My boyfriend cant get it up?

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guiltylittleboy	Quite often young males can feel a lot of pressure, especially if its their first time. Try having a few drinks beforehand to relax him a little. Not too many though... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blondbosserman	you knowing he's a virgin might be making him nervous. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fenwaydav	He is afraid of the unknown.... and he's gay Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

unvail	If he's a virgin and really very nervous about 'doing it' and 'performing well for you', then it might be a psychological stress factor there. Try to talk to him about it, and maybe try and relax him! Otherwise, he might want to talk to a doctor about it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RAWR	trya little four-play with clothes off and work into it and keep it interesting! sex shouldn't just be pushing it in and out make it sexy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stacey	Is he on any medication that may effect this, such as anti-depressants? If not I would be sending him to the Dr to see if there is anything wrong. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kaliman	he is just a little nervous don't worry. You make the first move try some fun games or just play with his stuff a little first. Also if you help him rub out the easy one and then get into it on the second round he will last longer and you will both experience more pleasure. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Leen V	It's mostly psychological cause something is probably bothering him in due time don't pressure him and it will rise for the occasion. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

adamswine	he is probably conscious and its you job to make him feel comfortable Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

marimar67m	HE'S SCARED...IT HAPPENS U NEED TO PLAY WITH HIM AND BE IN THE DARK AND U MAKE THE MOVE U RIDE HIM MAYBE THAT WILL WORK HE IS PROBABLY SCARED HE WILL NOT BE ABLE TO DO IT RIGHT... WATCH VIDEOS TOGETHER SO HE COULD LEARN SOMETHING... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kickanemo	it shud stay up 4 as long as u keep both of ur attraction level high. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Butch	probably the fear of getting you pregnant Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

victimofya	the poor guy has scared himself soft. aww he sounds sweet. So tell him you have no expectations and just want to make him feel happy. Then if he goes soft again give him some oral to get him hard =) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

minor league fan	First a few questions. How old is he? Does he have any health problems? Is he on any medications? . Did he have parents who were super religious and would talk about sex and pre marital sex was wrong? If tyou answered no to all these he needs to see a Dr. I think its probably psycholigical. Hes worried he will ejacul;ate too soon, he won't preform well in bed. He needs to relax and you need to reassure him that everything is alright. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rocknout	Stage fright. Help the guy relax i guess he probably gets so nervous his heart stops pumping blood into dick. Last resort is Viagra. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

June	i dont know why but i can give you some things that may help. - give him head before but do not let him *** that way he has to finish some how. - try to make it hot dont plan it or talk about it before the fact. -tell him how much you want him and what u want to do to him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

firecanjockey	Some times guys try too hard then it all goes away when it is needed try too work on him the get on top iam sure you will sucseed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CandiLipstick	he's just nervous, try to get him relaxed and reassure him that there is no pressure and make sure hes ready to do it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

se k	keep on try make good health condiction amd keep on tryyyyyyy Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nee	I think its a nervous thing... I mean, it probably goes soft because he's nervous. Theres nothing wrong with his health or anything, trust me. Give it a few more tries and Im sure he'll keep it going (the whole 9 yards!) Its a little frustrating at first, but give it time... it'll be worth it! good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ant	I think he was just nervous, or feel pressured. His mind was not concentrating in sex, probably worried about something. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Y Entrepreneur	Its nervs love. Happened to me when i first used to do the thing. He will get over it. Don't plan to have the sex as this will be on his mind and trying to please you. Foreplay and let it roll baby. Hope this helps. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Johnny Dark	It's a mental block. Don't worry about it. He'll get over it. I could tell you a way to solve your problem in ten seconds, but I would get booted by Yahoo before I took my next breath. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BimTrix	maybe he's just not into you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hack_ace	This is a GOOD sign that you should wait. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

matt	Maybe because he is nervous. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ghoulfriend	give him a ********. and maybe he cant get it up because hes shy.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mari	Stage fright, give him a break..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

garychen0829	toooooooooooooooooooooo nervous thats what i would call it relax u guys trying to have sex in public though Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mike S	Wait till you are older. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nicole	It could be performance anxiety. When a guy is under pressure to impress you, he can totally lose an erection because he becomes nervous that you won't be pleased with him. My boyfriend was a virgin when we started having sex and he had that same problem the first couple of times, but I talked to him about it and gently encouraged him by telling him that hes amazing, and now we have great sex! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No