Does dried come spots inside my husband's boxers mean he has masturbated?

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ran-dumb	he's having wet dreams or not "washing up" after sex. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

citymoose5	It could be that he has been aroused and precum has been on the tip of his penis producing the dried spots. Not to be rude, but if the two of you are not being intimate at least 2 - 3x a week, he will be looking for a release somewhere else. It is better for him to self-stimulate than to have another partner. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*$~Fearless~$*	Unless, he masterbates in his boxers then no. That means someone is having wet dreams or they got super turned-on...lol Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥madison♥	your a control freak your husband has control over his body parts and he doesnt have to obey your "mastrabation" rules. mastrabation is a healthy thing.. if he knew that you were snooping in his boxers then posting a queston about it he would be pretty pissed Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Steven C	well, after ejaculation a mans penis can still leak out some fluids. if you forbid him to masterbate i hope you sex him every day (: guys want it constanly - nuff said Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

scout485	Back off, he is a human male. Most men if sexually aroused or even not aware of being aroused may leak some precum which leaves the dried residue you mention--heck I have that almost every day and I know other guys do to. As to you "forbidding him" to masterbate, that is rather absurd. Might as well forbid him to breathe or pee. Plus it is his body and how do you have the right to tell him what to do with it? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Annilisa	Not necessarily, it could just be pre-come, but maybe he has been masterbating.. At the end of the day honey, you'll never stop a man from masterbating or at least wanting to, just like you couldn't stop them from thinking about other women and wanting to have sex with them. It is natural..You can't stop him from being a man. You must have a very low self esteem, what's wrong with you.. get over it... I bet he's miserable.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vincepac601	sometimes it just comes out Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jesskarules	Haha youve been pervin on your husband good job ;) Seriously some guys can just pre c.u.m without having anything sex related happen. Sometimes its a sexual fantasy thats made him pre c.u.m and sometimes it just happens out of nowhere as ive been told. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jannk310	calm down! the poor guys probably so horny from not masturbating that he has wet dreams. or sometimes if he has a b0ner, but doesn't come, sometimes it leaks out a little. gosh calm down a give the poor guy a break, it's not like he's cheating on you. and i think masturbation is a very natural thing. girls do it too! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

captain_bryce	Seeing as how you are completely insane, I don't know why I am even bothering to respond to this (yet I can't resist). 1. Every guy masturbates (whether they tell you they do or not), and most women do to in case you didn't realize. If you are a male and have a penis, you masturbate, period! According to every statistic I've ever seen at least 98% of all guys masturbate. Guess what, the other 2% are lying! 2. What kind of weird sexually repressed person are you that you would "forbid" another person from masturbating? What planet do you live on and are you living in the 21st century or what? Every sex expert says that masturbation is completely normal and healthy and it would be abnormal if a healthy male didn't masturbate. Animals masturbate for crying out loud! 3. You need to grow up and welcome yourself to the real world! If you are going around checking a guy's boxers for **** stains, then something is seriously wrong with you. Whether or not someone else masturbates is frankly none of your buisness (girlfriend or not). Furthermore, if you can get "furious" to find out that he does, it means that you really have some issues that you need to work out. If you are furious to find out that your boyfriend masturbates, then the problem is with you, not him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

andy s	you need to read more about the human male masturabting is normal and healthy but if a guy doesn't masturbate or have sex he could have a noturnal emission which is the release of semen during sleep ask him if you have a problem Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

petunia1	Don't jump to conclusions before you get furious. It is a natural thing that happens sometimes from bodily fluids, just like you wear underwear for your own reasons. That doesn't mean that he Masturbates. Check your own underwear and see what you find first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PHD	no its never means masturbation. these spot can be of pre um or due to that he has not washed upafter sex with yo uand wear those boxers. oh dont worry... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brendan G	Get a life!!! he can masturbate if he wants!!!! YOU ACTUALLY FORBID HIM!! WOW!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tin	You have serious issues. Instead of sniffing through your husband's boxers, maybe you should find a therapist. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Star SG	there r lots of things if u see some spots in men's underwear (and u r shameless, of course). 1) There is nothing unnatural in masturbating 2) Any discharge could hv happened in which case hemight need to consult a doc 3) If it is cm, then there are following possibilities: a. he had sex with u and just wore it soon after b. he had sex with somebody else and wore it soon after too c. he had a wet dream d. yes, he did masturbate in his underwear (which is highly unlikely as anyone may disgust the wet feeling after masturbating in their boxers) e. he did masturbate and then wore it soon after f. he had a urine leak (u may lick it to confirm it) g. he had a bit of poo somehow when he farted hard - which again, u may need to taste it to confirm. h. some other girl made his juices flowing but not cm as u may think i. reading (or rather, seeing) a hot magazine cud hv caused the same as (h) hope this helps. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

james m	haha I dont think it means he masturbates.... when you do masturbate it doesnt usually end up all over your boxers like that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gregory F	I think he should divorce you unless you seek psychiatric help for your mental health issues. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

john w	Yes, he masturbated. He's a been very bad boy! You need to punish him! Tell me what you're going to do, in detail. (I'm getting hard just imagining...) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Durango	You need serious help...you forbid him? Sh it no wonder the guy chokes his chicken... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Neescousin	You've got to be kidding! You forbid what is truly natural, and healthy????!!!!!I suggest you go to a therapist and find out what it is that causes you to try to repress your hubby's natural desires. As for your question, yes, some comes out without masturbation occurring, but the basis for your concerns is far from your true problem. Please seek help before you have no hubby. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

little78lucky	men can "leak" much like you have discharge so do they Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Yanda	Not neccesarily. But oh my goodness, if he wants to bash the bishop, leave him to it. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. At least its with his hand and not another women. Plus, this is said to be very natural I'm afraid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

goochie	why would you be mad? sometimes a guy's just gotta rub one out. maybe if you didnt "forbid him" to do something, he wouldnt wanna do it. Loosen your grip woman. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

thosewerethedays	Masturbation is normal and healthy, even among married people. Whether he's masturbating or just leaking or having spontaneous emissions (daytime wet dreams) is impossible to say. In any case, you two need to visit a marriage counselor, and soon, so that one of you can have her head straightened out with regard to what you can and can't dictate about the other's personal habits. If you're husband knew what you were like before he married you, then he deserves what he gets. My guess is that he's having intercourse with someone more loving and affectionate (and knowledgeable), with his pants on, and after he pulls out, he's continuing to ejaculate a little inside his shorts. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brahmabull891	Well for one, there is no way to be furious. Masterbation is a completely natural thing, that most men do. Infact if it wasn't for masterbation, men would be going around impregnating women more than we already are. But I'm not here to tell you how to live your life. I do feel sorry for your husband though. Anyway.... No it does not mean he has masturbated. Infact if a man hasn't masturbated in a long time, he can have a wet dream. I rarely have them anymore at the age of 22, but every now and then I will depending how long I've gone without sex or masturbation. I suggest you just brush it off your shoulder. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Birdie	You FORBID him??? What, are you his mother?? Maybe you're not f------ him enough you loser... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ronnie S	Wow! You are seriously whacked!!! I hope he divorces you real soon. You "forbid" him to masturbate? You are nuts! Now, after that being said, yes sometimes men leak a little, especially at night in their sleep. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wii_rock_6	LOL who the hell are you to FORBID someone else to do what IS very natural you really need help you control freak...I can see this marriage lasting for no more than a year.... Good Luck!!! I am cracking up thinking that you ARE JEALOUS of HIS own HAND pleasuring himself!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lab Assistant Beaker	Hardly. Do the secretions in your knickers mean you have been doing the same? The body secretes naturally, and if he had masturbated it would be more than spots. You can't forbid him to masturbate. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No