I caught two guys taking a shower together in my dorm hall.?

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Louis T	social norms change all the time. In japan it is extremely common for take a bath with your father or brothers, infact there are many public baths. here in the states its a bit wierd, but to each his own I guess. I'd probably be a bit uncomfortable doing something like that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

A.S	Hey don't u guys see that guy is asking very strange questions? , I just saw another weired question 4 him too Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

triskaidekaphobia	that is highly disturbing. perhaps they have been bitten. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

takeme2thebnk	Were you intimidated? And did you want some man meat? Those are the real questions. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pushstroke	I take it since you're in a dorm that you are in college or university; thus, I would believe the guys are roughly the same age. It is normal to be curious and if both guys were consensual (and I'm sure they were if one wasn't hollering and punching out the other guy) in the same shower together, then it was healthy. Some will say that it isn't, but if they are pals, most likely curious, bi or gay and are checking out each other, one or both aren't bothering anyone else that is straight, not curious or not interested. With each other they had their sensual moment and are probably there for each other in the future when they may get the urge again to be naked with another male. Possibly they are committed to each other. I took psychology in university and part of our year dealt with sexuality. 75% of males have had at least one same sex experience in their life no matter how old they were when they did and were normal and healthy. 10% of all humans around the world are bi/gay. So long as those two were not bothering anyone, consentual to each other, then it was normal and healthy. It would have been more prudent if they'd been in a private room. For all concerned to avoid any problems, I'd suggest it best be left unsaid about the two guys in the shower. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

skigod1434	O the things that happen in college! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥alexisonfirree. :]	well, they might have just been fooling around... they could have been doing anything from watching porn and they could have been a bit horney.. it could also be possible they are gay.. no affence to anyone out there who is attracted to the same sex also. but the hot shower only expands the blood tissues in the penis and enlarges it. that's why they were in the shower comparing. I'd say its pretty normal for them to be comparing in the shower. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The LG	I say live and let live. If they are not hurting you, trying to involve you or causing some other hazard for others, let it be. If it continues to occur though, you might need to find some way to let them know they need to confine their activities to a more private place where others won't have to run into that. Straight or not, such "exploration" shouldn't be done in any public place. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

scout485	Sure, normal, healthy and quite common in most places. Did you really "catch" them or just happen to see them in the shower together, or is it simply a communal shower where guys shower together all the time? I've taken showers with other guys hundreds of times at the Y. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Adrianna Christens	I dont think its gay. Penis size is a big deal to guys. I think its kinda natural to know if what you are packing is average or above or below. Now if they were touching each other, maybe they were experimenting. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

popeyethesadist	sounds like they were proud of their junk. Prob. nothing. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

carlpettinato	Hey, I have seen alot in my life. I dont think it is normal but I dont think it is unhealthy or anything to worry about, BUT not anything you should tell others about at school. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

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AT6381	welcome to college Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rg	EXCELLENTLY HEALTHY Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

juicy_wishun	Well, it's gay. Wether being gay is "normal and healthy" is a matter of much heated debate. I personally think it's no less healthy than being straight, but who the hell am I that you should listen to my opinion? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

frankzhere	I'm straight, happily married with kid... that said, I've always been amused with the whole "gay" put down used by bullies and imature mentalities. Why can women share all their problems and compare body parts but as soon as a guy opens up and talks to his buddy or wants to compare body issues or curiosities, he or they is/are gay? women want men to be more sensative and talkative, but that doesn't come without practice! What this boils down to is that women talk to eachother and to others all the time, while men who are afraid of being labeled gay or sensative, don't talk and end up mysterious and, in reality, stupid for lack of experience and knowledge shared with other men. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweetie	thats ewwwwwwwwwwww..... unless they were hot! lol! :D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Seattle_Slacker	It's college, a time of experimentation and open mindedness. Remember when people used to tell you "There's a time and a place for everything"? They were talking about college. Whether it's normal or healthy, I'm not going to be the judge.. hell, if they were in a frat they'd be drinking piss-water beer and getting spanked by dudes. What's considered "normal" on campus? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RX8mom	Guys tend to compare 'size' whether they are gay or not. As for healthy.............who's to say. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CoolDude	Normal for junior high, not all that unusual for college. Also not unusual for them to be doing more than comparing sizes, just rude to do it in a public shower. Nothing "unhealthy" about it, in any case. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

413xyz	Its normal for guys to compare. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ashley D	Not normal - I'd spread the rumor that those 2 are gay. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xXVampirexXxLoverXx	lol, most guyz do compare, doesn't mean they're gay, just means they are curious Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweatyshavedpits	Dude, just admit that you are gay. None of us really care. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tombollocks	Curiosity is normal and healthy. In any case, you weren't asked to compare yours as well, so I wouldn't be concerned. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

~Josie~	Compared to your other questions you've asked that concerns men, I'd have to say you're gay & are just coming out of the closet! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

organizeddivas	Eh - that is iffy.... Could they be gay? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janman	it is natural for guys to do that in college. they are experimenting or just having fun. they want to see what the other guys look like. it'd just fun and games. did you feel like joining in the fun? jk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sunny r	Were you jealous. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cjtk52905	did you want to join them? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No