Why is it when my b/f drinks?

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Butterman	Sorry to put it ever so bluntly and harshly but your boyfriend is a violent alcoholic... commonly refered to as a mean drunk. Alcoholics come in various forms, shapes, and all have different ways of "being drunk" although there is enough common ground to know when a person is either just drunk, or "A" drunk. Some drunks actually mellow out when under the influence, while others just seem to get out of control and act like total morons, even when not in public. Your boyfriend seems to be someone who has serious alcohol issues. If he starts to act the way you described whenever he has a drink, it's because he has unconscious issues he can't deal with when being sober, and when under the influence, all logic and self-control goes out the window. There are also those people who can't hold their liquor and so become these unpredictable and erratic personalities when under the influence. When it becomes a regular "thing" to drink and act this way, then it's also considered alcoholism. He should seek help, because if he thinks it's not serious enough to worry now, then it may be too late when he does admit he has a problem with it. Cheers Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SARAH R	Think you need to change your man, Now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

srracvuee	ask him and he says piss off then do that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lady Luck	Just try not letting him to drink regularly; because it affects him more than the usual. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sarang	YOU DESERVE BETTER, GIRL. DUMP THE DRUNK & LATCH ONTO SOMEONE WHOM YOU CARE ABOUT, WHO CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS & RESPECTS YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE. LOVE IS IN THE AIR........ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

trebs	Drink is a depressant. It makes total shits of people Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

munchie	oh that's men for lol they never grow up(sorry men) they act like kids cause drinks bring the worsted out of men Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bridezilla	Sounds like a bit of a twat, dump his *** now! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kimmy	it doesnt sound like he can handle his drink, maybe talk to him about it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

willows	he obviously cannot take the juice! Have a word with him and air your concerns, if he doesn't deal with it then maybe you should leave. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janethepain76	why do u put up with it? does he know how stupid he behaves when he does drink Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

monkeymanelvis	He should not drink if it does this to him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dsd	He has issues, things he might want to say to you but keeps inside. So when he drinks everything just sorta comes out. Thats pretty much common behavior for anyone who drinks, alcohol kinda numbs the brain activity so they end up just doing or saying things without rational thought. Why not have a talk with him about his behavior. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jojo78	he drinks too much tell him when your with him to calm it down a bit Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Neil G	thats the booze talking Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bullatpool	thats normal for drunks Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Amshaegar	thats normal of alcoholics, dump him NOW Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jenny O	Coz hes a n idiot that shouldnt bother drinking Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Larry	That's an easy one he is a DRUNK. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ClAiRoL	does he drink stella by any chance? alcohol affects people in different ways! have you talked to him about it? try and talk and tell him what he does because half the time when i'm pissed i act like a fool and don't remember the next day! try recording him aswell and showing him the next day that might make him think next time he wants to drink excessive amounts! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tildypops	Stellar Artois should be named "Act-a-twat" or "wife beater". Maybe even "left my brains on the pillowcase" Explain anything? My son completely changes when he drinks. Nicest bloke in the world sober- has a drink, becomes a first class *sshole Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DreamGirl	I would leave him right away. Next thing he might do is hit you and then blame on the fact he was drunk. Drunkers are not welcome on this planet, so let him be alone, maybe he finds a drunk lady to join his escapades. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JoeP	sounds to me like he is immature and it shows up more when he drinks as he has less control Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

elguzano1	He can't handle his liquor. He's probably a binge drinker which means, he can't stop at just one or two, and drinks till he passes out. He should not drink at all, but if he does, he needs to know his limits. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

monkeynuts	cos he's a silly little boy who hasnt grown up yet and cant handle his alcohol Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nikki	That's how some people get. You should get rid of him while you still can. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vodkavixen731	he is drunk! he has issues deep down tho as many people who drink get happy silly giddy but in the mind the subconcious comes out he has things that bug him to be angry i had a bf same thing he drank more than average for odd times of day and reasons then he became an alcoholic there are issues underlying to make him mean.. and pissy - most people get happy pass out sadly it isnt a pretty thing to pass time Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

idiotinlondon	He can't handle it be careful men like that usually abuse people physically and mentally but use the alcohol as an excuse for their behaviour don't put up with it.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TECHX69	Alcohol seems to bring two traits out in people. A person is either a "happy" drunk or drinking turns them into obnoxious as*holes(had a friend like this).Video his behavior when drunk, then show it to him when he's sober. And don't leave anything out .Show him just how "great" he is when blitzed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kelly D	My man is exactly the same, be careful with this hun, because in the end my man turned to punching me and headbutting me and that kind of thing, he obviously has a problem with drink if he acts like this when he has some, please try to talk to him and explain that you dont like who he is when hes drunk, dont try to argue with him about it when he is drunk, catch him the morning after when he has a stinking hangover, tell him that you are upset with this behaviour and that you dont like being around him at these times, if he really cares for you he will make an effort and not drink so much or around you. On the positive side my man hasnt drunk now for 5 months, so it can be done, there is hope for your relationship yet xxxxxxxxxx good luckxxxxxxxxxxx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No