Do you honestly think getting over somthing quick likesexual abuse and depression is easy?

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geoff d	I KNOW IT`S NOT EASY !!! I`M A THERAPIST !!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xXx Orange Breezer xXx	I don't think anyone gets over it they just learn to cope with it in every day life........ Some people have no idea x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dogsbody	ah, just ignore the losers. You can't have fun on here if you listen to all the nutters! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

FC	No I don't. It is difficult to just switch your brain off from the memories that are in there & although you can learn to cope, it will always be in your head. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kellie	Heck no its not something you get over easily, its hard to see people be so insensitive to something that you've gone through or someone else you know has gone through. Don't let their attitudes effect you so much. Just know there are caring compassionate people who really do care what happens to other people. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

(:♥TayLee♥:)	Absolutely not, you never get over it, you just learn to live with it. And it takes a lot of love and understanding from your family and friends. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bootsjeansnpearls	no type of abuse is easy to get over. Anyone who has been abused- be it minor or major abuse - will attest to that. As for what to say to the ignorant ones- Just sincerly let them know that you hope nothing happens to them that would start to compare. There is no reasonable response to ignorance except knowledge. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

oceaneyed1	I agree with you. Must be nice to have a life with NO pain. Look at it this way....life is give and take. For the obvious pain many suffer, others suffer in their own way. Considering your life after such trauma, one should call it a "New Normal". It will never be the same as before but a new life can be built from it. You really don't have toanswer anyone.....ignorance comes in many forms. Just consider yourself more enlightened and try and reach those who can benefit. I have found with these people, only until they experience such grief and pain in their or a loved one's life will they understand. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

babydoll	Sometimes people who have not had such horrific experiences have a difficult time empathizing with those who have. This is very sad. I would admonish them not to comment on the situation at all if they can not offer any comfort or encouragement. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

anoldmick	No, it is not easy, but it is a deeply disturbing and frightening topic for many people. Those people are liable to say any silly thing that comes to mind just to make the topic go away. It does not mean they don't care, it just means the topic scares them and they don't know how to address it. By the way - calling people names won't win you friends, so please drop the "ignorant ones" remarks. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

laydenirvine	i'm a ;little confused about ur question, just cause i never answered that question..... and being raped or abused is something u never really get over!!! u may be able u move on with ur life but it comes everywhere with u... and as for the bipolar...my mother in law has by polar and its not easy to live with having it in the family never mind me having to deal with it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mkandfa4rever	i have depression and was sexual abuse many times Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

THUB	Obviously, it is not easy to get over that stuff. For most people stuff of that nature will effect them for a lifetime. Whoever said that was just trying to get a reaction out of someone else, and clearly, they got it. Welcome to the internet, it is full of kids with terrible opinions on life and even worse spelling (hint hint). I have found the best thing to do is simply ignore these people. As crazy as it sounds, they will grow up some day. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DeN	A traumatic experience such as sexual abuse is not something that you can get over easily. Experiences such as these unfortunately changes who we are, how we look at things, and our general perspective in our life, and our future. Sadly, there are lot of people that we'll encounter in our lives that doesn't have any respect for other people's feelings and experiences (whether good or bad). This is something that we have to unfortunately have to live with, whether we like it or not. A lot of survivors (I don't want to use the word victims) managed to find meaning in their lives and acknowledge that their experience of being abused wasn't their fault. I think this is crucial in being able to live with that experience and trying one's best to move on, and get on with their lives (with the right support from significant others) no matter how hard it may seem. Good Luck and remember that what is MOST important is how YOU see yourself, and not how OTHERS see you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lozy	How could anyone get over those sort of things quickly. I would say it is a long term recovery requiring a lot of therapy and help from professionals. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Busgirl2	No , Can't say it's easy, But life's a Bich and alot of cnt's out there Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

J-Dawg	its not easy to get over that. it takes time and therapy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shortnotsilly	How you do know that they have never been in a similar situation ? who is an ignoret one do you think? you will get all sorts of answers for sure,, but how DO YOU know what they know? honestly? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

badvirus2007	No ... Its not.. The best way to get over such a tragedy is to try n keep urself busy and avoid thinking about it.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rimrocka	depression isn't half as bad as sexual abuse Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chutney	I've had depression and was really ill. The last thing I needed to hear was "snap yourself out of it". "Pull yourself together" No-one knows what its like unless you have been there. I suggest people need to think before they open their mouths. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marv	of course its not. it never is easy for anyone. anyone who does say its easy must be narrow minded and plain old thick. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bud's Girl	You're right! These people are ignorant because they didn't have to experience it. It takes a lot of therapy, sometimes years and years of it. Don't stop till the feelings go away. You're worth it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hantonbob	I was beat real bad as a kid, you don't get over it but learn to live with it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mario h	you have to get it past you to the point where you don't remember it and you never bring it up again if you feel uncomfortable about talking about it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥USMCwife♥	I don't think you ever get over sexual abuse, but depression you can it just takes time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stevers1	Very difficult, it takes courage and a great deal of thought. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tia	no gurl, it aint. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The Notorious 1!	Hell naw, stuff like that takes time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

artisdestiny	Getting over a traumatic event no matter what the circumstances is never easy or quick. It is a long process that demands the person really sees inside themselves and find out what it is really going to take for them to heal. To the ignorant people who mindlessly answer or answer with rude comments I would just ignore them. I believe those people have self esteem issues, and that the only way they can feel better about themselves, is if they put others down. Just know that if you are strong enough to survive all that you have that someones ignorant remarks shouldn't keep you down. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No