Is it normal for a hubby not having sex with the wife for a year?

reasons given, back pains killing his passion...

reasons given, back pains killing his passion

Simone E	No, women need sex in their life. with the exception of the golden years.

michael k	3 reasons:Impotent.Gay.Girl-friend.Take your choice.

pipsqueak8756	I doubt it. Perhaps he should see a chiropractor to get the situation resolved so he may go back to a normal sex life. If he doesn't want to go to the doctor or try something to get his sex life back-I would worry.

addicted to piercings	tell you husband i said THERE ARE WAYS TO PLEASURE YOURSELF AND YOUR WIFE with back pain. let his imaginatiion uncover the many ways the to of you can still experience intimate relations. openly discuss your feelings. you have a right to do so in your marriage. suggest that you give him a hand job and he give you one. perhaps you could ask him to pleasure you be performing oral sex on you, and you on him. there are ways to be sexual when dealing with any ailment or illness.

Ken S	are you sure his problem is back pain. he could be having sex else where

foxymanstamper	i have the same condition it dont stop me hunny!!!!

dukalink6000	Can't he be on the bottom?

digendra	It is not the absolute reason rather it may be the disstisfaction of having sex.

lilmo282005	no.

Dolly	There could be more reasons than back pain, like the medications and maybe a blood work up should be in order as well, maybe male menopause and depression. Some males have this and not even know it and embarrased to share this, even with the one they are closest to, their loving wife. There probably is an underlying problem as to why this is happening. Low testoserone can do this, also, another problem that his urogilost has not diagnoised. If he has urinary problems. like taking a long time to pee, or infections, there is a serious problem right there and he could be frightened. he neds to see a professor of Urology.

whole_feelings	Back pain? Aren't you healed the disease? One year is long..... In your wife's shoes I already could have found a replacement then!

jollybear	could be some personal reason he cant give at the present maybe hes just oo embarassed or doesnt know how you will take it try to improve on communication and try to talk more be more attentive dont critiscise him when ever he says anything try to just listen he will open up to you

suzie D	well I suggest to be patient and wait but if it bothers you. Take him to the doctor and get him check out and maybe the doctor give him some muscle relaxer. wish you all the luck.

Bernie	Perhaps....in his opinion.... you're ugly?

P.K.	how long have you been married? has the bad back affected any other aspects of his life. bad backs are painful, but I wouldn't give it up for a year without checking with every doctor available to try and cure it. I have a friend who has a bad back, and takes Valium and co-codamol and he still manages to sustain a relationship.

dr_hiren80	NO,surely their may be a problem.

blackbird	You didn't say his age. could be more than just back pain. male andropause, declining health, many other discomforts in his body. Men don't feel lusty when they're ill or weak or tired or debilitated. he's not well.

Sscorpiona	NO...no excuse or this I am sorry but how can u even wait that long I would go crazy....you give it to him then...lie him on his back and u do the work so you both enjoy

Charles Athole M	NO WAY. Speak to him or try a little lip talk. All men are into that but should that not work take him to a doctor to sort this problem out.

kheserthorpe	Its not 'normal', though sadly not unheard of. Its also not anything you did. I don't care if you ***** at him all day, don't help around the house, don't do anything sexy, blah blah, a 'normal' healthy male would still screw you occasionally. It's him. Its also not acceptable, if you're not happy with it. If there are medical reasons preventing him from being intimate in any way with you, he needs to get them resolved. You deserve more.

justme	no, he might be getting it somwhere else, or he needs viagra

Zeerust	Thats a bad excuse SORRY, NOT NORMAL!!!! Seek help, both of you need it, its the invisible glue of the marriage.

Mandilicous	Sometimes the medication they give out for back pain makes it difficult or impossible for a man to get an erection. If that is what is happening, he probably would be too embaressed to say that he cannot get an erection. Men tend to be sensitive about that.

Very Sexy Vixen	No not normal!!!!!!!!! Weird infact!!

welshwife	as a rule men have sex all the time so i think there must be aproblem somewhere that you diont know about

*.·¨¨D¨¨·.*	hiya if he is in real pain i would say maybe but there is ways of having sex without him moving his back also no man would go the whole year without a w-a-n-k? so the only way to tell is to help him have a w-a-n-k and see if he goes for it if he doesnt there is more to it then hes back good luck hunny :o)

BG	sounds like he is getting some on the side. I think you need to have a heart to herat with him and figure out what is really going on.

Theonlygolux	No. Get him some painkillers. Or let him go underneath.

assassin	sounds odd, perhaps he's getting it elsewhere or w*nking a lot

alinurse99	NO WAY. Bet he doesn't say no to a BJ tho.......

Tanya P	have you tried to give him a full body massage? and then you do all the work? should be no excuse after that! good luck!