I know my BF masturbates ...?

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Moo Moo	Well, that is gross and very not normal. I guess all guys have their fetishes though. His just happens to be really gross. Ask him to stop if you don't like it. Hope that helped!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blue_1deep	No its not normal u should confront ur bf n tell him how u feel. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Apraz3rDude	...........LMAO! That's the funniest thing I've heard all week. I would break up with him, that dudes a freek-a-leek and it'll only get worse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

4jacks	Wow, I'm really sorry to hear that. First, it's not normal. It's some kind of fetish. It probably has a name, but I don't know it, it's certainly not "Normal" I don't really know what you should do, But you really should address the situation. He needs help. The first thing you need to do is talk to him, tell him where you stand on it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zippy	No it is not normal. Obviously he is confused. You need to confront him. He needs to decide what he wants in life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mp.	Yea thats not normal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HBK	wow Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

destiny chef	talk to him - ask him why he feels he has to do this to masturbate - best of luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

seanturner30	what? Tell him! They are my skirts! I don't want **** * **** over them! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

So Lovable	wow! just talk to him, usually by the time boys have sex, they take it easy on the masturbation. I swear, I haven't masturbated since like grade 10, right now I'm in my third year of college. Sex is just too much better. Just let him be right now but when your ready and if you get to that stage, and you do do him. He will quit no problem. When I saw the oppurtunity after I lost my virginity, I just wasn't the same. Masturbating was too lame. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kenneth H	honestly...get rid of ur bf theres more fish in the sea you will find someone better who doesnt jack off in ur skirts Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tj wayne	yo don't be disgusted did you know over 90% of the boys materba.... and watch por........ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tiger	No it is not if you are in a full relationship. In your own interests you should talk to him about it as he may have a sexual personality which is not consistent with what YOU want from the man in your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

answer wisely™ and © and ®	probably just a fetish tell him u dont like it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jaydeelet	No this isnt normal lol But everyone has fetishes.. it could be worse he could wanna eat ya poo or something? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rockodude	Not normal at all. He is probably using your skirt to get more turned on. By the way, how did he get a hold of your skirt in the first place. Well, since I don't know much about you people, I have a limited amount of suggestions. I suggest for you to keep him out of your room. Set some boundaries. Lastly, talk about this. Maybe, you two are spending less time together. Well that is all I got. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

believeinyou24	shrug Would you rather he was masturbating wearing YOURS or SOMEONE ELSE'S? Your b/f is normal -- it is something a fair number of straight men do -- I am not a straight man, and my interest in women's clothing is non-existent. I do know men, a few gay men who do drag, but mostly straight men who do cross dress, and my experience is that only straight men become sexually aroused by cross dressing. The reason you are devastated is probably that you are afraid other people will be aware of what is happening and think less of YOU for it. They won't -- they really don't care. If your b/f gets off on it -- and you have any depth at all as a human being - respect his love for you and his fetish and don't sweat it. Alternatively, if you can't see your way clear to do that, then admit that it's your shortcoming and leave him, rather than put him through agony while you "work out" that you can't be with him. Kind thoughts to both of you, Reyn Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bigj	umm i would say its not normal however everyone is different and does different things to stimulate themselves. maybe u turn him on and he wanted something of urs to get turned on to masterbate thats all. did u talk to him about what u saw etc? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Color	He has a fetish:get used to it or dump him:it is innocent. Normal????? Who is to decide what is normal??? I know a guy who gets turned on by furry art!!!! And many by sucking toes. Etc etc. Regards:Sky. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bc.bluefish	Yes, normal to masturbate...wearing ur dress tho, a tad strange...but harmless really. Throw on a pair of his boxers and get in there girl... Ya Baby...oh behave Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

John S	skirts feel good on your penisss... you should try it sometime... just get an implant or something and see for yourself and you'll find out why he likes it so much!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

slaker2010	umm im guessing he's role playing. maybe if u have sex pretend UR the guy and he's the GIRL. sounds very strange but there are guys who like that and some guys even like anal masterbation. i do and im straight! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*	Normal is just a statistical average. Your BF is human, and may experience sexual excitement by wearing women's clothes. It has nothing to do (necessarily) with being gay or transgendered. I would tell him to buy his own skirts, as you have no wish to masturbate in his clothes. Communication is key here. A good heart-to-heat talk is in order. Stay calm, you may hear things for the first time and be surprised by what he has to reveal. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Fox	There are a lot of possible reasons as for why he was doing this. He may have wanted to be closer to you, or far more likely the fabric of your skirt is really soft/smooth and feels good to masturbate with, or he is into gender role play or he's possibly a cross dresser. While it's not "normal" based solely on statistics, there's nothing wrong with this, it may be a personality thing or it may be purely sexual. My suggestion is sit down and talk to him about it, do your best to not be judgmental and try to remember how much you care for him. Chances are he's still the same guy you've been dating for however long, now you just have some idea of what he does occasionally when you're not around. I do know couples who were in similar situations and after talking it out the person in your situation found some pleasure in the activity as well. At the very least protect your "best long skirt" and give him a different one to use. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

can you entertain me?	all men masturbates some more then others. i think there is nothing wrong with him on that, but waring you skirt is another matter. i'm sure he isn't the only one who does it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

insatiable	Don't be hard on him. At least they're your skirts and not somebody elses! Or even worse, if they were some old scottish man skirts! When we don't have the "real thing" in our hands, we tend to fantasies as we did. Us men are horny by nature, so please have some patience! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

deebelfast	hahaha what ever turns him on masturbation is a strange thing it makes people do strange things for there pleasure Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

koiboy	Definitely not normal. But a guy's mind can get pretty creative when the need arises. Maybe he's picturing you wearing the skirt and he's doing you with it on. Why not test that theory and see if he's turned on even more when he sees you in the skirts. Personally, I like my wife to have some piece of clothing on when we get dirty. It just seems sexier. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ProudGayTeen22	That's a little weird. Maybe he has a strong feminine side. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bogie	dump him. or buy him his own skirt Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pinkigirl	i don't think that this is as bad as it seems. i don't think that your boyfriend is into wearing women's clothes so much as he just likes the feel of women's things(your things) when he is fantasizing and masturbating. please don't make him feel bad about it. if this is the only bad trait that this guy has then maybe you can incorporate your skirts into your lovemaking somehow and share in this. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No