Commiting suicide, yes or no?

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NICK A	It is not you that is creating the thoughts of suicide, but its hard to believe, but negative spirits. They are feeding on your depression, You are a living creature that support an entire Eco system in your body. When you die, a lot of other things die with you. The things that work hard to keep you alive in your body just don't give up, and you shouldn't either. Friends will come and go, but you are forever. I don't know if you are religious, but this chant was one of the most important things I was thought by someone to help me out. When you chant, you will say the ancient name of GOD. HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU but you might know it as Youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu... like you you, but it is HU. HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU Just continue as much as you can, and start again. The chant breaks the hold of evil. It will shatter them, with the more effort you put into it. When you have a bad thought, say no Block it. Do not let the thought continue on its own. This is something i am happy to share with someone else who can use it. I hope you live long, and share this with anyone else who needs it. If i can help more, email me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

James W	Don't be so damn self-centered....what would your family/loved ones think? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sidney	i really think that that would be the worst way out. acting as if you are desperate for attention is pathetic. i know you dont mean it in that way but others wont see that. you have to be stronger and pull through this dont beat yourself up. 'That' would be the losers way out. you arnt a loser. these 'friends' arnt your friends. you know what when you do get out of this find new and BETTER mates who will help you because thses people seem very self centred. in taking your mind off things...try art, photography, knitting or (if you have a bit of money) buy some sort of excersise machiene like a cross trainer...take your mind off things and let your anger out.... dont kneep it locked up ...now that would be bad for your health. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

youngesage	It's all in your head. Stop thinking, and start doing. Keep yourself occupied, and move forward. You don't need anyone or anything to justify you or what you do. I would try some meditation and perhaps a little self exploration. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emerald_Eyes	I don’t think suicide is ever the right answer. Think about how much you would be hurting those around you that love you and really care about you! There will always be hard times in your life and it may seem like your all alone in this world but I can guarantee their are family members and other friends out there that do love and care about you. So you really need to do some thinking and ask yourself "is my life so bad that I would rather die than continue on with it". Or, "Yes my life is pretty bad right now and I am hurting but I am going to suck it up get out of the house and meet some new people and make some new friends! Anxiety is something that you can overcome yourself with out any medications if you have the willpower that is. I hope you make the right decision. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

777	YEA I GOT SOME ADVICE PRAY AND TALK TO THE LORD HE WILL HELP YOU AND WANTS THE BEST FOR YOU THE DEVIL WANTS TO DESTROY YOU AND PUT THOUGHS IN YOUR HEAD I BET YOU DON'T KNOW SOMETHING YOU SHOULD BOTH GOD AND I THINK YOU ARE SOMEONE SPECIAL AND TRUST ME HE WILL HELP YOU THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD WHO YOU WILL MEET SOON WHO WILL LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU EVER THOUGH SOMEONE COULD DON'T DO ANYTHING DUMB YOU ARE WORTH SOMETHING GO OUT MEET NEW PEOPLE BUT PEOPLE WHO WILL DO GOOD IN YOU LIKE FOR EXAMPLE GO TO A CHRISTAIN CHURCH AND THERE YOU WILL FIND PEACE AND LOVE MY FRIEND AND BROTHER OR SISTER IN CHRIST EVERYBODY HAS PROBLEMS JUST LEARN HOW TO GET THROUGH THEM PILLS AND DOCTORS AREN'T REALLY THE ANSWER THE BEST DOCTOR ANYWHERE IS THE LORD VISIT HIM I MEAN WHAT DO YOU GOT TO LOSE RIGHT! GOD BLESS YOU AND REMEMBER DON'T DO ANYTHING CRAZY I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO TO HELL BUT HEAVEN WHERE WE WILL ALL HOPEFULLY MEET SOON TURN YOUR SELF TO CHRIST IF YOU THINK NOBODY LOVES YOU HE DID,DOES,AND WILL EVEN WHEN YOU THINK HE DOESN'T AND LOOK IT'S HARD TO THINK NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU CAUSE LOOK AT ALL THE PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP AND I'M ONE OF THEM DON'T LISTEN TO OTHERS WHO SAY "YES DO SOMETHING DUMB I MEAN WHAT DO YOU GOT TO LIVE FOR" BUT MY FRIEND I TELL YOU THAT "GOD HAS SOMETHING SPECIAL PLAN OUT FOR YOU" AND THE DEVIL IS JEALOUS AND DOESN'T WANT YOU TO RECEIVE IT SOON YOU'LL FIND THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE AND YOU BE THEIR HAPPINESS AND IF YOU ARE GONE WHO WILL MAKE THAT PERSON SMILE INSIDE AND OUT? JESUS LOVES YOU:) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kim G	Don't do it! I attempted and almost lost my life last year... I now realize it would have been the biggest mistake ever now that I see how much I have to live for... You are obviously crying for help... Go to the hospital now... Tell them you are suicidal... Don't think about the reprecussions... A hospital ward is not that bad trust me... I had no friends when I attempted... At least I didn't think I did... But after they heard they came pouring out of the woodwork... I thought I had nothing in my life... My family and I were estranged, I hadn't spoken to any of my friends in months... Work was suffering, and I felt cold inside... A shell of a human being... I am the self help book amongst my friends now because they see the dramatic changes in me... I ended up on meds for a little while and in therapy for months and it was a lot of hard work but well well worth it... I am happy, vibrant, beautful and intelligent and just 10 months ago I thought I was fat, lazy, worthless, and pretty much dumb... Things come around... And i had a lot of bumps and bruises... Some relapses but after it was all said and I done I wouldn't have changed a thing except gotten help sooner so I didn't overdose... Please get help now... Tell someone... Scream it! And go right to the nearest emergency room! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

art_flood	whatever things are good whatever things are pure whatever things are honest whatever things are lovely think about these things.. listen to the birds look at the flowers feel the rain draw a picture listen to some mustic think about things that are pleasant. focus on finding other people to befriend and serve. I understand abandonment, and the feelings - I know. my wife died and everyone but a few vanished, I was abanonded, and it feels awful. but my life isn't just about one person or many people there's more. you can't think so short sightedly - suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem just dismiss the thought - don't allow yourself to think this way anymore,a nd if you can't then please get help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Just Because.	Suicide is never the right option. Your going through a rough time, but going through this will make easier things alot more enjoyable and you will appreciate life more. Please, have hope. Don't give up on yourself, you are better than that. And you know deep down, that someday you will be happy with your life. You just have to follow your heart, forget the bad times, and look to the future. If you have anxiety, you just need to solve the issue. I know it will be hard at first, but your going to have to see your Doctor about it. And have a serious chat about getting more help. And it WILL help. Friends come and go, the ones that stay are the real ones. Don't low yourself, its not YOU thats the problem. Keep strong, you will make new friends. Nothing will get worse unless you allow it to. You have to be strong, hold your head up high. You want to go out of your house? Just do it. Try, you can. Get out in the sunshine, take a nice walk.. Realise what patentiol you have on this Earth. Everyone can be "somebody".. Don't take your life away. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cristobal	Seek therapy ASAP Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

honeydew ;]	well.. i'm quite optimistic and stuff so my answer might not be as helpful. but ii have thought of suicide.. just really want to do it!! then ii think.. how would people think?? ii don't want people thinking ii was stupid enough to commit suicide.. or say "poor thing".. ii don't know.. to me it bothers me. well ii have school. just started school so not many friends.. quite lonely, but ii listen to others in class talk. the bad kids that makes attention. focus on anything you know =] and think of what you are soo curious about and want to know more but haven't yet. just forget suicide and find some things worthwhile =] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brianna	DONT!that is completely out of the question,nothing lasts forever,trust me something will change!!!Plus i know you wont wanna go to hell,because my killing yourself u will. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gary	call your local crisis hotline they will be glad to help you however they can. I was where you are a few years ago. Consider this is a chemical imbalance in your brain and until the balance can be restored you won't be better . To do that you need a professional. Committing suicide only stops your life here which restored can be wonderful. It doesn't help the problem. I finally got help after 45 years and I am depressed at times but never think of suicide. My life is so much better now. Please pick up the phone dial your crisis call center or 911 they will get you to somebody who can help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sue dean	please, i beg you not to do that. i had a nephew and a brother in law who commited suicide, it is so devastating to so many people. things could change overnight, you don't know what the future holds! please get to a doctor, talk to someone, talk to GOD,he knows your pain and he can help you. he will make a way where there seems to be no way! i lost my son in a car accident, i too felt so much pain that i didn't think i could go on, but God intervened for me, i have other people who would have felt the same pain i was feeling if i had taken my own life, i could not do this to anybody! HOLD ON! GOD BLESS YOU! I will be praying for you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Narb	Don't.. Get into sports, or video games. Try world of warcraft or halo. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bj	Well if you believe in the metaphysical books you end up alone in a dark gray world. No one can help you then. But you are still alive and so can change things for the better. Pick up the phone and call someone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

me XoXo	I'm commiting suicide this night when my parents go to sleep i've did so many time before but the cuts were never deep enough ugh Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

illiana_78	Read this webpage it may help...http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/ If not check the front pages of your phonebook for a crisis hotline or check yourself into the nearest hospital but get the help you need. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jrock1206	Time will heal your pain even though it might not seem like it now. Suicide is not a solution to any problem Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2kool4u	Gratitude. Think of what you have to be thankful for. The more you focus on the good in your life, the less room there will be for destructive thoughts in your mind. Hope this helps :-) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jade_2011	Dear Joanna, I don't know who you are but I do care about you. I had a brother who committed suicide so let me tell you how it affects those you leave behind. I cried every single day for over a year and a half. I was completely devastated I can not even put into words the pain this caused me I wanted to die too to end my misery but I just couldn't afford the "luxury"cause you see 4 kids called me mom and I just couldn't do to them what my brother did to me when he selfishly took the easy way out. I had 2 best friends and they abandoned me too(maybe they weren't as best as I thought) What I have learned is I am a survivor like you are and when we reach out for help like you are it is our survival instinct kicking in. Hang in there and you have my word things will get better.I will keep checking back here for your reply.God be with you in your time of need. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

debbigeri	dont do it sounds to me like you should talk to a doctor. and if you did that they might put you in the hosiptal. but talk to someone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tiggsy	Don't kill yourself. Please. I know what it's like. Sometimes you feel like you just can't cope any more and all you can think about is how to get all this stuff to go away, so you don't have to stay in this pit you seem to have slid into. You say you are anxious and this is stopping you going out of your house. What are you frightened of if you go out? Do you think your life is in danger outside? How is this avoided by killing yourself? Isn't that just fulfilling the wishes of whoever it is outside that you think will hurt you? I've been in the same sort of pain, and I found that playing online games and meeting people online that way helped. You could try that. At the very least, it gives you something else to think about while you're playing and chatting to people in the game. Do what you can to make your life more fun, and gradually you will find ways to overcome your problem. It may take a bit of time, but it's worth it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LongDongSilver	I am truly sorry that you feel this way. I wish I knew who you were and where you lived so I could personally help you. However, this is not a likely scenario that you live near me. I want you to realize that there are people out there who truly care for you. I know you probably dont want to hear this but here it goes. I am a Christian, and were it not for my faith I would likely not be here today. Even when all my friends left me (or I left them) I could still turn to the Lord for help. Even if you don't believe there is a God I challenge you to find a church (any church) and tell them what you told us. I guarantee you 100% that they will do anything they can to help you (and so would I). I also guarantee you that any self respecting Christian would be more than happy to be your friend. And you wouldn't even have to agree with us either, if you dont want to hear about Christianity they will not abandon you. I know life is hard right now but if someone who has never met you truly cares for you, how much more does the Lord care for you? Please dont do it, this world needs you, whether you know it or not. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bexa	You deffinately don't want to. you only get one life, and you shouldn't end it,because no matter how corney it sounds, its wayyy to precious. You have to have some hope. What about family? How old are you anyway? You may think that medicine won't help, but you need the right type and right dosage. Ask someone in your family for help, or call a helpline, theres also hospitals that help so much for this type of stuff. The doctors are great, and they'll help you through your tough times and will work with you to get the right medicine. You say that you can't leave your house, however maybe you could get a therapist to come out to your house. Also, i know a lot of times people who are suicidal get a pet, something to care for, and to love, and in return, they love you as well. It's a great remedy, and would keep your mind off any unwanted thoughts. Please, don't do this, there are people out there who care about you a lot, wether you know it or not, or if you've met them or not, they're there. Concider me, as one of those people who care. Please, look for help, it will do wonders and you can get back to your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Breene	PLEASE call 1-800-SUICIDE. They understand and can really talk you through your feelings better than just a paragraph on this site. It is safe and they really know what they are talking about. I was going to kill myself once, but I have had so many wonderful experiences since then, I'm so glad I didn't do it. Please give life another chance. Please, please, please call and then e-mail me, otherwise I will worry about you all night. Please call. It is worth it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

David K	DO NOT commit suicide , email me and i will be happy to help you anytime to solve this problem . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tasha A	please do not commit suicide, seek help! There are people who love you, please go to them and tell them you have a problem and not to take it lightly, Talk to your parents, grandparents, aunts, a stranger, anyone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tigercasey21	please try to hold on. when i was younger people told me suicide was a permanent solution to a temporary problem, but i didn't believe them. as i get older i see that if you feel like killing yourself, try to think of one thing you are grateful for and hold on to that until you feel better. or,you can always think of it how i think of it---would you want your dearest loved one to find you dead and what would it do to them? so if you cant hold on for yourself, try to hold on for your loved ones. it does get better. most problems do lighten with time. good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

judy f	Well, my former brother-in-law hung himself at age 57, last year. Please don't do it -- there must be some cure for what you feel. Consider you are God's wonderful creation - he did not create you to destroy yourself. Whatever you are feeling right now, remember, THIS TOO SHALL PASS!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Moo	ill be ur friend :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No