Contemplating suicide, is there a way out?

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Saverain	I feel the same way a lot, what you got to do right now is find a job or get your GED or both. You need to get out of the house and meet people. Just apply for siimple jobs, don't get fancy, like at resturants. Get out and go to a resturant and ask if they are hiring and apply. Go to several resturants and do this. You are so young you have your whole life ahead of you. Just get out there. Once your get a job or start on your GED don't give up for atleast 2 weeks. Even if you are at work and dragging your feel and can barely move, so not quit it will get better and you will feel better about yourself. Don't give up. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kumamon222	Do not commit suicide. I had a friend who did it and it was rough for everyone to go through. It causes lots of strain on loved ones. Judging from what you said (about not being able to leave the house), you have some form of mental disorder. I can't quite remember what it's called. My advice: slowly (and I mean slowly) try to break the mold of what you are now. Start with talking with a very close friend, be it online or on the phone. Just make some contact with the outside world. Then, if you have a nice backyard, go there for a bit. Start by being on a patio or sort with a way back inside. Take deep, relaxing breaths and see how long you can manage. Bring your mother out and do this: rate how scared or paranoid you are on a 1-10 scale. Keep expanding by slowly going to the backyard alone, taking deep breaths along the way. Also, keep contacting any friends that you can. At some point, see a therapist. I've heard of many cases like this and psychiatric help is one of the key things to getting over this. Nobody in the world is worthless. We all have highs and lows, and right now it seems as if you are in a rut. Just keep going through. If you need anyone to talk to, e-mail me. I'll be there to lend an ear and offer advice. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tad K	There is always a way. Don't try to feel like your trapped. Try to get back into contact with your old friends and attempt to become more indepedent. If nothing else, try to see a shrink (I know that sounds so expected). Please don't commit suicide because you are going to hurt the people around, including your friends that you don't see that often and family. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

murph99990	don't do it. Life in general is difficult, especially during our teen years. I contemplated the same thing, but decided to fight on. I am very happy I didn't go through with it. Stay strong. Things are bound to change sooner or later. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hardygurl<3	OMG...i feel the same way. I am so afraid to go to school and at one point i was so scared to even leave my house. I have become depressed but no one gets it. They all just think it is in my head. Im not going to commit suicide though. I really just want to be homeschooled but i dont know if that is going to happen. I know what you mean by you feel worthless. I feel the same way. I get so disappointed with myself cuz i am not like everyone else. It really does suck. I hate being this way and i know you do to. You are not a loser either! Email me sometime if you ever need to talk to someone. ( I am 14 btw) P.S. Hang in there. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*Mom of 6*	God made each of us with a plan and a purpose.Take small steps and have little goals each week that you can accomplish. Do you have one person to help you to discover hope? Go to church or go to a counselor. The Devil had me feeling worthless before but it is a lie. God Loves you He created you and though life may be tough There should be some good seasons too! Make sure you dont have metal in your mouth That can cause Lots of toxicity problems...Food allergies can bring on depression to How is your eating habits???We are what we eat. Listen to and watch good clean stuff only!!!! Ask God for help I pray for you too!!! You are absolutely not a loser!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

uclueletbc	so what u so depressed about? u didn't say....summer is here, time to get out and enjoy yourself Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Doug Bunge	I'm sorry to hear you are in such pain. Being without meaningful friendships in this life can feel very painful. But the fact remains, you are valuable and loveable dispite what your feelings are telling you. Definately NO, Suicide is not the way out. Check out my website if you'd like for the answer I found helpful when I was a teen and in deep emotional pain, feeling unloved and unlovable. I have music you can play and listen to on-line. Check out: http://bungechord.com/suicide entitled, "Suicide is not the way out!" I hope this gives you hope to carry on! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

╔►La La◄╝	i know what you mean, luckly i have my boyfriend who is here with me all the time.. otherwise i would be going insane. i dont hang out with of my girl-friends in about 3 or 4 yrs now. i dont go out at all.. if i do its to the store real quick. it sucks i know how you feel. but just keep your head up.. and seek help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

V C	http://www.apa.org/topics/anxietyqanda.html 68 percent of Americans in general feel anxious when not connected in one way or another. The study used research collected on almost 5,000 people over two years, and found that feelings of "disconnect anxiety" affected people of all ages, triggering sentiments like "dazed," "disoriented," "tense," "inadequate" and even "panic." Interestingly, however, the reasons for disconnect anxiety changed as subjects got older -- teens and young adults worried about social communications being cut off, while older adults mostly fretted over work and safety issues. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Boots B	Well, suicide isnt the answer thats for sure.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Wikipedia Brown	The way out is to realize that no matter how bad things seem now it DOES GET BETTER. Sometimes it really helps to see a professional. They really can help! Once I found a good one it really helped me with my depression (In the past I've felt exactly like you do now). A close family member of mine, who was about your age, killed herself in April and I really wish that she had realized that things will get better. It's hard to realize it when you're young but things will change. They did for me and I was once exactly where you are now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

castaway15	please go to a doctor! every life is important. 1. go to a doctor. 2. get back in school. 3. join a club. 4. work out. 5. get out of the house. 6. make contact with your old friends.you are not a loser! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Janna	There is nothing to be ashamed of. You have a problem. It's called social anxiety. You need to talk to your mother about it if you can and ask her to get help for you. There is medication and treatment for you that will help you with your problems...all of them. You are not a loser! The key to feeling better is treatment. If you can't talk to your mother, call someone else you trust. Do you have an aunt or a cousin or anyone else you know who you trust? If so, call them and ask them to help. Please do this at once. If you are still having thoughts of suicide call 911 and someone will talk to you. There is always someone there to talk to you and make you feel better. You have so much living to do at just 18. You will see! Good luck. Your life is going to look so much brighter when you get help! You will see!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Don R	1st of all...you are too young to come even close to being any type of loser. Second, I recommend going to http://www.suicide.com If you need someone to talk to that has been there, I would be more than happy to correspond with you about it. I can tell you how I decided that I want to live instead. PLEASE DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MadGunner	Why can't your friends visit you at your house? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cat	You are NOT a loser Honey!!! You need to go to the Dr. and get on an anti-depressant. And you need God in your life. All the things you said are signs of major depression and you seriously need to seek medical advice for this, but don't do anything stupid, as there are people who care about you and what do you think it would do to them if you did this? Please seek help as you are worth it Honey Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mrpoet03	First of all you need to seek professtional help get on some good meds and see where that takes you as for the thoughts of suicide they are normal for depressed people but when you don't have anything else to keep you going just know that you don't know what tommorow will hold for you and everday is a new day of possibility you are part of the world and if we loose one it lessens us all Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cla$$y Christina <33	i agree with you but u should seek proffessional help ur not going to find it here.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Birute M	Look..lots of people feel like they are worthless...but you should NEVER and i mean NEVER EVER give up. You should not even be ashamed of yourself. You are a person and you must treat yourself respectfully. Don't be shy! Get out there and make friends...get into school again..TRY again. whatever you do...dont give up. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

B T	Shoog, you say you live with your mother, so PLEASE talk to her about what you're feeling, right now! She needs to get you to your Doctor ASAP and get you on an antidepressant that works for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

тнє_єиcнαитєᗪ_σиє	Seek help! If you need a friend please e-mail me! I suffer with Anxiety and I had a bad life; I know how you feel. There are days when I want to end my life, but I try to be strong. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mexico Owns	u r not a loser u r just not trying to go out and make a life sometimes in order to be happy u need to be able to step out of ur comfort zone and seek what u want but i also agree with professional help Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jack K	There's always a way out ... you just need someone to talk to ... this is a good a place to start as any ... you can email or IM me if you want to take it further .... but just exactly what is it you're scared of and are paranoid about??? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GG	You need to call a help line, ask them for help. I am depressed and I do know how you feel. It can get very hard. I don't go around many people. I am going to see counselor. Your Mom cares about you. I care. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ur HIGHness	if your depressed, talk to your parents, or a doctor about it. there are groups out there where you can meet new people and people who can help you. Life is what you make it. Get up out of the slum you put yourself into and make something of it! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nessa	You really need to talk to a professional. Heres a website that can get you started.... http://www.suicideinfo.ca/CSP/GO.ASPX?TABID=40 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Answer	Hey hunny you're NOT a loser! You need to see a doctor so get help ASAP good luck cat xx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tkquestion	Yes, there is a way out. It's called therapy and treatment. Here's what I think about suicide. I am not going to say it is good or bad, because I really don't know. From where I come from, some of the suicides are actually thought to be honorable. I am not sure if I believe it myself. You think killing yourself will solve your problem. It might... but why kill yourself? If you do, you won't be there to enjoy the pain-free you. If you are not going to benefit from it, why do it? Better way, I think, is to seek solution and put yourself in a position where you can actually enjoy the benefit of your choices. Have you been seen by a doctor or counselor? If not, you should. If you have, and have not been helped, you need to seek a better one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lotus_elise_81	Get therapy. Things can improve, but you need to take control of your life, and it sounds like you will need help to do so. I don't believe in suicide, but if I did, I would consider it a last resort only - after everything else has failed. If you haven't tried to change your life or seek help you shouldn't even be considering suicide. And you aren't a loser, you just believe yourself to be, which is part of your problem. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hurts so good	the answer you need wont come from y/a. i have been going though the same thing over the last 18 months and not worked in this time. you need to get out and speak to your doctor explain how you are feeling a doctor is the only person that can gIve you the right advise. as for suicide ive been there and its not the answer its a cope out. you only bring hurt and sorrow upon others. speaking to your doctor is the first step to recovery its a long step forward. believe me your not alone plenty of people are going though depression. if you feel the need to chat about your problems email me and im more than happy to chat with you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No