Sex, bf, me...convincing him? guys i need your help..?

ok so my bf thinks im a virgin (im not) and hes older than me (like 4yrs older than me hes 19 and im 16 soon) and i want to have sex with him but he keeps sayin 'no lets wait till your 16th!'...

ok so my bf thinks im a virgin (im not) and hes older than me (like 4yrs older than me hes 19 and im 16 soon) and i want to have sex with him but he keeps sayin 'no lets wait till your 16th!' or 'babes whats the rush?' or 'no were not havving sex now babes were weighting' how can i get round this?
its pissing me off alot...

btw i live in the uk and its legal to have sex at 16!
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ITS LEAGEL FOR US TO HAVE SEX IN A WEEK ANYWAY COS I LIVE IN THE UK!!!!! AND YOU CAN HAVE SEX AT 16 HERE!

munchausen1985	Come on you're still talking He doesn't want you

purpleprince102	Just dont force him, he will come around. If he feels he is not ready, then just let him be. Dont worry, it will happen. Good luck!

Pequena Reggaeton	just wait til your legal..masturbate for now

Jon	He just does not want to jump in to soon. He want to wait until you are 16 or maybe 17. Give him some time.

LOUISE T	Just wait until you're 16. He's probably aware that he would be breaking the law and as hes over 18 he could be done for child abuse. It's pretty big and if you love him you don't want that on his record! There's plenty of other fun to be had!

Azzy	You should move to America where they limit your sexual activities and life sucks. But seriously, I'd just wait 'till you're 16. If a 19 year old is dating you, 4 years younger, you must be hot, so don't worry.

Mo' Money	i think he is just waiting for u to be legal i guess...

Vegas Hottie	I would just talk to him about it, tell him you didnt want to tell him, but now you can. Then you guys can move on in that relationship.

yay, alaaana!	whoa legal at 16? that's awesomeee. i would just wait. its only until your 16!

wlkngwthclsdys	youve found yourself a decent guy who doesnt just want in your pants stop being so horny and WAIT

iThrowCrayolas	WOW! He's a lucky man and he isn't taking advantage of you. If it was any other guy in NYC, you'll get raped. You should listen to him and not rush. He really cares about you and isn't selfish. You could tell reight away when a man rejuects your offer that he isn't just thinking for himself.

John	He wants you to be legal.

rgtf2003	You know he can get in jail i you're not legal age??

saebag	He's doing you a favor. Let him.

blonde girl	just tell him your ready to have sex and im sure hill understand and will want to have it to if hes ready ( ask him if hes ready first)

smorsgabord	Well he might actually like you and want to make it work, therefore he doesn't want to ruin it by having sex so soon. Be grateful he isn't forcing you to have sex. Don't force him otherwise he might just up and leave.

?	but you are not 16 yet, you said 16 SOON. and he's waiting til your 16. oh by the way, it sounds like since he thinks your a virgin, he's waiting around to pick your cherry and then dump you. boy is he going to be disappointed.

♥ Robyn	If it's legal at 16 .. wait until you're 16. Your Bf's just doing you a favor. You should thank him and respect why hes saying no.

zanderdy JPAA	Wait it out. He doesn't want to go to jail.

Tiffany Diane.	Awh he has something called RESPECT for you, just wait its no biggie and tell him your NOT a virgin......

M. C. L.	This is the strangest thing I've read all day... It's very hard to find a guy who would actually wait to have sex...so umm, "don't pressure the guy into having sex." saying that felt weird...

Hann	stop pressuring him. hes being respectful by waiting. JUST WAIT! if you say your almost 16 then wait until your 16 at least

Giggidy	Why not resepect his wishes? Wait till you are of legal age. He probably doesnt want to get in trouble, people talk.

This is SPARTA	yeah ur name... just an angel...it doesnt work 4 u

Corporate Mom	if he's not ready don't push him. If you love him why would you want to make him do something he's not comfortable with yet? How would you feel if it was you not wanting sex and he tried pressuring you all the time?

G.O.A.T.	He just doesn't want to get into trouble. Honor his request.

nietzschean	sounds like he wants to do the legal thing and wait till your 16. good for him.

Joe K	sounds like a pervert to me. I'm 20 I dont even want to think about touching a 15 year old. Sick

Daniel O	Stop being a *****!!

Joel R	Sounds like he's got a good head on his shoulders. You not so much.

The mom	His answers could stem from several sources. As he thinks you are a virgin, perhaps he actually respects that and wants to preserve it. ( which would speak well for him). He may also simply not want to have sex with a currently underage girl- which you are, as you are not yet 16. That's sensible on his part, as until you are 16, you are not legal tender and he'd be guilty of sex with a minor. I don't know what your particular rush to hop in the sack is, it's not as if it's going to rot and fall off if you waited. As I see it, you can either wait until you are legal chicken and have sex with him if he agrees- or you can find some other willing partner who doesn't mind you aren't 16 yet. If it's just sex you want, there are plenty of fellows who'd be glad to give you a tumble. Though if you want to hold out for the current BF, you might make the confession that you aren't quite as untouched as he believes you to be. Otherwise you may find you need to do some explaining when the time actually arrives, and he may be less than impressed.