josy
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dont have sex unless youre ready. and if you do use protection. just dont do it cuz those idiots told you to. the guys in my band class are mostly virgins so thats a load of bull
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sikchick
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There is no date set in stone when you are to lose your virginity. My boyfriend lost it to me at 20 years old. The age that you lose it at, is the age that you are ready to handle the possible consequences. Teens tend to overlook that, which is okay, but seriously, don't do it until you feel comfortable.
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Cassie Lynn.
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well, think about it? i see your in peer pressure but take some control if your not ready then your not ready no need to rush something that your not ready for and just because your the only virgin doesnt mean anything
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Stan77
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Your friends are lying. Realistically something like 80%-90% of the kids in your school are probably virgins. Just because you don't lie doesn't mean they don't. The most important things are your school and to respect your girl. Those 2 things will give you life long rewards including a better sex life.
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Altay_H
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Definitely don't do it before you're ready. Wait until marriage. It's totally worth the wait.
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pushstroke
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Don't rush it! Your team mates may just be 'locker room' bragging. Your gf is only 14 and the risks of premarital sex are great, even with protection.
If your brother is really having sex and hasn't impregnated his gf, he may just be lucky, or maybe he's just using the condoms to masturbate in.
Not only might you get your gf pregnant, if you are not careful and rush into sex without a condom, you may run the risk of an STD.
Peer pressure is tough, but a real gentleman never brags, that's all you have to tell your friends if they ask you.
Be smart and wait until you're older. Father hood not only may lead to a shot gun in the face, but parental responsibilities as well. Get your education and wait.
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EverythingMore
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Don't do it because everybody else is! No No No No =/ Do what feels right for you, if and when you are ready, it's your decision dont do it because you want to fit in...& half of those guys are most likely lying about their virginity.
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John
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at least wait until senior prom.
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Elmo15
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do it when you're ready, not before. f*ck what your teammates say or think if you're feeling pressure. i know that's a tough sentiment to listen to, but you must answer to yourself first.
and if you ARE ready now, get to it. i laugh when i read people writing you're not ready and this and that without even knowing you. they were all trying to squeeze one off when they were 16. as if you having protected, consensual sex with your girlfriend automatically means you're going to start f*cking up at school or turning into some kind of jerk. That's Puritanical nonsense.
When you're ready, go for it and always wear the jimmy hat like your bro. Andf you're not ready to wear the hat, then that's probably a good sign you're not ready to go yet.
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Christian Bon C
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go ahead,,dont you know that it feels like floating in heaven,,when i was 16 i started having sex and that was my 1st time,,it really feels good when you do that,,and you have something to share with your friends on how did you do that,,but always remember your brother is right always use a condom,,because ur still young and youre still studying,,but ur first experience will be memorable to you,,hope that i helped,,^_^
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Vinnie
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like most everyone says, c'mon most guys (any age) will lie like a rug about ANYTHING sexual. How big, how often, etc. So, probably a lot of them are making up stuff to seem like big men. Seriously... DON'T. Save it for someone really special. Ya can't have a 'do over' if it sux. Waiting till marriage is a great idea. Really.
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Tyler R
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ew...used condoms
Anyways, although it may seem like you NEED to, but you should do it when it feels right.
I bet some of them are lying too.
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Pistons fan
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dont do anthing u dont want to do
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lil_stud_0069
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If you and your gf are not ready then wait.
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footballo777
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you shouldnt listen to peer pressure cause its just dumb, im sure your friends dont care if your having sex or not. If your not ready then dont do it, you dont have to proove anything to your friends or your brother
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Rush
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I bet you half the people on your team are lying if not more. Anyway it sounds like you are not ready so give it more time. Nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age.
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derith300
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Do whatever you feel comfortable doing. And don't always believe what other people say. and besides they might be carrying some STD who knows? If people make fun of you for being a virgin just tell them that at least you don't have an STD.
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CoolDude
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Stick to your principles. At least a few of your buddies are probably lying to save face. It's normal for teenagers to feel enormous pressure to fit in, to be like everyone else. But far more people have said they wish they'd waited than have said they wish they hadn't waited. And having sex just because everyone else says they have is the worst possible reason to do it and can spoil it for you from then on. Anyway, are your buddies going to help you raise the baby if your girlfriend gets pregnant?
The real test of manhood is the willingness to stick to your principles in the face of great pressure not to. Anyone can have sex. Guppies and stray dogs have sex. Having sex is like Mark Twain said about his being a better man than George Washington: "George Washington couldn't tell a lie. I can, but I choose not to."
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asafegous
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no
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Princess Leia
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Have it when you're ready, you'll know when. Your life is your's... not a source of entertainment for your friends. Your friends tell you this because that's what guys have been doing for years & years... bragging about their non-existent sex lives to make themselves look better. Trust me, take a look at your friends... do you really think they are all that suave to all be having a regular sex-life yet. Most of them wouldn't even know where to begin!!!
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Emily
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You;ll regret it later. I personally would rather date a guy that respects someone enough not to go that far.
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originalfoxboy
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don't do anything you not ready
for chances are most of those
guys are blowing hot air
if you do it before your ready
and improperly it will cause alot
of problems
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djinn_3wishes
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have sex only with protection and only when you are ready
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girl
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do what you want and respect your gf.. when you do eventually start having sex with your gf youll be getting it all the time and a lot more than the kids on your team.. then youll be the cool one.
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supernelly
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There's nothing wrong with being a virgin! You might feel singled out now but it gets better. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years (i'm 20, he's 21) and we are both virgins. We are one of the few people we know that are, and all of our friends who gave it up in high school are jealous. they all look back and wish they could be strong like we are and have a lot more respect for us. the taunting and pressure goes away but they will look back and respect you for it later.
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noctec
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Here's the thing: they are all liars. You need to realize this. Don't tell them you are a virgin. Tell them you have banged lots of girls. If they ask you who tell them you don't kiss and tell. This is not the time to have sex. This is the time to get good grades and own at school.
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Maria
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You've got to be kidding me.
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tractordriver88
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Don't!
You don't have to advertise your status either.
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lala
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they are lying don't believe them
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Aaron D
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dont do anything if you are not ready your not ready its nothing to rush into you will regret it if you do but also if you hold it off to be some great thing you may be disapointed as well
you will not be able to get it back and there are many concequences
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