jeano
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Break up with him, Leave him alone, they always promise the moon. He is a control freak and your life will be miserable.Look ahead at what your life will be life and be honest with yourself. I would try to go away somewhere at all possible for awhile, after breaking up with him and I also would do that in front of parents or someone that would be able to help you. It doesn't get any better it only gets worse. He is spoiled rotten and it doesn't matter how cute , sexy or hot he is, a few more times and he will look like a monster to you.
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Kiara
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You need to get yourseld out of that bad situation. It will only get worse and it sound like he is controlling. The longer you stay the worse it will get.
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honynoli
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GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP before it's too late and you're dead. Pay attention to signs, it doesn't matter if he's drunk when he pushes you, he wasn't drunk in the restaurant. It starts off wtih small incidents and then it escalates to him telling what to wear and who you can talk to and hang out with. LOVE yourself first, no man has a right to hit, push or call you out your name. Just like you met him and you think he's cute and sexy there is another out there that will treat you like a queen. I know it may not be easy but you need to tell your family or friends about this. If you stay it could get worse. Remember you deserve better than this if you don't think highly of yourself no one else will. I really hope all is well with you and I'll keep you in my prayers.
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joiedotbustertoo
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I wish I could tell you that this is normal for people who love each other but it SO is NOT. How do you picture your life with this man who can only have things HIS way? What if you have children? Sweet, hot, sexy can go a long way ( about 6 weeks) before mr wonderful wants to take his frustrations out on you. RUN, as fast as you can away from this abusive, self-involved ***. There are too many nice guys to waste another minute on mr egotistical and his abuse.
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Patti C
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Honey, get out while you can. Do it safely. If you are living together, get your things out first and have a place to go. Then tell him. Do not be alone with him when you tell him. If you don't want anyone in the house with you, have someone waiting for you in a car.
If he is so hot and sexy, then you must be very attractive too. You can do better than him.
Do you really want to go through the rest of your life worrying about what is going to set him off. You deserve better than to be called names. And there is no excuse for violence.
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mz.thang
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you need to leave this idoit he is a bully and if he hits you once he will hit you again you better go while the getting is goood . i dont care how sexy this idiot is . it's only gets worse . wouldve couldve shouldve tell that to all the women that have lost there life to a lover husband boyfriend just because that man had a bad day drank to much are because the women said something he didnt lke he needs to go to jail is what needs to happen see how big he is in there
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marydaze19
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it looks like almost no one told you to stay with this guy, so i hope you dont rationalize your situation in your own head to make yourself feel comfortable enough to continue the relationship. i hopw you take this overwhelmingly one sided advice to your heart. i think that after time goes by you will be amazed at your new found level of confidence and self respect. leave him. even if you feel each situation can be explained or excused, the bottom line is that you shouldnt have to WORRY about stuff like that, even if you feel that he isnt "wrong" per se, bc of the alcohol, or whatever the case may be. and the fact remains that there is someone out there that WONT do this crap and your mind will be clear and free of worry or hurt. trust me.
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someoneoutthere
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Is your self esteem really that low!
DON'T EVER EXCEPT THE LOVE YOU THINK YOU DESERVE
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jbrowning001
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Get rid of him before this goes any further. Seriously, this never gets any better, only worse. The only reason you're still with him is physical attraction, but you need to seperate yourself. If you are afraid, change your locks and tell him over the phone it's over because he is too violent. And he will promise it won't happen again but believe me it WILL. Get out get out get out.
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sabor69
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He does not respect you. You deserve to be happy without being abused. Tell him to go to hell.
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Ace
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look go 100 miles away from him and call him and say its over but dont tell him were u r
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adrian
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Yes, you are in an abusive relationship.
You are being very mature about it, as the first step is realization,
Break up with him. If not in person, do it over the phone. If in person, have someone else with you. Avoid all contact with him. Change your locks and phone number if you have to.
You'll feel great moving on. It's hard, but you'll look back on this and love yourself for doing so.
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The Answer Man
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It will only get worse, run, run far away and never look back.
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sunflowerjean63
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Yes, he is abusive. Do you want to spend the rest of your life being treated this way? If so, you must be about 14 years old?
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rmsprincess
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First of all you need help. Ask yourself why have you permitted this behavior in your relationship. Who in your life showed you that this is the way love goes. Everyone says leave him. You know very well that's easier said than done(or you might have done it already). Until you realize your worth and how real love is shown you won't be able to leave. Get some help for yourself so you have the strength, both inner and outer to put your best interests first no matter how sexy or cute the guy. Best of luck
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Eoin B
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His a s s is grass. Look he obviously needs to get help, maybe talk to a therapist or something. Its not even remotley ok that he put his hands on you (in a bad way). Some people think its a show of love to try and control another person they way hes controlling you......but its not. It means hes insecure and has a lot of issues. I know its probably really hard to leave someone you love but it sounds like things will not turn out good until he gets his head sorted
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Mike M.
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Don't walk, but RUN away from him....NOW! There is no telling what he might do to you.
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ivybenne
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You keep asking for advice & opinions about your abusive, drunkin, no-good boyfriend's behavior & your releationship...... when are you actually going to listen & take the advice?? When are you going to realize you need to leave him? when are you going to realize your worth more than this & dont deserve to be hit or smacked around??!! ..................when your dead???!!?
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Jennifer L
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Consider this: is this guy someone you'd want to marry? Surely you wouldn't want to spend your life with someone like that. Move on no matter how hard it will be. You'll be glad you did.
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Lina
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are u still there? these boots are made for...running!!! can;t you see this is bad?don't you understand that it will get worse? leave him before he hurts you and tell your parents about it. they will protect u
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mknightm@sbcglobal.net
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My dear one,
Please take care of yourself by getting away from this hot guy of yours. He may be amazing on many levels but if he has pushed you once, he will again, and it will escalate from there. Many women stay in abusive relationships because they "know" that they can change the love of their life or that they are the only one who really understands him. This simple belief is potentially deadly. If , when he pushed you, you had hit your head on a corner of a table or on something sharp or hard, you may not even be sitting here writing this question. I know how hard it is and I know that the apologies seem real but the facts of many years of data prove that this type of abuse never lessens... it only gets worse. Please be smart now and leave him When you begin to take better care of yourself and to reject abuse (it usually begins on a verbal level, continues to controlling issues and then on to physical...even to death), You wiull start to see that you attract people in your life who treat you much better. If it is at all possible, try to see a counselor or therapist, you may be able to stop yourself from years of pain and confusion by clearing up your own issues which may include the "fixing" others tendency I spoke of before. You deserve to have a wonderful life. It sounds silly but the path to being happy really begins with learning to care for ourselves and then we are able to really enjoy healthy relationships with others. You are able from this sad experience to change many patterns in your life. You will be so much more attractive to others as well as yourself if you nip this in the bud now. There is a lot of help available, anonymously or person to person. Please value yourself my fellow lady. Women are a precious and sensitive sex. Take care of yourself for all of us. You will find the man of your dreams when you treat yourself with love and care. God Bless.
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scp19642003
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YES HE IS ABUSIVE...being unpredicitible is the way he keeps you off balance...my ex-husband still does the same thing to me. Run far & fast...So what if he's cute, hot & sexy...better to do w/o that than you being bruised, beaten & dead. If you don't break up w/ him...trust me on this...it will make you crazy & you won't get over that crazy as easily as you will the crazy you might feel for a while if he leaves you! NO ONE deserves to be abused in any way shape or form...TRUST ME, there IS someone out there who will love you, respect you & be good to you...you might not find him right away, but you wil!! I DID.
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tessasmomy
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Not only is he abusive (both physically and mentally),he is controlling. This is not a good relationship for you to be in. Get out. You are worth soooo much more than that.
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emo_nic
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move you're stuff out of where you guys are living and just don't see him anymore
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Elaine F
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do u want a relationsship with someone who is going to knock you around?Being drunk is no excuse for abusive behaviour dump him and find a new boyufriend who treats u with respeact
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Steph
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get as far away from him as you can. he'll only get worse from where he is and if you're afriad he'll do something to you when you break up with him, tell someone.
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Fizzle
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Get out now! This never gets better, only worse. If you have problems getting out, check the phone book for a domestic violence hotline. In fact, you should probably call NOW and talk with them.
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dfreebyrd59@verizon.net
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Get out of the relationship right now. If you stay you are only allowing him to hurt you or even kill you by staying together. Have him and you get counseling if you want to stay together but live apart for awhile. Theres always the law and a restraining order if needed. Get friends and support when you take action against him. Good luck
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happi2bwu2
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Break up with him and run as fast as you can away from him. He is an abuser, both physically and emotionally. The alcohol thing will not stop, it only gets worse. Once an abuser always an abuser, Get away from him. You don't say how old you are but I figure you are quite young, he is immature, and may never grow up. Please protect yourself. Just think, if you married him and had children and he got drunk one night, what could he do to the children? Protect youself and get away from him.
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bigmarcus
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First of all, how old are you two, and how long have you been dating? Second, Pushing into walls and pulling hair isn't the worst I've ever heard done, but it is still not acceptable. Well maybe the pulling of hair in bed, but that's it. Second, talk to him about this drinking. Advise him how you feel, and how you don't deserve to be treated that way. There is a science behind this. Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. If he can't do that, then he doesn't need to be dating anyone. Also, where are you from? Email me.
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not_tha_game_its_tha_playa
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Dont matter how hot and sexy he is **** him he is an A$$ hole
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