this case, BREAK A LEG means something else.
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phloyd87
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give up control of your computer, first off. to anyone you trust. then ... i dunno how to get back into women ... find a female partner i guess, and have sex. i dunno how to help you there.
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montega610
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I feel your pain I also was viewing porn at a very young age like 13 or 14 even tho I seen a bunch of porn but I never enjoyed watching a man on man porn.....and around that age I started to question myself like dam when I like watching porn I only like watching the ones wit the guys that are real hung, and I was like damn does this make me gay........but then I would hang around my friends an I would never get aroused or anything an never felt attractted to any of em but I would see girls with there tight pants tight shirts an my worm would turn into a street pole .......but I sooner came to realize that I juss like watching that porn cuz it gives me more of a feel or vibe of what's going on .......so as far as you saying that it has ruined your life im not too sure about that cuz if you turned bisexeual maybe that's what your body is interested in an you just have to live with it......but I don't see how just porn alone can desroy your life.......maybe you have to much time on your hands...but hey I love watching porn.......its like cartoons to me when I was younger.....and my lifes great.....my advice to you would be juss to see if your attracted to men by going out to perhaps a gay club or bar......an see if you feel comfortable an if so........well there you have but keep your head up with the porn.....its not that bad for juss watching people have sex.......
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coley200722
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Breathe it is ok you are the one who controls what you do. Throw out the computer disable it at night find a new hobby
that you are passionate about when you lay in bed at night and you think about sex what gender do you really want the most what turns you on it seems you are very visual that should make it that much easier. What ever way you go the addiction is probably a turn off to both don't let sex take over your life it is great but so are many other things in life.
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Mark J
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There are groups that deal with all kinds of addiction. So join one. You will find out that your not alone.
Watching porn turned you bisexual. Honestly...I don't think so. Maybe by watching explicit porn over time helped you come to terms with your sexuality and subconsciously you really wanted to try sex with men. And it just developed. You just cant go back to women. The desire for same sex relations may diminish but will never go away. Just try dating women more and maybe you will find one true love and enjoy it. Really there is nothing wrong with being attracted to both sexes. Just go with what feels good to you.
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lupelu
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Ask God for help and work harder. you need to keep your mind busy. Go back to school. Reed a good book. You can answer a lot of this questions every night. we need each other. that is way I am here. I need this group of people to ask questions and give some answers.
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I wish I had love.
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I had a porn addiction too.It got kind of weird. I just went after all different kinds of women though, and differant situations.I ate shrooms one night and was lonely and horny and I had just watched the sun go down and was having a beautiful experience until I all of the sudden realised that I was alone with no real connection with a woman I loved ,and I was about to watch other people having empty orgasms for money. Without love or connection, or anything.It made me so sad that I drove to the local porn shop and gave back all my porn and gave a speech while I was trippin balls.About being turned on by gay porn. If it repulses you than dont watch it or ever think about it. If you think about it, immedaitely stop yourself.I never got turned on by gay porn, so I don't really know, but being gay is not right as you have figured out. Its sick.Your web handle is fatboy or fatguy or something, so heres the scoop. You will never get the kind of women in porn if your fat. You can work out for three years and get ripped, and than you probably can, but for now you have to lower your standards.I have crippling insecurity so I have yet to find a woman, but at least I am not a slave to porno.Also I thought I was bi fro a while becuase of ythings in my past (molestation) I went to a gay community place and this dude started talking about giving and receiving blowjobs and I was immediately disgusted and turned off.If thgat really turns you on man I donyt nkow what to say except dont ever let the thoughts get to you.
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fiji2litre
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Claim that you are totally insane and get committed to an asylum. After that the help is free.
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answerboy
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Find a nympho at the local porn aholics annonymous and marry her! Get help or you'll ne the next sicko on the news!
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sailormars40
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You should have a blocker on your settings. Block out inappropriate stuff. If you're a programmer you'll know what I'm tryin to say.
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drshorty
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Get professional help. There are psychiatric and counseling services that will help low-income individuals and families. This is your mental health that you are dealing with. I think it's wonderful that you realize you are addicted and you want to change things. I wish you all the best.
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Star
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You may benefit from professional help. Good luck.
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dangerouspudding
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talk to someone ... professional. you obviously have an unhealthy addition
you might need medication
good luck
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Marty B
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get rid of the computer
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13 12 3 4 1< 1 /V 6 D4VV/V
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watch lesbian porn? or just STOP watching it all together!
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GlassHalfFull
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Start with this website
http://www.no-porn.com/
Then, see a counselor. Nothing can make you bisexual. You need to deal with this problem and figure out what is causing you to do these things.
Good luck!
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Ragnar
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find a partner
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MyOhMy
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I dont know how to help you, as i'm not a professional, but what i can tell you is about my story.
At the age of 13, i was curious, and discovered porno. And from 13-15 i was VERY addicted, especially 13 years old. Not only have i polluted my mind, but i almost met a few guys out for sex, but backout in the end. To others maybe it isnt much of a big deal, but losing your virginity as a girl in my religion/country/culture is considered not very good... Also, i watched lesbian porn and got addicted to it. As a result of all this porn, i liked a female teacher and another female, around the same age.
You are NOT bisexual. if it makes you feel so guilty, and you personally know it is wrong, then quit it. :-) Bisexuality is something to do with the mind, in my opinion. What made you bisexual?? By watching too much porn; By fantasizing to have sex with people of the same sex. You can choose not to be bisexual. This is THE method to go back to women.
Now i'm 16. Well.. you can say that i'm 15 cos my birthday this year isnt here yet. But anyway, i havent fully quitted my porno addiction. In fact, sth to confess, i watched porno today.. And after that i felt very guilty about it. But after that i made a decision: Not to sin anymore. TO STAND UP ON MY FEET, AND QUIT it. As we feed in negative things into my mind, things would only get from bad to worse...
So i guess what you can do is to make someone accountable for you. It's good to know your problem, that the porno addiction makes your life destroyed, even more. You could install a porno filter.. This would decrease the number of porno websites you can go into, as it is not 100% foolproof. You could make someone accountable for you(That's what i did. I told my mum, seriously. But it took alot of courage to do that.). You could even paste post-its on your computer monitor, like saying, "Porno destroys your life. I love myself, and i would live life to the fullest." etc. Take time...
Also, i know many people will agree with me to say that masturbation is right/wrong, but i found out that it is best not to masturbate so frequently... The more you masturbate, the more your body would crave for sexual pleasure. And at the end of the day, you will find yourself not being able to control yourself. Hence, try cutting down masturbation. Also, keep yourself occupied. I'm saying this to myself too :-) All the best. May God keep you safe.
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