My boyfriend used a condom to masturbate with?

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Rene	Wow, that's a tough one! Are there any other clues to possible cheating? Have you noticed any changes in your relationship? I have no idea if some men masturbate with condoms on, but I have never heard of it myself. Maybe so it's "neater" and not as messy, but it does sound kind of unusual. Did he look suspicious when you asked him about it? Has he cheated on you before? Sorry I can't be of more help... good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bill	Doesn't sound good. I've never felt the urge. Heck, we're looking for reasons not to use them...not reasons to use them solo. Here's the thing, though...regardless of whether he did or didn't, you don't trust his answer. That's bad in itself. Look at that and see if you need to make some changes... Ret USAF guy... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Searcher	I won;t say wha the is but I will say guys do use condoms on occasion for their self-pleasure. Sometimes just to add a little extra somethign but in other methods condoms are required. Just take a look at the site below and see hwo many self-pleasure methods for guys actually say to use a condom as well as lube. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

danzahn	Innocent until proven guilty. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

imsety	Dear Young Lady: As long as your boyfriend is masturbating he is not cheating on you, be grateful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jennifer M	My boyfriend masturbates with a condom as well. We do use condoms during sex. He says he uses a condom while masturbating to practice putting in on and get use to the feeling. i think some guy just like the rush of going to a pharmacy and buying a pack of condoms. Maybe he was fantasizing about having sex with another girl, which would obviously not be a good thing. Guys are just horny and like to do different things. Don't get mad, just believe him unless there is a history of him lying to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GEO	your probably should let him hit it more often. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

judson783	First of all, addressing the issue of masturbating while wearing a condom, I don't know how common that is. But, I do know I've done it myself, lots of times. To be perfectly blunt, it cuts down on the clean up necessary after the fireworks are over! lol I could go into more graphic detail. But, I don't think it's necessary here. I'll just leave it at this, the hairier a guy is, the more difficult to clean up. Enough said about that. Even if your guy is smoothe, I can understand a desire to "contain the end product" in a condom. Secondly, you said you were out of town two weeks ago. I believe if he'd been with someone else two weeks ago and used that condom, everything would have been dried up by now. I don't know that the rest of us really want any more detailed information on the status of that condom's contents. Just take that underconsideration.........think about it......you decide. Thirdly, I just cannot imagine your guy being with someone else in his own bedroom (knowing the two of you will be in there) and just tossing evidence like that onto the top of the trash! Just my thoughts...... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

soooo???.........	if her was cheating he wouldnt leave it where you can find it. he would flush it down the toilet. i could feel/sense when ex was cheating (usually). just the way he reacted to things,, and the way he was with me. ask him if you can watch him use a condom to masturbate with, cause it turns you on (and prob will turn you on). and he might have done it while you were sleeping and feels like you wouldnt be happy about that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

curious george	if it was dried out then it was there for a long time and you might be able to assume he had "help". If was still "fresh" he's probably telling the truth. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stan The Man	I've done it with a condom, but I already had it... I'm not sure that I'd go out and buy one special just for that... If you're thinking that he cheated 2 weeks ago when you were out of town, it wouldn't have been on top of the garbage, it'd be two weeks down. You should know how tidy your BF is... does he empty his trash every week, every 3 weeks, or what? That can help you narrow down a timeframe. If you know where he was for the past few nights, you're probably safe. You could tell him that you want to watch him do it with a condom on. If he's not sure how to get going, or if it doesn't work for him, then you'll know he's lying. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Scooby	well....give him the benefit of the doubt. maybe he didnt' want to get stuff all over the place so thats why he used one....but the one question i have to ask is if you say you're on the pill and you dnt use condoms...why does he have condoms?? just to masturbate with? that's alittle odd. i dnt really want to say too much because i dnt really know the situation...but don't over react and ppl do odd things. You know in your gut and your heart if something doesn't seem right. Go with that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jjjjjjjjj	How much of a clean freak is he? And did he wear a condom with girls before you? These two questions would come to mind for me. If he doesn't want to get his spunk on other stuff, then I could see him using a condom or a sock when masturbating. Lots of guys use socks, but if he had condoms laying around I can see him using one, especially if won't be using them up with you. Also, he might be used to the feel of having a condom on when having sex, or he might like the different sensation he sometimes gets from it, so using one could help him out when masturbating as well. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Voice of Reason	either or neither. the condom is neater than a sock, though. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fred	I've known guys who were PROUD of some of the weird ways they'd done it. Crisco and a shot glass is the best I ever heard. Give him the benefit of the doubt on this one, at least it wasn't a watermelon. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

deathlytom	Ive done that before, just to see what it feels like. I doubt it is anything to worry about, it just feels different wanking in a condom. really weird, but great too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tamarack58	I've masturbated with a condom on before. Something different, easier to clean up afterwards. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

remowlms	Hmm, it could have happened that way - it seems odd to burn a condom that way, but then you don't use them so maybe he just wants to use them up before they expire, haha. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cghnasa	I've heard of this before , its so theres not a lot of mess to clean up . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jsprplc2006	I've done it. He's probably not cheating. I'm going to make a bet your boyfriend isn't circumcised. Even if he is, masturbating with a condom on just feels different. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Adrian	I asked my husband for you and he said that he has done it before. It lubes it up and there is no mess to clean up afterwards. So I guess it's sounds fine just keep an eye out just in case. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jay	News Flash!!! to all women and men ... some guys do masturbate with condoms on, maybe not all the time.I have done it before and i feels different in a good way ,then when you are done you don't have a mess to deal with. I agree that if your boyfriend is cheating on you that he would be smart enough to get rid of the "evidence" unless he is just careless!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Solo	Its fun to masturbate different ways from time to time but condoms are to expensive to use very often. give him the benefit of doubt until you KNOW otherwise. Have him show you how he did it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Daisyhill	It's not that weird...guys relate them to sex and so it turns them on! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

just looking around	he was fishing and didnt want any "stuff" on his hands. It is lubed and will float over his member(feels good) while a rubbing Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Balrog	ive done that before, but if i had a gf i would be like hey honey look what im doing Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jackie	It is possible so that way he wouldn't have the "mess" to deal with. If you have no other reasons to not trust him and I am assuming you have been over there other times after you got back into town and it was not in the trash at that point, he very well may be telling the truth. Just in case though, keep your eyes open but dont stop trusting him just for that reason. But do protect yourself and maybe pay a little more attention to things going on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brian Da Dog	Yeah, it makes for easier clean-up. If he was cheating you would not have found it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CDog	He was doin a clean stroke, no mess, and softer than your hands. Ive done.... oops I mean I've HEARD of this before. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

1001001	suggested reasons: 1. lubrication from condom makes masturbating easier 2. ribbed condoms feel better 3. easy clean up 4. keeps you from shooting at the wall or someone Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RAW CLIPZ	Did you smell the condom? If it smells like fish, then something fishy is going on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No