First Sex...without condomn?

Can I have my first sex with my gf without a condom? Though she have had sex 2-3 time earlier. Plus can we get aids if both of us dont have aids. Can we have aids by ourself?? I hope I made myself cle...

Derr	if ur sure niether of u has aids then no u cant get it if u dont use a condom and u dont want to get her pregnant u need to pull out

nonickforme	yes you can have sex with your gf without a condom, however remember she has had sex before and might be at risk. condoms don't only help prevent diseases, it also helps prevent babies. think before you do anything.

OliveRuth	you will be "sleeping" with the 2-3 other men she has slept with..if she didn't have them use a condom...ie: exposed to the viruses they shared with her...genital warts, which may cause cervical cancer can be spread even with the use of a condom....if you both are HIV negative..honestly clean as a whistle, then no, you cant give each other HIV..one of you MUST have the virus....BUT you can get her pregnant..so unle you are ready to be a DADDY...use protection....and frankly, if you dont know the answers to these questions, then you need to do some research to be safe..and stop playing grown up games....

yome	if you have sex with her and no condom ,,you will be sleeping with all thous people that had sex with all the other people before her,,,put it on and keep it on at all time ,,,its your life

mr hobo	any time u have sex and dont wanna get ur FEMALE partner pregnant u use a condom. y would either of u get aids if u dont have it in the first place. im not sure u understand what aids is. U can have aids by yourself, aids is just a disease that is sexually transferred

MissA	Of course physically you can... whether it is a wise idea or not is a whole other issue. AIDS does not spontaneously generate from sex. Unless one partner already has it, the other won't get it from sex, but some people carry it without showing symptoms for a while. Other STDs also are transmittable if you don't use a condom, not to mention that you will have to use another birth control method unless you want her to get pregnant.

KJGabe	I think that no matter what, especially for your first time you should use a condom, you just don't want to risk getting her pregnant or getting an STD or virus if she were to have one. Just when in doubt always practice safe sex, it's better to be safe than sorry. I'm sure your girlfriend is telling you the truth, but you can never be too careful.

momofthesouth2001	no u can't do it without a condom unless u want ur 1st baby with her.

Abby	no you cant get HIV if neither of you has it and Don't use a condom only if you want to be a DADDY

Lovely84	Use a condom always. You dont know what her previous sex partners had. Do you know she could have herpes but dont know herself because some people dont have any signs or symptoms. A lot of disease can cause no symptoms. Just use a condom. And if neither of you have aids then neither of you can contract it from one another. Again, just use a condom, nothing can happen if you use one but a h3ll of a lot can happen if you dont.

wish I were	If you have sex without a condom you can get her pregnant and risk getting a disease from her if she has one. If neither of you have aids, then you can't get it by being together. So I would reccommend using the condom to be safe all the way around. Unless of course you don't care if you become a daddy, or get a disease!

Lauretta R	First!!!! You should always use a condom. Second. You cannot contract aids without personal contact with someone with aids. Use a condom, unless you want to be a father very young. Oh and remember aids isn't the only sexually contracted disease. How does a little herpes sound.

Mr_wall2005	no you cannot get aids if you two dont have aids yes you could have aids without engaging in sexual activity's for it can be passed down from birth but that is not likely i advice you to use a condom for babys are born without them tread carefully

Carl_the_Truth	NOT a good idea. She NEEDS to be tested ! You can have a STD and not even know it. If she has one, YOU will get it from her. Go to the library and look this up.

lyn	YOU CAN'T GET AIDS UNLESS YOUR WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS THEM. DON'T HAVE SEX WITHOUT PROTECTION, THAT'S THE BEST WAY TO GET HER PG. ALWAYS USE PROTECTION.

bmac	No. No. No. No. No. You have to use a condom. She can infect you. Don't tell me that she's clean. 85% of people with STDs, AIDs, Hepatitis don't even know they have it. Use a condom every time. I hope I made MYSELF clear........

PraiseBob	As with any STD, you can only catch it from having sex with someone who has been infected by someone else with the disease. As for the condom, I would be much more concerned about unwanted pregnancy than aids. Unless she is using some other form of birth control, wearing one is a darned good idea.

ariarghey	Aids can be transmitted by sexual intercouse, saliva or an open cut (blood). So even if you don't get it sexually you can get it! now i think you two need to get checked if your worried about this....chances are you are ok. As far as condoms go....yes! USE CONDOMS...especially if you are worried about aids. Also don't forget an important factor here....babies....you can get her pregnant so i think you should always use a condom and she should take some sort of birth control method.

Laughable	Well, if your gf has had other partners, theres a chance she could have aids. and then, if she had sex with you....you could get aids. You should both get tested, thats the only way to know for sure. and if you never had sex, you can't have aids, unless your mother had aids when she gave brth to you....but you probably would have known by now, since the doctors check your blood when your born.

INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS	youre going to die of aids, or even worse get her pregnant at an early age and end up trailer park trash for the rest of your life...so go for it

byron101540	If you stay true to each other, odds are against any STD's Babies cost over $250,000 to raise to an adult. Wish I could send ya a movie . About a guy in a grocery store with his 3 yo brat raising all kinds of hell. Screaming, kicking, throwing stuff on the floor. The last frames of the movie "Don't you wish you had worn a condom" :-)

amazon	I would not advise to it, if you have sex without a condom and both of you don't have aids then you don't need a condom, but if you don't use a condom then you might get an STD.

Evan	Good luck with that 8 yr old boy.

crazy person	um just use condoms. even though none of yall have aids theres a high chance yall might get STD's bc your gf already had sex with other guys. wear one just in case.

BV	USE A CONDOM all the time you have sex if you don't want to stress and risk getting your girlfriend pregnant.

Kutekymmee	you obviously are not mature enough to have sex yet

â•£China â™¥ Dollâ•	You cannot get AIDS if neither of you have it. Unless you want a child, use a condom.

Mr 51	Use a condom, don't be a moron. I doubt you want kids yet, and if she has had sex even once, she could have a number of sexually transmitted diseases that you should try to protect yourself from. Unless you are trying to have a baby, wrap it up!

Nurse Annie	If you don't want for her to get pregnant, it is wise to use a condom. Though a condom is not 100% effective, it still can protect against pregnancy up to 85% of the time. It is also effective in preventing any types of stds. AIDS is passed from one person to another- it doesn't happen any other way.

Pissed off pussycat!	You cannot get aids unless you come into contact with bodily fluid of someone infected. ALWAYS USE A CONDOM

Lene H	What makes you think you don't have to use a condom just because it's the first time? The answer is no. You should use a condom AND you should make a habit out of it. If she had unprotected sex 2-3 times earlier, there is still a chance that she has aids... Tests are only reliable 6 months (to a year) after your last unprotected contact. Not only sex transmits aids, you can get it through contact with blood too. (Through a small bruise or something...) Hey, and it's not only aids... There are a lot of scary sexually transmittable diseases...