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hoping for change	the more often you have sex the longer you last. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

K*	Hey, I hope you don't feel awkward that a girl is answering your question. Firstly, those girls either have high expectations or have lost their perception of time. Under 10 minutes is by no means abnormal. I would say that there's no such thing as fast or slow sex, I think it's just about satisfying both partners, and it CAN be achieved in under 10 minutes! It's completely normal the first few times you have sex to ejaculate quickly (termed premature ejaculation), but it definitely doesn't mean you're suffering from erectile dysfunction or anything. After a while, guys find that they can go for longer times. If you're still confused/worried about anything, and as embarassing is it may seem, you should have a talk with your physician. There's also a lot of info out there on teen health websites. I've put a link below as a source you can check out.. Hope this helps! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pen	its only natural that the first time will be fast, thats just how it is. I think that its normal...not really sure since I've never had to worry about this issue...but pratacie makes perfect right...but wait to have sex with someone you really feel is the person you will spend your life with and know that she wont laugh if she thinks it was fast..its a learing process. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hint177	my friend was just talking about this the other day, her exboyfriend was about 45 seconds. but then again they didnt have a good relationship. i think that everyone is different, not everyone is slow. if your with the right person, they should respect you and how your body works. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Amanda	If youre concerned about actual sex, they make condoms called "lasting performance" or something like that. I believe theyre by trojan. They have a small amount of numbing stuff in them which help men who normally ejaculate quickly to hold off longer. However it does not numb you to the point you cant feel or it cant enjoy it... just enough to slow things down a bit. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

woodie	Hey Bud, don't worry about embarrassing yourself, guys just naturally don't last as long as women in the sack. Unless you and your woman spend a lot of time discussing it beforehand you're probably not going to satisfy her the first couple of times anyway. After you've done it a few times, you'll be able to last longer than 10 mins. Maybe tell her your fears and get her to give you head first that's pretty nice too!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lozzielaws	First time for any bloke is not gonna be a long love-fest. Most men are somewhat quick off the mark their first time, its just the exitement of finally doing it. All you can do is tell your girlfriend that its your first time, and if she cares about you, she will be fine about it. As for masturbating, not many men take long when they do that, they certainly dont last as long as when they are having sex. With masturbation its usually a quick means to an end. With sex theres foreplay and you can always pull out if you think you are near coming, pay her boobs some attention for a minute or so until your urge dies down a bit, then you can go back in and carry on. Do this a few times and as long as you pay her some attention while you are waiting for your urge to die off a bit, you will be fine. Another thing you could try, is ensure you make her come first, then she wont mind so much if you are quick! Sex is about discovery and fun, I know its all unknown at first, but practice makes perfect! Good luck and have fun! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jason V	Dont worry, you will improve, the first few times are very exciting but you can take steps to improve by doing lots of foreplay, changing positions & stopping if you feel the urge. The old saying practice makes perfect is very true. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

XxCrZ_3m0xX	well talk to her it shouldnt be a problem we are all different and if she really likes you, then she shouldnt mind and if she does mind, then f*** her! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Wat u lookin @	there is a technique you use , when you masturbate or have sex flat out it'll last about 10 Min's , but if you want to increase this time then when your doing your thing and when you feel your ABOUT to pass the point of no return then slow down and stop , then once the moment has passed repeat it , you can do this many times , and with practice you'll be going for an hour (Even more) good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

imma B!+CH, get over it!!!!!!	it doesn't really matter... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Geo	Do not dwell on this. As you get more experience in love making you will naturally last longer. If you worry about this then it could interfere with you getting an erection. So what you do is go ahead and plan on when you have relations with your partner that you will ejaculate in a few minutes. When that happens you will feel like stopping. What you need to do is continue to hug and caress and kiss your partner. Let her play with you etc until you are erect again. Since you are 18 this will not take long maybe 5 to 10 minutes and you will be hard enough to be able to insert the penis into her vagina. While she is petting you, you continue to pet and caress her. Then go at it again. Then if you ejaculate in 5 or 10 minutes repeat the procedure and go at it again. The problem girls complain about is that a man has sex satisfies himself with an orgasm and does not think of his partner and is ready to roll over and go to sleep. It is natural and normal for men to be quick. We just have to learn to be considerate lovers and continue with love making until our partner is satisfied. Also, do not watch porn and base your performance on what you see in a porn movie. They are making a movie, the actor ejaculates in a few minutes but they put that scene at the end of movie in the splicing room. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

June Bug	No. It's normal for a guy to be quick. The more you masterbate the more your stamina will increase Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

McDreamy Guy	masterbate nd wen you feel the urge to *** stop and wait 20seconds. then start back. that should help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

swtdrms81	I would say no, girls that young don't even know. My husband still has troubles with this and he is almost 30. You can always masturbate before, use a condom(which you should anyway)or get some cream, to help you last. Don't forget the built up to sex, its not all about penetration. Just because you can last that long with masturbation dont think it will work the same with actual sex, its a different ballgame. You could always have sex twice. When its really good or your new at it its hard to control yourself. It will come with time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tate The Great	lol, you can keep going after you have "done your deW" make sure she gets her's out of it too.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

T-Dawg	well, just do foreplay and sheit with her first.. eat her out finger her w.e so she gets pleasure and the attention is not all on how long the actual ******* lasted .. andd i would say when ur about to c u m just taking it out and slow down then kinda start up again . sex doesnt have to lasst that long .. just dont think about it and go with the flow too Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DILLIGAF	Most guys don't last 10 minutes...ahh ha ha You're normal Just do her more than once It's also normal to be nervous about this kinda thing, Relax what else can I say? By the time you're 19 it won't be an issue, you will have more experience. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Agnes	dont worry about it we all develop at different times and statistically in intercourse it takes 2.5 minutes to ejaculate, but with practice you'll be able to go longer, if your girlfriend loves you then she wont care and you shouldnt be embarassed Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Outspoken but Honest	It`s OK as long as you can make her come before you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mntekor	It really is not the same thing to masturbate and have sex. Foreplay will help you last alittle longer and your girl will love you for it... Also use PROTECTION! The feelings maybe similar but the experience is different i.e. a girl is involved. So foreplay, be romantic and use protection... in time you will build confidence when your girl compliments you on how masterful you are! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brooke P	i wouldnt worry about it dosent bother me Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

renee p	I don't think this is such an unusual question. If fact, I think this question is asked by men much older than you. I think that young men will ejaculate quite quickly in their less mature years. As you grow more experienced you will find that foreplay is what actually takes up most of the time in sex. Concentrate more on your partner and less of the actual climax and it may help you prolong things. Contrary to popular belief, women take a while to climax so all that stuff you see on videos and read in magazines are not really happening. If the actual thrusting inside of a woman would go on for ten minutes or more she would be dry, sore and just want you to get off of her. Spend a good half hour in foreplay, women need romance to in the mood. And definitely no there is not one thing wrong with you. Practice safe sex Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nicque	my guy and i can have a 5 minute sack sesh and be satisfied or go for an hour, but i aways get off and so does he and thats usually what the goal is right? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

crtbryn	Dude you are what you are dont worry about it when the time comes be a kid and dont worry about trying to have sex. by the way most of those girls are just talk and are probibly still virgins and would run screaming scared if you showed them your unit. Teens are all talk the dudes in the lockerroom have all done it but actually only 5% of the dudes that are talkin have really actually done it. all talk no worries dude be yourself and be a teenager curtdude Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Melissa L	if your still a virgin and havent had sex before ... let me tell you ... your gonna be quick no matter how much you masturbate !!!! and the girls your hearing talk ..... lol..... i am sure are talking big . some men who have been having sex for years dont go 10 minutes . dont worry about it , i am sure you will be fine !!!! :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

its_mickii	No I really don't think you have anything to worry about. From what you're describing, it sounds as though you are just starting to experiment with your sexuality. What you are going through is perfectly normal and as you gain more experience and confidence you will also gain more stamina. As for when the time comes to be intimate with your girlfriend, don't worry. It will be nothing like when you are with yourself. There will be more things to experience and explore(other than going straight to the sex!) And just as a last note, for most women it isn't the actual sex part that is the most fun, it's what leads up to sex that makes the difference! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nygirl	You are absolutely normal:) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jfunk	use a condom with her... it ma take away a little bit of the sensitivity (and its the smart thing to do) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tom K	The only time guys go for 10 minutes without finishing is when they are porno stars. Remember, there are other ways to make women get off too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cathy <3 nelse 01.16.05	don't worry about it. when my bf and i first started having sex at 16, he didn't last very long. but we did have a lot of foreplay to draw out the experience. and just because you came doesn't mean there can't be a round 2. it took my bf and me a while to last a long time because we were both virgins it was pretty quick for the 2 of us to orgasm. so don't worry about it too much Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No