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nymets6159
Brother is abusing me terribly.?
Well my brother is 3 years older than me and I really think hes got some issues. Lately as I said he's abusing me, and my mom to add on. He's been choking me alot lately, im talking 75 times a week.

Hes done alot of things to me, for no reason at all. He tries to suffocate me often. He punches me/slaps me. He throws baseball bats at me. He says stuff like "Im gonna kill you in your sleep" or "When im 18 im going to shoot you right through your f*****g head".

And he just doesn't understand that its total annoyance and abuse. He shot my mom with an airsoft gun sometimes. He knocked me out by tackling me when I was coming into a room. He slit my eye open.... He made me hypervenolate and I passed out from too much pressure on my chest. Now its getting harder for me to breathe. He puts a knife up to my neck because of stuff like, I drank the rest of the milk, I changed the channel because he left the room.

My parents just say "Ignore it" or "Ill tell him". But never rly solves anything at all. And many ppl say ignore it but its kinda hard to ignore stuff that can kill you. I know ive been typing long, but a few more things.

He'll turn the computer off on me to just get me angry. He'll take my phone and send bad messages to my friends. This all without me doing anything. And when i ask him why he does this, he says "because you were born". Like wtf. He does not stop. AT ALL.

Most recently he tried to suffocate me, and when he finally stopped, he started banging my head on the wall and tables.

Ok time to stop typing, but i rly need advice.
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P.S. : But here is the thing thats bugging me, he does all of this stuff to me alot. But sometimes he actually acts normal for maybe 2 hours and then goes back to this.
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Matt
I did not even read your whole post. I am a skinny walking rail so let me give you some advice. Your feelings mean **** to jerks, buy some weights or maybe work out after school. It is best to defend yourself now before you have serious damage to your self confidence. Go online and find a weight training program nobody deserves to live in fear.

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liddle_angel
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work out in a gym, and kick his bully A**.....sorry, but he is just plain jealous and getting away with it,...and tell mom and dad, that I blame THEM for letting it go on like this...this is horrible. it isn't normal, and he needs to talk to someone before he finishes the job...and I know he loves you, but this has manifested itself to a dangerous stage...pray to God and Jesus to protect you, and They will ....

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ghost
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Tomorrow, go to your school counselor instead of class. Tell them everything you have just said. Print out what you have written, and show them. Then let them handle it. If he ever touches you again, call the police and make a huge deal about this abuse. This is not cool, you need to protect yourself.

Yeah well Sociopaths like to act nice for a bit, and then show their true colors. Don't let this one get his way, and hurt anyone, including yourself.

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antoineburch
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Wow, I feel for you........Fight fire with fire.....come up with a strategic plan and execute it....just don't hurt him...

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trick or treat.
I had a friend who put herself in foster care, and she wasn't even the one being abused that way. You need to tell another adult such as a police officer who can help you leave without him hurting you. In your heart you know this.

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jack0120032004
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This is seriously dysfunctional. Tell your teacher and principal at school. You have to know that this is not normal family behavior. Please tell someone before he gets really angry and hurts you or suffocates you unintentionally.

Pray that God will remove you out of that demonic situation!! You deserve a peaceful life. You're just a kid. You should be nurtured. Your parents have let this go too far. I wish I knew where you were I would get you some help myself. That is not right the way they let him run all over them and you.

They may just hurt them because they aren't paying attention to the behavior cues. He's on a bad path. May wind up dead or in prison if he isn't disciplined somewhere down the line.

So sorry you have to go through this abuse. Jesus knows how you are suffering because He suffered every wrong imaginable so they we could have life. Tell Jesus to help you. Tell him all about your troubles. Cast your cares upon Him, because he cares for you.

God Bless You! I am praying for you and that God will change your situation!!

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Katie
You need to tell other people besides your family. You need to get him some professional help. That's not right..and I suggest doing something before he seriously hurts you or your family members.

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Big Daddy
time for a police report. it doesnt sound like youre going to lose love

or, maybe its time for you to move out n go to college far, far away.

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Thespians Jah!
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Wow.... seriously talk to you parents. Tell them he's basically trying to kill you. If they don't listen. Go to the cops or a school counselor.

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omaggio ad A. Pazienza
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gosh
u better learn karate and pay him back
yes involve the police or child centre for abuse

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mit
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9-1-1....or your local detention center is all I can say.

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vickififi
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you need to report him so that he can get the help he needs...he is going to keep getting worst w/out a doubt and he isn't going to stop w/out anyone doing anything about it....apparently your parents are afraid of him as well...put an end to this bull++++...before he puts an end to you or someone else...

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smokie
If you call the police EVERY TIME he threatens or does something to you, then they will make your parents pay attention. For them to say "ignore" him is wrong. This is too extreme! If you're afraid to call 911, then tell your teacher or counselor at school right away. It is their job to report abuse in school as well as in the home. Good luck

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gurl2work
u may be in real danger. this kid has major issues.. i would call the local police department and explain maybe they can straighten him up. i know its your brother and it may be hard but im sure you have seen the news...

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c_stew
When you get to school tomorrow morning go straight into the guidance
counselor office and tell her/him what is going on. Even if you are exaggerating this sounds real scary to me. He needs help, mental help. You definitely need protection from this abuse. He could kill you by accident doing these stupid things. I can not imagine your parents ignoring you like this. Call the police on him the next time he hurts you if you don't get help tomorrow.
I feel so sorry for you. I wish I could help you more. Good luck tomorrow, honey, and don't chicken out. He needs to be punished or helped whatever the doctors deem necessary. You definitely need help.

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Gee
OMG!! CALL THE F****** POLICE!!!!
NOW!!!!

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Mike
It's not your fault that he acts like this, and he does these things to you. Trust me... it's not your fault.

I feel he should be put in a mental asylum. And should be seeing a psychiatrist.

This is really wrong, you should not feel this way in your own home.

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kimmyg
really, this is beyond just sibling rivalry. I grew up with an older brother that i thought was really mean to me, but he was NOTHING compared to yours. If your parents won't step in, maybe it's time to get the police involved. A lot of those things are considered assault, and probably attempted murder (the suffocating?). He definitely has some issues that need addressing, SOON, before something terrible happens

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hcp56
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If your parents aren't doing anything about it, you need to report it to the cops. he could seriously hurt you or kill you. If you don't feel comfortable telling the cops directly, tell your school pastor or someone from your church. Your parent may not know how to respond to his behavior, even if from the outside looking in it may seem obvious.

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