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Hulagirl96734	No suicide is never an option you were put here for a reason and I know this won't mean anything to you But i care about you Because i see how you are feeling, But you know we have to love our selves first and formost. You are a just as good as anyone else and don't deserve Death.Death is final and cannot be changed on the other hand you can be .love your self So your girlfriend decided not to come thats Ok thats her choice Go out and enjoy your self Try to get involved in somthing you really like doing never get down on your self you are doing the best you can be proud of your self, You have made it this far keep pushing along the clouds will pass and the sun will shine and the rainbow will be seen Look ahead and never behind. Remember how you felt when other relitives took thier lives, you were probally hurt and confused, You can't go out that way you are to good for that. I have just said a Prayer for you that god give you the strength and walk with you in your time of darkness (Hugs My friend)_ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Azman M	in summary , not you to kill your ownself , instead , just lets others for to do it's for you , and , must be without your own knowing of it by directly. For , that's , you are NOT TO BE A SOUL GUILTY TO YOUR OWNSELF , because , there is other reason(s) beside you for the course(s) of you for to be death. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

charity k	Sweetheart There is most definately a God and he loves you very much but suicide is not the answer. It will only make things worse when you get to the other side. It is not your life to take. God put you here for a reason. You need to learn why. You need to learn and become stronger from your sufferings. I have 3 friends who have had sexual abuse as children and they are very strong happy people because they refused to let it control their lives and their future happiness. Stop letting it control your happy gauge and turn to the scriptures and learn more about God and let your guardian angels guide you and help you. You are choosing to continue this fateful pattern of thot. Overcome it sweetheart. You have an important mission here on earth. Let God in and he will lead you along your path to true happiness. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tony	You know, I used to think that way too. But one day my ex starting telling me how so many people in the world live much harder lives and they strive through it because there's always good out there. Part of life is learning how to live it, and in perspective it's petty to kill yourself when there's millions of people in the world who have it harder than you but have the power to truck through it in hope for a better tomorrow. Life always has rough patches, you never know when they'll come and go. A true test of your will is your power to get through the hard times, it makes you a better person and you appreciate your life more in the end. From someone who was like you in the past, there is good in the future, but just like everything else in life you need to work to get it. Keep truckin on, I hope you strive for the good times ahead. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kenneth	Pleaser remember, regardless of what religious nonsense you hear, suicide is a very selfish act. It leaves your loved ones with a fate worse than death. Your parents will probally take the blame for this and might cause suicide of their own. Usually after a child commits suicide the couple splits, even if their marriage was good before. Both the father and the mother will feel like a total failure. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

medtechgal2003	Please do not kill yourself. There is no easy way out!!!Suicide is not the answer. I have seen first hand the devastation caused by suicide. I am so sorry that all of those horrible things happened to you, but that shame is on the heads of those response, not you my dear. Please get some help. Talk to someone. The help is out there. Its not easy, and its not something that's going to have an quick outcome, especially with all of the trauma you have gone through in your past. But please give it a chance. You are not doomed to repeat the past of your family members if you do not want to repeat it. I hope all of the responses you have received on this site will show you that there are people out there who care and want to see get better. Take care and I hope that you do find someone that can give you the help that you need and deserve. God bless. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I love hugs.	Don't kill yourself. Just keep trying. Life is hard I know, it's extremely hard but you've been so brave so far and you can't just give up. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ashley	I beg you to reconsider. I have never experienced the pain you are feeling but there is soo much more to life than just the bad, you have to remember to see the good parts of life because there is sooo much worth living for...and you just have to look in yourself and find what that is... My sister first tried to commit suicide when I was 10 years old and remained suicidal for 6 years. I've lost rack of the number of times I've pulled pill bottles out of her hands or watched ambulances pull away never knowing if I'd get say I love you to her again. About a month after her last suicide attempt she found out she was pregnant, she realized she had soo much to live for. There isn't a day that goes by I don't look at my now 3 year old nephew and thank God that he is here becuase if it wasn't for him I don't know if I'd have my sister. And as much as she drives me crazy I couldn't Imagine life without her...I know there is someone who couldn't imagine life without you...God Bless 800.784.2433 800.273.8255 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

disdg	Hello, There is nothing worth committing suicide over. I have many problems myself due to my disability and believe me life is worth living. I always say this life is a test to see how we handle curtain situations and if you ask me suicide is losing. GOD never gives you more than you can handle. Before you consider this, just remember that there is always someone worse off than you and that life is something not to be taken for granted. I understand that your grandfather and aunt committed suicide and I must say that I really feel for you. If you need a friend I am here for you and will never let you down. I do agree that you do need help because this is a serious problem. Do you have major depression? It sounds as if you have feelings of rejection, despair, loneliness and maybe some fear. Christmas time and the dreary weather can cause these feelings in some people. I know the people in your life care, I don't know you and I care. I had a good friend try to do this but I had a long talk with him and now he turns to me for inspiration because I never look down no matter what problem is thrown in my direction. Please don't do this, if you want to talk I'm here. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

big_rash_dog	don't be sad. i'll spend christmas eve with you :-* Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lovepeaceopinion	first off if u have this station u so need to turn to it. turn to TBN(trinity broadcasting network) and come on nothing is that bad and if you nothing to do with ur christmas eve go help out at homeless shelter do something good you'll feel better you'll have fun talking to a lot of people and helping them. okay and no offense but u may not like what i ahve to say but yeah church really does help and no not all of them are the same. some are fake im not gonna lie,but a lot aren't if you find the right one they can counsel you and take away a lot of those feelings. becuase i dont really what to say to but that i'll pray for u and hope you get great peace tonight and pray that those feelings will go away Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cyn B	Call a mental health hotline! I hope one exists wherever you are in the world - but there is one almost in every US city. It could be that you have been seeing someone who just isn't that helpful for you. On the other hand, look at what you wrote. Everything is about you. "No one is here for me." "My friend didn't come see me." (Why didn't you go see your friend?) You need to stop focusing on you and your unhappiness and start thinking about how you can make someone else happy. Trust me, even in your town, there is someone more unfortunate than you in one way or another. Volunteer at a homeless shelter, soup kitchen, or orphanage. Sew quilts for people who have none. Visit grannies in nursing homes. Care for the terminally ill. But suicide is not a way out, anyway. You will have to deal with whatever you problems you have here in the next world - and you have to stay and deal. Turn to God. Pray with all your heart and ask for assistance. Seek clergy for advice and comfort - and tips on being a volunteer. My own prayers are with you so you find the path to peace. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tracyla	Don't have such a thought, anything will be better. U shall not give up hope of life. Learn to love the world, killing yourself can not solve the problems. Try to talk with others and get help. Do not be so stressed. See if these articles can help you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

thetagal13	Please do not do it! There is much in life to enjoy. your GF is not the centre of your life. And suicide is never a family trait. You are only telling yourself this is so because you want to escape the true fact. The true fact that you are too cowardice to face everybody else. Look at the number of people who replied to your question today. None of us may know you but everybody here understand how important a life is. Do not end you life. Always look at the world with a happy smile. There are many people who wish to pass the day with a smile and they cannot. Alas. You are given the gift to do so. Please cherish this gift. This gift to smile. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Caroline	suicidal thoughts are such a pain. Once the thoughts are in your psyche they are hard to get rid of. It is especially difficult when a loved one has killed themself (seems to validate it as a possible option). I often wonder whether the suicidal thoughts are the brain misinterpretting the desire to have a better life to one of ending it. What do you think? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♫Hania♫	I attemted when i was 14 and being sexually abused.. and i found a loophole out, so i know you can do the same. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mia	I personally have thought of suicide, like it was a daily routine. Like you I've overdosed and most days I'm glad I didn't succeed. First off, at least your aware of your problem and know your situation. I recently lost my best friend to suicide. I didn't know she would've done that. And it made me realise how much people care about you. You may not realise it, but honestly. People do care. When you constantly think negative, its harder for positive thoughts to come through. As its harder to think of "happy" times. Because you take in account of the negative. And she was only 16. Her life hadn't even started. "but im worried about people around me." You obviously care about some people? They must care about you too. Maybe socialise with them on Xmas. Call them. Depression can run through family. Its been proven. However, you can do things to prevent you doing something permanent. - Write in a diary. - Listen to your favourite music. - Go for daily walks, jogs, run. Try Yoga or Martial Arts. - Draw. - Get a stress ball. - Try to socialise with people. - Do you have a pet animal. If so, they're great stress relievers. Send a text or ring your Gf and simply say that you love her (if you do :) ) and wish her a happy Xmas and hope to catch up soon. Wishing you all the best. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Scott H	If you are christian perhaps you know that God loves you no matter what your sexual orientation. you should think about who would be left behind, because if you think it's hereditary you are continuing the trend. Search chat groups for sexual abuse and depression. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kevin .	Hello Samantha, I beg of you to please reconsider. I am 43 and I am a war Veteran. I have seen a lot and done a lot. Been through bad divorces, illnesses, bad dreams, etc,etc. I was tired of it all so I thought I would try to stop it all. I attempted overdose 3 times. Almost worked the 3rd time. I was in a coma for 10 days. When I came out of a coma, I saw my family standing next to me, I saw how wore down my parents looked and my Mom was crying. Morale to the story, people care about you and love you. When I was overseas, Christmas time was the worse. It will come and go. I am the same way you are, I worry about people around me. I finally realized how many people love me and how many people I hurt. Do something to keep busy and keep your mind busy on something else. I am sorry you are alone and in a strange place although you wont be there forever. I hate to say this but if you have had these thoughts for a long time, seek help from a Psychiatrist and get on some meds. It took me a few times to get the right one but I did and it helps. I know times are hard due to the Holidays, especially due to being alone. You will make it through and just keep in mind, you have people that love you and WOULD MISS you terribly. Please live to see tomorrow, it will be better. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xroxme1	its nice alot of people come here for help on suicide because i did too and i got help and talked to someone on here and maybe you just need someone to talk to you can IM me on here ive been depressed for almost 4 years and it sucks but somehow since your writing on here youve decided you need help and just a ear and ill be your ear Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

★☠♥Tab!♥☠★	clam down, plzzz, u have a life, u know people do this and say it all the time, but dnt do it, never do it, u know stress is a stupied thing, its u who has ur own furture, dnt wast it, cuz u know suicde is just a scary, hard, dark, dark, thing, dnt go to that path, plzz HOPE I HELPED!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Green Bean	heh.. i've O.D.ed before it didn't work but i learned, even if it doesnt seem like it, someone cares about you that's what's kept me alive... it doesnt seem like you have much of a reason to kill yourself anyways.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♠Mrs Reznor♠	http://depression.about.com/cs/suicidecrisis/a/whomtocall.htm Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kindandcaring	Pls dont do this this is not an easy way out and it will hurt alot of ppl...what if you dont suceed and you end up with out the movement of yourbody and you still have you mind with you??? not a good sitution at all. I have been there oding and all that but life is worth living for....its a very hard time of the year for a lot of ppl even me..i cant see my children at this time the first time for xmas and their bdays as their father has taken off with them...thats really hard for me to cope with...if you need help during this time i am happy for you to contact me via nickname and i will do my best to help you through this..but killing yourself is not the answer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ti-83 plus!	this is a very serious problem, you should really consult a physican, or call a free crisis hotline: http://www.boystown.org/hotline/index.asp 1.800.488.3000 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Daniel H	please do not kill yourself. theres so much for you to live for. think about it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

long lashes	i tried to kill myself a few days before xmas when i was a young teenager and i had no where to go. they pumped my stomack and christmas passed like a TV playing in the background. ( l barelt noticed) theres been plenty of hard holidays since then, but o've lived a lot of years. and i;m glad i put up with lonelyness in exchange for living the other parts of my life that make me feel great to feel alive, stick it out. it feels bad but thats all it is, bad feelings, you have so many years to live, don;t rob yourself if that. let it hurt. it's ok, agony isn'ty a reason to stop living, you will be amazed what you can survive if you just let it burn, xxxxxxxxmerry christmas Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cladio	suicide is not the answer. we've all felt that way in some point in our life. talk to someone and get help. good luck god bless you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

drewdude320i	Suicide is never a family trait - and you should see to it that no one ever sees it that way by not doing it yourself. Your girlfriend didn't come visit? Mine died in a car accident in Europe. Bad things happen to even the best of people. Hell, Jesus himself was crucified - doesn't get much worse than that. You'll pull through. Just sit back, relax, and don't get so down on the little things. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sacha R	Have you considered trying EMDR therapy, used for post traumatic stress disorder? See sections 33 - 34, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris and also section 20, on sexual abuse: minors. An amended post on suicidal thoughts follows: I went through a similar thing to you; it's important to realise that you are probably deeply depressed at present, but even so, you may still remember times when life was good. Well, it can be again, and soon: but you need treatment, which is readily available; all you have to do is reach out for it. See suicidal thoughts, and depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris in sections 5, and 2. Too many people are found, and revived, but have suffered permanent mental damage, and live the rest of their lives in a semi vegetative state: their family, and friends feel guilty, and responsible, for not noticing the signs, and doing something about it. It's a very nasty thing for them to have to go through, too, even though I appreciate that life is certainly no bed of roses for you, at present, so please, get help, right now: seek assistance, or use the hotlines provided. Why not call the local Sappho society, or lesbian organisations, to see what functions they have going, and attend for the company, and to meet new people? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No