How do I get good at sex?
What are some tips any men or women can give me? I just started having sex in college and I want to get better (especially since I'm not over-endowed if you know what I mean...)....
What are some tips any men or women can give me? I just started having sex in college and I want to get better (especially since I'm not over-endowed if you know what I mean...).
katie |
practice makes perfect you know |
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denise |
uhm practice. you cant just be good at it, you have to progress. |
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Sarah |
everyone has different tastes you just have to get in the mind of the women you are doing |
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neanderthal |
practice |
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jameslankford |
the best advice...practice |
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D.Z. Carter |
Experience |
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suprheannariot |
well, you just have to learn what a girl likes. watch her facial expression and body language when you try new things; eventually, you'll learn what gets her off, and then you can throw out the guess work. as everyone else has said, practice makes perfect ;) |
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natalieann80 |
Marry the woman you love. Treat her right and stay faithful. I'm not kidding. Studies show that women in long-term monogamous relationships enjoy sex more than those who sleep around. If you stay with the same woman you will learn what she likes and doesn't like. There's no 'one right way' to have sex. If you go from girl to girl, not only are you at risk of getting a STD (how sexy is that?) but you will not likely be with any one woman long enough to learn how to really please her. |
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sentimoko1 |
have much foreplay so the boring sex get exciting... do hardcore metohods |
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Wellington G |
Make the girl beg you to go down there (you know), never penetrate her quickly, you have to prepare the scenario first. Talk to her ears while you are having sex, tell her how hot she is. Etc. |
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Stephanie D |
practice and making sure that you are spending the time needed to get her ready...it takes women 2x a long to get to 'that point' as men. Foreplay is crutial. |
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Well...you wanted an answer |
Learn what a clitoris and a g-spot are and then PRACTICE!!! Size isn't the highest concern, it's actually the angle you go into a woman's vagina to hit her g-spot, which isn't very high up actually. you can reach it with a finger. and the clitoris? Well, that's the tongues job :) !! |
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thats pretty spiffy!!!! |
Have sex on the bathroom floor |
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misscarinne |
Find a girl who is willing to help you experiment. She can probably offer some tips with angles, as long as you tell her right off the bat. It's a little humbling to say you're nervous and don't know what to do - but most girls would be okay with the opportunity to help you get better. Practice makes perfect.. Use a condom, k? |
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Jenn |
Be slow! No, I don't mean retarded. Just don't rush, enjoy her body and touch her slowly. Kiss lots and practice. Don't spend too much time in one place, it does irritate after a while. |
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The Great Gate |
It will help significantly if you are in good to very good shape. I think you should take up running for a hobby. Nothing too dramatic, just 2-4 miles three or four times per week. You may need to build up to this level. Work on speed and distance. Also build up your arms a bit. After you are in near tip-top shape you won't be panting after 3 minutes of sex. Sex is a very tiring activity but you won't get as exhausted as fast if you increase your stamina. |
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baserunner316 |
keep paying your taxes..... |
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kiss my sandicheeks3 |
listen to your partner you will learn what works and doesnt work |
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hockeyp1ayer14hockey |
how do u get good at typing? doing it a lot.... |
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♥ ♥ |
idk pratice and look things up online. just make sure you know number 69. if u dont know this just look at the number on its side and thing of a women and man sitting opposite heads of each other. good luck!--good sex! |
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makingthisup |
Sex is best when the man cares for you, eager for you ...then the sex is best. If a man is trying to be good and asks to many questions...like "did you come?" or "Did you like that?" it's a big turn off! In other words, for most women sex isn't about technique, but about how you make her feel. If you make her feel safe and cared for and you behave as if you enjoy her body and think she is beautiful..then sex will be perfect and she will feel wild and sexy! |
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kira |
i would say practice..but that dosent mean practicing with every girl you see and wants it...and also to ask the person your with wat they like and dont like |
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hose_b |
The best thing you can do is relax and take your time. Most rookies try to ride it like it's a horse at the the freak'in Kentucky Derby. Women like it when you start slow then build up. I know it's boring, but chicks like allot of foreplay. Oh yea, and bang allot of chicks. That'll help. AND WEAR A RUBBER! |
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Mike P |
watch some porn u ill get some new ideas |
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Bilinda G |
Listen to your partner. when you have sex you should be in tuned to your partners body. You should try to listen to the different sounds they make. You should know by know that ouch means stop and oh yea means keep going. The best piece of advise is to ask. When you kiss your partner on the neck you say Do you like it when I kiss you there. When you move further south you say do you like it when I lick you there. Do you like my tongue to swirl or go back and forth. Watch the body language. If they start to stiffen up it is b/c something is not feeling good. If they are wanting to touch you and can't keep their hands off of you then you are doing something good. |
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Mikey |
eat *****. |
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gypsyveg |
Go slow, ask the girl what she likes, control - make sure she has an orgasm first, oral sex, etc. |
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fengweimn |
1. exercise--specifically shoulder muscles (to hold yourself up), stomach, and lower back, plus cardio--you'll have more energy, strength, and confidence, which goes a long way. 2. practice as much as you can. practice, practice, practice. it's best if it's with the same person because they can give you feedback and you can try new things. 3. don't forget about foreplay 4. relax and just have fun with it. |
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Symone |
Girls NEED foreplay! This is a MUST!! And have the girl tell you what she likes...practise makes perfect |
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Rol |
Practice helps but unless your partner is uninhibited enough to tell you what they want the best way is to read, read in chat rooms, some of the best places are women's chat rooms if you can get them to answer questions (assuming it's women you want to please) Mens magazine has articles. Do searches on cunnilingus how to. One of the most important things you can learn is to be great with your mouth, it will help you with kissing and giving women pleasure they will never forget. Also look for articles on best motions for intercourse, if as you say your not hung like a horse then how to use it makes all the difference in the world. Most important, when you are making love to a woman concentrate completely on her, every breath she takes and how she takes it, every tremble or movement. That will help you learn what she likes and responds to. Each woman is different, one technique does not fit all. Concentrate on reading their slightest reaction to everything you do. To put it together understand women are about emotion and feeling, they aren't visual like men. Women don't want to be asked questions about what they like, they will tell you if that is their style, otherwise you have to see how they react to everything you do. Take your time use hands, mouth to build her up slowly. |
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katrina |
Practice makes perfect! |
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