Should I do my best to abstain from masturbating? Surely I should if it makes me naturally guilty afterwards?

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Who knows ?????????	stop your guilt it is normal to masturbate, it is a proof that you are healthy and normal, every man does so, or you will feel pain in your groin, if you don't do it. and you will have wetdreams frequently. not worthed i think/. (WHAT A SWEET bABY KYNTHO) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lspalletta	if it make ya feel good and you enjoy it dont feel guilty it is the safest sex now a days if ya think about it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pip	get over the guilt, even babies play with their genitals.. it's part of human nature and if you can find a guy (and most girls) over the age of 20 (and usually much, much younger) that says he/she doesn't, then you have probably found a liar. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kytho	Why should you feel guilty when doing something that is perfectly natural. Most men do it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

anna	If you feel guilty about it, don't do it. Why lay a guilt-trip on yourself. Don't obsess about it, get busy and do something constructive. Go for a walk, do some work, help somebody else. In response to those who call it a sin, there's not a single word in the Bible about masturbation, for OR against. (Onan was different, he was refusing to give his wife children because she had been his brother's wife first.) The only thing is, it can become compulsive behaviour. It's also subject to "the law of diminishing returns"....the more you do it the less you enjoy it, it becomes a habit. Sex for one is kind of selfish, if you think about it. So, if it makes you feel guilty, don't do it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Elle J Morgan	Everyone does it- even lasses do it-Have you ever watched Sex and the City it's all true Only feel guilty if you do it infront of someone you shouldn't ie Kids or old ladies. Have fun !!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bobjackjim	i have no idea why you felling gilty because its a prefecly normal thing for use guys to do. i think if you ask an guy if you masturbated the answer would be yes so i wouldnt be very worried about. just enjoy it but do what ever makes you feel comfertable Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dawhitfield	this is a very personal question to be asking the Yahoo! masses. My advice is to get a girl/guy and not have to worry about the masturbating. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

justmemimi	Don't feel guilty. It's your body... you are not doing harm to your body or to anyone. Enjoy- just do it in private.... it's a very privatel matter. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

justwondering	Dude, it's your body, have fun. Work on that guilt thing, that belongs to your past. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

~ Helin ~	why u feeling guilty from it for? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wise	its alright if you enjoy releasing your own (honey!) and if it feel good to you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

P B	No i masturbate every day and it makes me feel good Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Caroline N	why would u feel guilty?? its quite normal isnt it??!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yabyum11	Since the coming {no pun intended } of the internet ,masturbating has increased tenfold, it,s a natural thing to do, but don,t let it be the hobby in your life. Get a partner and direct your energy that way. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marrianne	perfectly natural thing to do, do not feel guilty. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

assassin	no, enjoy it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Felidae	Nah - just don't feel guilty. Go for it :-) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Natasha	Why would you feel guilty, dont i'm a woman I masturbate its great, I dont feel guilty its perfectly natural for men and women. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

skyler	you shouldn't feel guilty at all, it's totally healthy and a damn good feeling! keep it up =o) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tom M is JD	I have felt guilty in the past because I thought it was immoral i.e. lustfull and shamefull as I believed I 'HAD' to, or should, be in a relationship. As to the latter, I've gotten into inappropriate relationships - the 'better than nothing' type, with worse consequences. With the former, I found it impossible to ignore the erections or the frustration , not to mention the stress, which often lead to bad temperedness. Not a laughing matter. I do not feel guilty any more, feel calmer and avoid bad relationships. In my 'ideal' world I wouldnt but can think of a lot worse things to worry about, Medically it can reduce the chance of prostrate cancer .Pls see link below . I wish you peace. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MANC & PROUD	Why feel guilty unless your doing it in public.LOL Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

crapsake	Why should you feel guilty about it? Masturbation is the most natural thing in the world. Everybody has done it at some point in their lives, and those who have said they haven't are liars. As long as you are not fantasising about kids or animals etc, you know what I mean..., then you are fine. Just keep it private ok? :-) If you need to release this tension and don't, you may become bad tempered and frustrated. Don't let 'society' govern what you do behind closed doors. Keep your pecker up! lol Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Karrien Sim Peters	What would you do for a Klondyke towel!!! ^ . ^ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emma Chizzett	A chap asks a question about having a J.Arthur, and look how many females answer with their expertise !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

addicted to piercings	i lived w/guilt feelins for years, after i masturbated myself. in fact, the guilt was so intense that i went to see a psychiatrist. together, we discussed my various reasons for feeling guilty. he assured me that masturbation is ok. who better knows how to pleasure you than yourself. all men do j--k off. it's a normal, natural bodily function. masturbation becoms a problem when it is used EXCLUSIVELY as your only source of sexual satisfaction, meaning partnered sex is being avoided, for whatever reason(s) i can honestly say that i don't experience any feelings of guilt when i masturbate now. so, please don't continur yo beat youself up over this issue. masturation is a gift. what we do w/gits is use/play w/them. have fun doing what EVERY male does. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wallybelly	why shld u feel guilty, it's a guy thing. if u don do it urself, it'll come in ur dreams. serious. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

IceDragon	If you enjoy it and you're doing it in private, what's the problem? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cloothe	Basically, you are not harming yourself physically, so only your second question matters. If you feel terrible about yourself--enough to make the entire experience unpleasant--then abstain. But if you find it pleasurable, but you wish it were something else and something more, then you are 100 percent normal. Bottom line: enjoy your body. Your sexual organs were given to you for pleasure as well as for reproduction. (And the proof of that is that our bodies can give us pleasure even when we are too old to have babies or the time of the month is wrong for having babies.) If you like it, keep doing it. If you don't, then stop and wait for a loving relationship to express your sexuality. Good luck!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sxyblkldy24	I LOVE masturbating. Look if that's what you have to do to make yourself feel good then all power to ya!! It's your body, your body fluids why the heck not. BUT if you're feeling bad menatlly for a long time afterward you need to do some soul searching and find out why. I feel bad sometimes afterwards I'm glad to know someone else is experiening the same thing. However, I got to the bottom of my feeling guilty and discovered I felt bad because I was a little emabarrased but what is there to be embarrased about? No one knows about it but you....unless you share it with someone... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

markyhp2	you have nothing to feel guilty about, its normal, it would be abnormal if you didnt, anyone who says they dont is a liar Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No